SA I wanted to ask you guys your experience

[이 회장님]

Last Sunday, I met up with a hot White girl. 25 years old, 5’9”, and smoking hot. lol.

She gets around 500 messages a day from the site. She showed it to me and I laughed and shook my head. lol.

I told her I get a lot of messages from fake profiles asking me about crypto currency. lol.

We went to a nice French restaurant (the bill came out to 1K) and just had a very nice chat for five hours and then went to the hotel (300) for a couple of hours. We didn’t realize that five hours went by.

We never discussed PPM. So I put 1K in an envelope and placed it under her LV purse and she called me silly and gave it back to me. She said I was nice and cool and likes how I dress which is why she wanted to see me and we’ll be meeting again this Friday.

I told her we’ll be going to Burger King for dinner and she laughed. lol.

She said most of her past SD dates are attorneys and doctors and although they are rich, she doesn’t like that they don’t give her her personal space (e.g. text and call her too often and asking her where she is). lol.

She went to Maldives and I told her why fly all the way there. There’s plenty of nice beaches in Long Island. lol.

 

[Newwhaler18]

Last Sunday, I met up with a hot White girl. 25 years old, 5’9”, and smoking hot. lol.

She gets around 500 messages a day from the site. She showed it to me and I laughed and shook my head. lol.

I told her I get a lot of messages from fake profiles asking me about crypto currency. lol.

We went to a nice French restaurant (the bill came out to 1K) and just had a very nice chat for five hours and then went to the hotel (300) for a couple of hours. We didn’t realize that five hours went by.

We never discussed PPM. So I put 1K in an envelope and placed it under her LV purse and she called me silly and gave it back to me. She said I was nice and cool and likes how I dress which is why she wanted to see me and we’ll be meeting again this Friday.

I told her we’ll be going to Burger King for dinner and she laughed. lol.

She said most of her past SD dates are attorneys and doctors and although they are rich, she doesn’t like that they don’t give her her personal space (e.g. text and call her too often and asking her where she is). lol.

She went to Maldives and I told her why fly all the way there. There’s plenty of nice beaches in Long Island. lol.

Very creative story. Of course she declined $1k! And a guy who blows $1k on dinner with a girl he first meets off a prostitution site …. Well …..

 

[Queens420!]

I just signed up for SA and filled everything out and added a pic. Forgot about it for 2 weeks and now I have around 7 messages from local girls. Should I pay to read these or all they all scams? The pics look legit, and they’re all local enough. Seems real but unsure if I should pay. Always wanted to test out SA and now I’m tempted

 

[maximus799]

I just signed up for SA and filled everything out and added a pic. Forgot about it for 2 weeks and now I have around 7 messages from local girls. Should I pay to read these or all they all scams? The pics look legit, and they’re all local enough. Seems real but unsure if I should pay. Always wanted to test out SA and now I’m tempted

If you are just paying to read those messages, then don't bother. They are most likely scams of some sort. For the girls actually worth seeing, you need to put in the work to message and go through the whole song and dance. It's a different ball game from amps.

 

[이 회장님]

I just signed up for SA and filled everything out and added a pic. Forgot about it for 2 weeks and now I have around 7 messages from local girls. Should I pay to read these or all they all scams? The pics look legit, and they’re all local enough. Seems real but unsure if I should pay. Always wanted to test out SA and now I’m tempted

I recommend get the promo code and just pay for one month. Try it out.

If they mention crypto then it’s a scam.

 

[이 회장님]

Very creative story. Of course she declined $1k! And a guy who blows $1k on dinner with a girl he first meets off a prostitution site …. Well …..

You sound bitter. lol.

I have another date tonight.

 

[Biff Pocaroba]

I just signed up for SA and filled everything out and added a pic. Forgot about it for 2 weeks and now I have around 7 messages from local girls. Should I pay to read these or all they all scams? The pics look legit, and they’re all local enough. Seems real but unsure if I should pay. Always wanted to test out SA and now I’m tempted

7 messages isn't that many TBH. If you have a complete profile, and get premium, you'll get 7 an hour, at least to start, in NYC. If you do a boost, you'll get 7 in 10 minutes. You may want to try a month to dip your toe in, but it can get addicting.

