I didn't come across this thread until now and after reading, I wanted to chime in with my experience, as many of you have helped me over the years with your experiences. Happy to answer any further questions via DM to support my fellow mongers on here.
In general, whether its with AMP or SA, I have a general type. Petite (5'5 and below), fit, and extremely attractive women. It matters not the race. Beauty is beauty, though black girls that look like Zoe Saldana are super rare on SA, but I was able to spend a lovely afternoon recently and she completely blew my mind. I even went above my normal $500 rate and got her down to $800 from $1K. She is the only person I've ever offered that much for. I don't believe I've been with someone with as perfect of a body ever. Also, I will echo the sentiment that latin girls, those comments made me laugh. I have been staying away for similar reasons. White American and Asian girls are 2/3 of who I see. Eastern European girls have been mixed. Middle Eastern women, Persian to be exact, have been amazing when I can hook one. Anyway, I digress. After all this is all a dream right?
Some of you have posted similar feedback, so apologies if I might seem repetitive.
1. If you are willing to put in the time, you can usually find someone that you really want. Unfortunately for me, because my standards are so high, it takes quite a bit of effort. For example, for every 50 messages I send, I will get maybe 20 responses. Out of that 20, half will get to texting outside of SA. Out of that 10, perhaps 3 end up in a meet and greet, and 1 ends up in an arrangement.
2. For someone who said not all girls are transactional, I completely agree. I tend to avoid the escorts/professional sugar babies and seek out girls that just need some help from time to time, or even better, are too busy with their lives to date. Think girls in grad school, especially med or law school, or girls that just graduated from college and starting very busy careers. In their limited time, they don't want to waste it on men in their 20s that don't know how to treat a beautiful young woman. This is where it does help you if you are both charming and handsome, which work well in my favor. I've noticed recently there are flight attendants on SA, but I haven't gotten one to bite, though I am trying.
3. I start out with PPM and for the right girl, I will switch to a monthly allowance. For $500, I have been able to find young women in their 20s that fit my criteria. For example, at the moment I am seeing a tiny beautiful 23 year old blonde. It took me messaging and hanging out with her for 4 dates before we slept together, but I don't think it would have happened any other way since I was her first arrangement. When we hang out, its minimally 4-5 hours, but I didn't give her an allowance until we hooked up.
4. As someone else mentioned, some of these girls will sleep with you without protection and it is glorious. Some of my arrangements have been amazing experiences that involve travel, vacations, and yes, I do take them shopping and buy them nice gifts. Everyone is here for various reasons, but for me, I enjoy being able to spend time with an attractive young woman in public at a Michelin restaurant where everyone is wonders how someone like me managed to snag such a beauty.
5. Use a background checker, I use beenverified.com. I find the girls in my target demographic will give you their real mobile numbers and you can usually figure out their real identity, their social media profiles, and even their LinkedIn. Before I did this, I was scammed a few times. I learned my lesson.
6. Don't discount the fun you can have on meet and greet dates! I remember during the pandemic when everything was shut down I invited a few women to my office since no one was coming in. 3 of them flat out gave me blow job without anything in return after a $10 lunch. Literally blew my mind. I couldn't believe it.
7. I have used SA in cities all over the world. NYC has the most available young women, period. If you can't find someone here for yourself, then perhaps the AMP scene is the best for you. No other city in the US compares. London isn't too bad either, but I found quite a few professional there that try to play off as amateurs.
8. Here's a fun fact. Any of you remember Angie from MAGFE? I had an arrangement with her for almost half a year after she left the AMP scene. I know some of you were wondering where she went. Well, I kept her occupied.
She decided she didn't want to deal with the men that was visiting her at the spa anymore. I rarely have done this with AMP girls, but sometimes you just have a nice connection with someone and it works out.
9. If you ask nicely and you don't record their faces, or give them a masquerade mask, most girls will let you record them.
10. I understand there are those of us that seek out value on SA and I think that is perfectly okay. There is something for everyone. I just wanted to echo the sentiment from someone that all the primo box (for those of you that are Boondock Saint fans) seem to be on SA these days. That's why I've been spending less and less time in the AMP world.
Hope this helps some of you looking for the SA adventure. For me, its definitely been worth it.
