Seeking arrangements is my kryptonite I appreciate yall

[InfiniteKpop2]

What are some of the scams the scammer are pulling?
e.g. send them money before meeting .

 

[Slips1118]

What are some of the scams the scammer are pulling?
e.g. send them money before meeting .

Definitely pay app scams, send money ahead of time, but some are bold and will go to the extent of meeting up in a public place, then collecting on site and then disappearing by excusing themselves to the bathroom. Others might even meet up and threaten to dox you.

It's a wide variety. I don't want people to get overly paranoid there is still fun to be had just need to protect your self don't give ammo to those that may intend to do harm. If you use your real number and pictures then be extra safe. Meet in person and maybe have a few dates before exchanging personal info beyond a burner number. Avoid using your own place and stick to hotels. Don't check in or out with her there, do it on your own time to avoid her potentially seeing your private info. Use cash, dont be lazy with the pay apps. Your life is worth more than the convenience. Hide your wallet and personal items.

 

[gaga2732]

Mr Slips, wow, all that for some p? tyrst ladies or a well know agency is a better deal, imho. you getting roofies and/or OD by a lady sounds extreme 2 me. but i am not judging. if it is your thing, do it, i personally do not want to do the hutchense move. or ending. i am old school. i.e. if it sounds to good to be true.... yup, i also have a bridge to sell. full disclousure, i have never used an S/A to seek a provider, never will. their whole business model is full of deceits, not truthful. imho, we are not a prostitutes, we just looking for friends, what happens between friends is.... all bull crap. call it what it is.....money for sex. PERIOD. stop with the PC and the BS. it is what it is. as always ymmv and stay safe

 

[Slips1118]

Mr Slips, wow, all that for some p? tyrst ladies or a well know agency is a better deal, imho. you getting roofies and/or OD by a lady sounds extreme 2 me. but i am not judging. if it is your thing, do it, i personally do not want to do the hutchense move. or ending. i am old school. i.e. if it sounds to good to be true.... yup, i also have a bridge to sell. full disclousure, i have never used an S/A to seek a provider, never will. their whole business model is full of deceits, not truthful. imho, we are not a prostitutes, we just looking for friends, what happens between friends is.... all bull crap. call it what it is.....money for sex. PERIOD. stop with the PC and the BS. it is what it is. as always ymmv and stay safe

Hey Pros aren't for everyone. The price structure, as others described, isn't for everyone. Especially now a days. With so many ladies on sites like tryst asking ++1k hr rates. For many they can get more for the money on SA. Hell how many pros ask for ID and social media to verify now a days. Same shit can happen with them if the feel crossed. It's like a knife people give to angencies/indies to hang over their own heads.

Preventing issues on there is simple. As I stated don't provide ammo to the scammers and they will just move on to another target. They are going to look for the path of least resistance.

 

[sugarmaster]

Thing is, escort rates have ballooned. There was a time when you could get a hot girl through an agency for $350 an hour in a major city. That obviously makes sense compared to paying a SB that rate and paying for a hotel. What can make a SB a good investment is that you can get multiple hours if you vibe with her. But you have to spring for a hotel. I do not know who is paying escorts 700 per hour and more these days, but they are all asking that in major cities. That leaves AMPs. Or SBs. But SBs only make sense if it is for multiple hours, otherwise the tribute and hotel cost is just not economical.

 

[Slips1118]

Thing is, escort rates have ballooned. There was a time when you could get a hot girl through an agency for $350 an hour in a major city. That obviously makes sense compared to paying a SB that rate and paying for a hotel. What can make a SB a good investment is that you can get multiple hours if you vibe with her. But you have to spring for a hotel. I do not know who is paying escorts 700 per hour and more these days, but they are all asking that in major cities. That leaves AMPs. Or SBs. But SBs only make sense if it is for multiple hours, otherwise the tribute and hotel cost is just not economical.

Short stay rates were prevalent were I was. These weren't fancy hotels but not dive motels either. For 60-100 I could get a room for 3-5 hours. Do you guys have something similar around here?

 

[Blixen]

Wow. More than one ex ….

https://www.merakiwellnesshealing.c...line-personality-disorder-what-to-do-about-it


1. Extreme emotional swings

3. Long term feelings of emptiness
Since it is a very undesirable feeling they try to “fill the void” with other things like sex or drugs, while at the end of the day they realize nothing seems to fill it.

4. Explosive anger/rage
hard to control themselves.

5. Fear of being abandoned
Even the thought or suspicion of someone leaving them (like when a spouse arrives late from work) can trigger an upheaval of disturbing emotions. This can cause many of them to “cling for life” to the other person making them seem needy or desperate.

6. Unstable relationships
Falling in love quickly only to be disappointed soon after. Your relationships are either excellent or terrible with no in between.

I have to say… aren’t these traits sort of, kind of… women in general??
And I’m happily married.
But really: the psychological need for love that turns nasty when they’re made to wait; the fear that turns to rage when their security is briefly threatened; as the bard says, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

 

[Zippy17]

There is a difference between sugar babies and "regular" civilian "crazy" women. It takes a more screwed up person to just meet older men for sex in what is a prostitution-type arrangement. The key distinction here is that most all of these sugar babies are borderline personality. Before you comment, look up the disorder. If you ask them questions, too, you will find that they all have Daddy issues or abuse in their backgrounds

I’m not really disagreeing with this, either; but I’d offer another line of distinction between certain behavioral patterns and your conclusions. When it comes to “civilians,” there are girls who typically spend some time in between guys, periodically date one guy at a time until that ends, and then continue spending time alone and in new relationships at various times. That’s probably the group who have fewer issues and no higher incidence of BPD than their broader cohorts. Then, there are “civilians” whose typical pattern in between relationships — and sometimes concurrently — is to get shit-faced in bars or go to clubs with their girls dressed DTF and hookup pretty regularly with random dudes...or just tease cocks all night without actually hooking up, which I’d argue is even worse. Some of those girls are obviously the most fun, but I don’t think their psychology is much different from girls on SA; in fact, it might actually be more out of control and pathological because it usually involves alcohol (at least) and much more spontaneous, impulsive, and random interactions than many exchanges on SA leading to meetings and hookups.

On the SA side of things, I’d differentiate the ones doing it as a conscious and very deliberate means of regulator income who see many guys, just like an amateur provider, or an Indy provider, more accurately. There are also college types who just heard about it from friends, media, etc., who figured they’d create a profile and see what happens with it. They meet some guys until they like one enough to date, and because of the premise of the site, there’s a transactional dynamic. There are also horribly damaged women who have no problem duping guys with whom they have zero intention being with intimately, who make bank by dangling the prospect of sex while they milk him for as much as they can.

But the transactional dynamic really doesn’t have to define the whole relationship; and I can tell it’s definitely possible to start that way and end up in something much more substantial, even with the transactional component eventually being replaced by a shared life. Out of the 8 hours I spend with this girl, about 5 seconds of it consists of me placing some cash in the corner of the sink area. The rest of the time is basically exactly how my wife and I spent our first 100 or so dates, meeting weekly in hotels halfway between the City and the Island, and that lasted for like the first 2 years we were getting to know each other. But for the 5 second it takes to leave the cash, the rest of the time is indistinguishable from the way my wife and I got to know one another or how things would be going if we’d just met at some job and I was just the lucky schmuck she took a liking to. So, I just wouldn’t necessarily draw the BPD line in between SA types and civilians, because there’s both a lot of common behaviors and a lot of exceptions in both groups. (Sorry...it’s the Ambien again.)