 

[Sporty3064]

I get 4-8 a day on Secret Benefits but I'm pretty open and direct with my profile.
Be picky and precise when choosing to message back. Nothing wrong with browsing it's good practice to see patterns and pick the real ones from the fakes, money grabbers and bait and switchers.
I've had good luck on the site but it didn't happen overnight

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Money but no game= Sugar Daddy, who pays for trips but can't get them to hook up.

I do not understand this part.
When you say "can't get them to hook up" are you saying that there are well off guys, "Sugar Daddies" if you will, that regularly give out money without sex in return???
Why would they pay?
I am guessing you meant something else here.
You are making it sound like guys who pay for vacations and compensation for the girl, then spend the weekend begging the girl for sex to no avail. I doubt that happens.

 

[Brian Cartier]

I do not understand this part.
When you say "can't get them to hook up" are you saying that there are well off guys, "Sugar Daddies" if you will, that regularly give out money without sex in return???
Why would they pay?
I am guessing you meant something else here.
You are making it sound like guys who pay for vacations and compensation for the girl, then spend the weekend begging the girl for sex to no avail. I doubt that happens.

Exactly, it has happened. I was friends with a stripper who told me there was this guy who invite her and her friends to vacations. Then she would play hard to get. Its likely he got a HJ or BJ but not more. There was no reason for her to lie to me though since she was close friends with my GF at the time.

For many of us "seasoned mongers" this behavior might be crazy but there's guys who are like that. Since they have been "indoctrinated" that they should feel shame for paying or shame for dating younger women.

 

[Sporty3064]

Yes that absolutely happens. Some profiles that say platonic,companionship, friendship..etc
Need to be passed right over.
I had a SB a few years ago and she spent weekends with a very wealthy older gentleman. He used to wine and dine her. Also give her $$ for her nice apt and no sex. She saved that for me lol

 

[Uniquelyme]

Ima write my adventures so far on here. This past go around. I met up with a 22 yr old White girl 5ft8 or so phat ass attractive face . Never talked money scooped her up from Manhattan last month on the way there. She texts me that ik this is an arrangement though. I respond yes . She texts me if I brought cash. I text her yes. Back to my place we chill, I smoke some bud . We hook up after we are done I order food. I then hand her 250 her reaction changes says $400. I told her I never give $400. Gave her 320 told her will see her again. Didnt even though it was decent and cim finish . We hung out 3 +hours.

Next girl I meet is 22 NJ latina. She is checking me out. Asks my age tell her 41 she says I look 27'-28 we head back to my place we hook up . Before we do my manhood in her hand she tells me the money I tell her ok I hand her agreed upon 300. We smoke she was above average nice ass and cute enough. We chill for 2 hrs I drop her off. She texts me once and a blue begged me to add her to whatsapp. Got annoyed when one day I responded 7 hours later think shes in another part of the country problems with Mom.

I hooked back up with my now 23 yr old 5ft8 Hong kong sb who would charge in amp land $360 for hr. Used to see this girl for free sometimes, she would sleep over. She was falling in love. Called her she tells me she gets minimum $500. I told her it's me cut that bullshit out. I've seen her cry I've seen her act submissive. She says ok if I could please give her $300. We hook up the passion ain't there. Guess the 6 mos apart influenced that. Saw her again a week later. Still not great she stayed around the same time 3 hrs. Last time she took an uber home this time dropped her off. We talked she tells me I should've called her before. She basically is saying she was hurt without saying it. Says next time she wont charge me. I felt bad I texted and spoke to her and told her we should just not see each other no use forcing it or she doesn't trust me anymore. I get it. Pissed away a free session for good Karma.

Had my first flake a 27 yr old white girl .

Met up with a 23 yr old Asian girl who looked a bit frumpy I didnt let her in the car. When I saw her from a few feet away.

