Maybe some of you fellahs may have succeeded, or will succeed, where I failed, but here's another one from SA.
Hani is a petite very hot K-Girl from NJ who looks much better than her pics.
"Love at first slight" - her profile headline is deceiving. Love is nowhere in the equation.
I went on one dinner/drinks date with her - it was nice and she made no mention of money.
On our second date, we enjoyed dinner at a Midtown East Japanese restaurant. It was fun and we seemed to enjoy each other's company.
Afterwards, we tried to get into Duet 48 for karaoke, but it was packed.
We went to a nearby rooftop bar.
While drinking and enjoying the atmosphere, she whispered to me, "I'm on the website because I need a Sugar Daddy. $1,000 and no Uber." I said okay, thanks for telling me. I was considering it.
Then, she went off into the glass-walled smoking room, where she appeared to be the only female among a group of guys.
Then, I saw a guy put his arm around her on her shoulders.
I counted: 1-Mississippi; 2-Mississippi; 3-Mississippi; 4-Mississippi; 5-Mississippi!
5-Mississippi! WTF! 5-MFen-Mississippi! He then removed it. I should have immediately left.
When she eventually returned to the bar, I told her: "Maybe you want to hang out with those guys instead?"
I mentioned what I observed.
She seemed surprised that I was angry and claimed that she experienced a case of mistaken identity and that she thought they were the guys with whom I conversed on the elevator ride up to the rooftop bar.
She sort of apologized. We wrapped things up and left. I maintained my Poker Face as I got her an Uber and she left for NJ.
I was fuming all the way home, but I didn't want to send her a buzzed-angry text.
I sent her a good morning text the next day. After she replied, I told her that I had a great time the previous night - up until that guy put his arm around her.
She became defensive, then said "I'm sorry. What can I do?"
I replied, $700 and no Uber for our next meeting, which would obviously be behind closed doors. That seemed appropriate given her transgression.
She expressed minimal contrition, but wasn't sincere enough to make amends for marring what would have been a very nice evening from start to finish. If we were to have a sex-and-dinner date, I see the possibility of being disrespected yet again.
Also, my impression from spending time in Seoul and New York is that most K-Girls would punch a stranger if he put his arm around one of them.