Hello everyone, I recently got interested in the subject of massage parlors and everything related to it and I’m down to do it. But I have a couple of questions. Do you guys think is a good idea to go to massages parlors or indies massagers and what should I expect to going from those things? Any tips would be appreciated
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Should a virgin do it?
- Thread starter Outforlunch
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Starting out this hobby... it really depends on what your health risk tolerance : financial cost : getting caught aversion ratios... Massage parlors can be a gateway to escorts for some, but for others it's just a massage with a little extra. My honest opinion, is that if you do go, you can never undo it in your own mind. I've tried to quit this hobby for some time now, and limit myself to a few times per year... but if i'm being truthful, it's likely closer to once a month.
I guess, i'd ask why you'd be looking to start.
I guess, i'd ask why you'd be looking to start.
I would have to agree. it really does make the intimacy a commodity. but it's artificial intimacy... which for some may be all you need. i think i can say for myself, i'm a middle aged guy who's divorced and doesn't feel like dealing with the nonsense of dating. I'm seeing someone in a FWB kind of thing, but it's inconsistent and sometimes, i'm just feeling like a need some human contact to go with things.
For me it depends how old you are and why you're still a virgin. If you are 30 and painfully shy I would say you might as well go ahead and give it a try. If you're in your early 20s and finally have some disposable income I wouldn't recommend. Focus on meeting women your age, up your game (wardrobe, appearance and being more sociable - even if you feel like you're just telling them what they want to hear). You could be a late bloomer. I would kill to be 22 again once this pandemic is over, even the prudish broads will be horny. If you still can't get laid within 6 months after the pandemic restrictions are lifted, well then you should think about taking the plunge.
Are you really a virgin?
I was a virgin the first time I visited a professional -- at 19.
Was not a good experience. Took me 5 months to get my nerve up to try again.
And then I got used to it and have been doing it ever since. And it's all I have ever done. For 35 years.
If you are as young as I was, or even a few years older, I would say don't do it. Get it out of your mind.
Focus instead on self improvement.
Start working out seriously. Get a trainer if you can afford it, or learn from youtube if you cannot.
Start lifting weights and doing cardio.
Take some sort of fight training. Boxing, MMA, Judo, Karate, doesn't matter which one. It will help you with your confidence.
Take some classes on how to fix things. Mechanics, plumbing, home repair. Girls love guys who can fix things.
Find an interesting hobby. Hiking/climbing, surfing, wind surfing, kayaking. Something that girls will be interested in and want to do with you.
Go jogging in the park. Stop off at a Coffee Shop for a cold drink. Try smiling and saying hello to pretty girls when you see them.
Go out with your friends. If you don't have friends, go out with your coworkers and become friends with them. You'll have fun.
You should not view providers as a way to fulfill the necessity for sex. If you do you may end up like me.
If I had the internet back in the 80s, maybe some guy would have given me the same advice as I am giving you.
So give the above a try.
Make an old guy happy.
Good luck.
I was a virgin the first time I visited a professional -- at 19.
Was not a good experience. Took me 5 months to get my nerve up to try again.
And then I got used to it and have been doing it ever since. And it's all I have ever done. For 35 years.
If you are as young as I was, or even a few years older, I would say don't do it. Get it out of your mind.
Focus instead on self improvement.
Start working out seriously. Get a trainer if you can afford it, or learn from youtube if you cannot.
Start lifting weights and doing cardio.
Take some sort of fight training. Boxing, MMA, Judo, Karate, doesn't matter which one. It will help you with your confidence.
Take some classes on how to fix things. Mechanics, plumbing, home repair. Girls love guys who can fix things.
Find an interesting hobby. Hiking/climbing, surfing, wind surfing, kayaking. Something that girls will be interested in and want to do with you.
Go jogging in the park. Stop off at a Coffee Shop for a cold drink. Try smiling and saying hello to pretty girls when you see them.
Go out with your friends. If you don't have friends, go out with your coworkers and become friends with them. You'll have fun.
You should not view providers as a way to fulfill the necessity for sex. If you do you may end up like me.
If I had the internet back in the 80s, maybe some guy would have given me the same advice as I am giving you.
So give the above a try.
Make an old guy happy.
Good luck.
As someone already mentioned, you will only get fake intimacy and some false ideas about having sex. It is not much better than what you "learn" from porn. Find out what are your issues that have limited your interactions with women and work on them. It's possible that a sex therapist or a surrogate may be able to help.