Met a 24 yr old Pawg . Really cool chick. Works 2 jobs has roommates in Williamsburg. Smashed her smoked with her . She forgot my age asked thought I was 29. Her ass is crazy tits nothing grand cute face looks good in pics. Will see her this week again. This one she never mentioned money . She never asked . But she mentioned she works 2 jobs . Sometimes roommates arent reliable. So I offered her some money she asked for $400. Told her that's too much she tried for $350. Told her I know shes attracted to me. She was checking what i was wearing hasnt looked at her phone she enjoyed the sex i could tell she smiled. Said ok I told her I got the but and will get us food next time she smiled and I'm keeping this one on rotation. Reached out to an Sb from round this time last year she wants to chill 22-23 yr old White NJ girl beautiful tits.

Got plenty of numbers some seem too eager . SA is great it take some work some charm to get them to a good rate some basic common sense . To those that doubt it. Keep on doubting.

 

[Newwhaler18]

Ima write my adventures so far on here. This past go around. I met up with a 22 yr old White girl 5ft8 or so phat ass attractive face . Never talked money scooped her up from Manhattan last month on the way there. She texts me that ik this is an arrangement though. I respond yes . She texts me if I brought cash. I text her yes. Back to my place we chill, I smoke some bud . We hook up after we are done I order food. I then hand her 250 her reaction changes says $400. I told her I never give $400. Gave her 320 told her will see her again. Didnt even though it was decent and cim finish . We hung out 3 +hours.

Next girl I meet is 22 NJ latina. She is checking me out. Asks my age tell her 41 she says I look 27'-28 we head back to my place we hook up . Before we do my manhood in her hand she tells me the money I tell her ok I hand her agreed upon 300. We smoke she was above average nice ass and cute enough. We chill for 2 hrs I drop her off. She texts me once and a blue begged me to add her to whatsapp. Got annoyed when one day I responded 7 hours later think shes in another part of the country problems with Mom.

I hooked back up with my now 23 yr old 5ft8 Hong kong sb who would charge in amp land $360 for hr. Used to see this girl for free sometimes, she would sleep over. She was falling in love. Called her she tells me she gets minimum $500. I told her it's me cut that bullshit out. I've seen her cry I've seen her act submissive. She says ok if I could please give her $300. We hook up the passion ain't there. Guess the 6 mos apart influenced that. Saw her again a week later. Still not great she stayed around the same time 3 hrs. Last time she took an uber home this time dropped her off. We talked she tells me I should've called her before. She basically is saying she was hurt without saying it. Says next time she wont charge me. I felt bad I texted and spoke to her and told her we should just not see each other no use forcing it or she doesn't trust me anymore. I get it. Pissed away a free session for good Karma.

Had my first flake a 27 yr old white girl .

Met up with a 23 yr old Asian girl who looked a bit frumpy I didnt let her in the car. When I saw her from a few feet away.

Met a 24 yr old Pawg . Really cool chick. Works 2 jobs has roommates in Williamsburg. Smashed her smoked with her . She forgot my age asked thought I was 29. Her ass is crazy tits nothing grand cute face looks good in pics. Will see her this week again. This one she never mentioned money . She never asked . But she mentioned she works 2 jobs . Sometimes roommates arent reliable. So I offered her some money she asked for $400. Told her that's too much she tried for $350. Told her I know shes attracted to me. She was checking what i was wearing hasnt looked at her phone she enjoyed the sex i could tell she smiled. Said ok I told her I got the but and will get us food next time she smiled and I'm keeping this one on rotation. Reached out to an Sb from round this time last year she wants to chill 22-23 yr old White NJ girl beautiful tits.

Got plenty of numbers some seem too eager . SA is great it take some work some charm to get them to a good rate some basic common sense . To those that doubt it. Keep on doubting.

This I believe. I believe uniquelyme. I have had similar experiences. I used to see a very famous milf porn star with fake D cups for 300 per meet. She used to like occasionally going for Chinese food with me beforehand. I once met a 21 yo NYU undergrad and we fucked for 3 hours; she had huge boobs but was like a 7; when we were done she said she normally got 600 and I was like … uh… I’m not used to that and have her 250 and she was cool. Saw her once more at her place for two rounds and money was not discussed and I gave her 225 and a few bottles of wine. I once had a girl for 900 month, we met at bars 2x week and would finish at the hotel. She acted like she was my gf. Another 20 yo Latina with huge boobs I offered 250 to, but she said I don’t have to pay her each time. She was pretty but a few pounds overweight. But I also had major duds and nutcases. I made bad decisions. The key is to not lose frame and not lose control. Honestly, though, it takes so much time and the girls are so mentally ill that it’s better to just go to an AMP and otherwise jerk off. Just know the girls are not to be trusted!

 

[Newwhaler18]

Now I also had …. One woman in her 30s with fake boobs make out with me at the bar and when we went to the hotel, she kind of refused to leave after I had to. She demanded more money and left threatening messages the next day, and thankfully she left the room without a scene. Another FLA stripper told me she was pregnant 8 days after which is IMPOSSIBLE and asked for abortion money. Another tried to threaten to out me unless I got her a Hermes bracelet and then I neutralized her by threatening to put her (phD student from Indian family). And so on … then Again, I saw a 22 yo half Spanish half Arab who was a college student and Hooters waitress. When she got worn out during round 2, she offered to rebate half of the 300 I paid. So it was 150 to fuck a hot college girl - and she cooked me a lunch that I ate between rounds!
so you take the good with the bad. You have to be able to put up with the drama and have time on your hands.

But the guys who say the girl asks 1000 - which indicates they are mercenary - then declines any money afterwards are spinning tall tales IMO …. Because if you are married and older you just cannot play in that game, and if you are single, why are you on SA and not Bumble?

 

[이 회장님]

I do not understand this part.
When you say "can't get them to hook up" are you saying that there are well off guys, "Sugar Daddies" if you will, that regularly give out money without sex in return???
Why would they pay?
I am guessing you meant something else here.
You are making it sound like guys who pay for vacations and compensation for the girl, then spend the weekend begging the girl for sex to no avail. I doubt that happens.

I know a few gentlemen who are 70 and above and they don’t have sex with their SBs. They just cuddle and sleep together. I don’t know why. Easy money for the SBs. lol.

 

[italianjob]

This thread is literally like SA. 25+ pages and we have to read and filter between people offering valuable tips or bragging with questionable stories. It's just frustrating

Ideally we should stick to tips, or share experiences only if they come with useful insight for all.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I know a few gentlemen who are 70 and above and they don’t have sex with their SBs. They just cuddle and sleep together. I don’t know why. Easy money for the SBs. lol.

This I perfectly understand.
They are lonely with low/no sex drive and want companionship to remind them of the old days.
Sex is really not part of the transaction, and he is happy with that.
But a somewhat younger guy who wants sex, pays for it, begs for it even, tolerating a treacherous sl*t that witholds even after being paid?
That I do not understand.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

This thread is literally like SA. 25+ pages and we have to read and filter between people offering valuable tips or bragging with questionable stories. It's just frustrating

Ideally we should stick to tips, or share experiences only if they come with useful insight for all.

OK, here is my tip based on both SA and life experience in the NYC metro area.
I'll say it one more time then not post on this thread again.

Scenario 1 - you want super hot, petite, white or east asian college age girls (18-24)
- Given: money (within reason) is not an object. Meetups for under 400 (probably more like 600) are out of the question.
a) You look like Channing Tatum or George Clooney or Tom Brady - You're in!!!
b) Are a regular Joe Schmoe like most of us - You will have a lot of trouble and may snag one with a ton of work. Maybe. But you might not. Probably won't in fact.

Scenario 2 - you are as not picky as I am, and you are ok with 6s and below and maybe get lucky and snag a 7. Also, age, race and build not an issue.
a) You're In!

That's all I've got.

 

[dglsmn]

This thread is literally like SA. 25+ pages and we have to read and filter between people offering valuable tips or bragging with questionable stories. It's just frustrating

Ideally we should stick to tips, or share experiences only if they come with useful insight for all.

Have to strongly disagree with you 500 comments on this topic started by the OP Enjoy all of the comments stories advice laughs and insight by the members of this “club” Keep it going !

 

[Cyrus2ofNY]

I wonder if I ask nicely, SA will lift my ban lol. I really hate the idea of paying to message in Secret Benefits but it might be my only option back in the game.