Should I give my seeking arrangement a Valentine’s Day gift

[Chinatownluv]

Well to start it off I only have two right now one has been flaky but, the other one is consistent and invited me to her house multiple times it’s kind of weird smashing while her mother is in the next room so that caught me off guard but that’s a story for another day felt like I was in high school again but I’m going off on a tangent. She gave me a free session since we were in her parents crib I just wanted to reciprocate.

I wouldn’t say I’m catching feelings just wanted to show appreciation. I would date her but I have no plans to try to our put in the work since she is a little messy but she is kind and freaky. I wanted to ask is this simping buying your sugar baby a Valentine’s Day gift.

The very nature of having a sugar baby is simping. This whole message board is based off the premise of being social/ sexual deviants. Therefore, none of the rules apply to anyone hear except hating on other mongers, which has happened to me before with a monger confronting a provider I smashed that he happened to be dating and didn't know was smashing others lol even though he met her at a spa that does happy endings.

Anyway, your already paying her a significant allowance. Your having a ton of intimate moments with her. She's being kind and giving you free sessions. Why not get her a valentines day gift, card, sentiment or bonus if your heart desires. Do what you feel because you, me and everyone else on here arent playing by the rules. We are all cutting corners and all simping in our own ways for stress free sex.

The moment you come out your pockets for sexual gratification.... your a simp and guess what. At our age who cares. When I was 20 I would be ashamed of me at 40 when it comes to the ladies but I was also broke at 20 and spending hours running game on low rent woman for free sex. At 40, I'm laughing at me at 20.

 

[massiveloads]

Man it will get better young caribean king this thread is pathetic asking for opinions on gifts?

 

[Chinatownluv]

Man it will get better young caribean king this thread is pathetic asking for opinions on gifts?

I wouldn't be so harsh on the kid but he's a little too young to be dealing with seeking woman. I thought he was an older man. Homie should be looking for a family etc. Something happen to you and you in the hospital. Those seeking chick's will be nowhere to be found.

 

[massiveloads]

I wouldn't be so harsh on the kid but he's a little too young to be dealing with seeking woman. I thought he was an older man. Homie should be looking for a family etc. Something happen to you and you in the hospital. Those seeking chick's will be nowhere to be found.

Like most guys his background the males and females are not attracted to each other i think hes still on the ; Journey to find da baddie asian mami widda phattie social media influenced fetish. Chinatown you speak truths I wonder if he will take your advice

 

[Chinatownluv]

Like most guys his background the males and females are not attracted to each other i think hes still on the ; Journey to find da baddie asian mami widda phattie social media influenced fetish. Chinatown you speak truths I wonder if he will take your advice

This generation is screwed when it comes to their perception of woman. Dude is in his 20s and taking seeking woman on a carribean vacation. He must be very successful to have all that disposable income but damn he should be investing; buying a house and looking for a good woman. This game here should be for mature gentleman who want a little action on the side. One should not be using it as a sole means of female contact unless your in your 70's. I think your right. He's looking for the perfect woman and she doesn't exist. Look for a good woman and give her that valentines gift. Like I said before I thought he was older. Now that I know this is a young man. Nothing I originally wrote applies to him. He's a baby playing an old man's game and that's kind of sad and wack but he won't listen cuz he's having too much fun living the illusion. Don't forget my brother. The moment you stop paying. Those baddies will disappear. That free session is all game to keep you coming back and make you feel special but your not. To those hoe's your a john and a mark. You may have to spend on a regular chick.... far less mind you. But at least she will like you for you.

 

[Uniquelyme]

This generation is screwed when it comes to their perception of woman. Dude is in his 20s and taking seeking woman on a carribean vacation. He must be very successful to have all that disposable income but damn he should be investing; buying a house and looking for a good woman. This game here should be for mature gentleman who want a little action on the side. One should not be using it as a sole means of female contact unless your in your 70's. I think your right. He's looking for the perfect woman and she doesn't exist. Look for a good woman and give her that valentines gift. Like I said before I thought he was older. Now that I know this is a young man. Nothing I originally wrote applies to him. He's a baby playing an old man's game and that's kind of sad and wack but he won't listen cuz he's having too much fun living the illusion. Don't forget my brother. The moment you stop paying. Those baddies will disappear. That free session is all game to keep you coming back and make you feel special but your not. To those hoe's your a john and a mark. You may have to spend on a regular chick.... far less mind you. But at least she will like you for you.

He still shouldn't be giving her gifts for valentine's day. These girls are just side chicks at best. Doesn't matter his age when it comes to gift giving.

Yes Women view kindness as weakness. Already you are setting up the relationship off as her being the one with power if you agree to all her terms and now throw in gifts for no reason makes little sense.

People just get mad at the word simping but it is a word that applies to many Men and many scenarios. My Sb has given me free pussy several times. Has slept over for $250 is full gfe acro wise. So what i don't feel the need to give her gifts. I had an sb that would charge half the time and half the time no. I never felt the need to get her gifts.

It shows that you are just so grateful she is in your life and you don't want her to go nowhere. Men think about things as Men. Women look at things very different. They are consistently seeing how strong or weak you are when it comes to Women. I learned when i was an 11 year old that Women respect a Man who isn't scared to speak his mind and doesn't care if she leaves or not. In my 17-28 yr old self mainly with a couple other situations afterwards a Woman acted up or got disrespectful i would just kick her out the car. The vast majority would call me apologizing.

My first real girlfriend when i was 15, i didn't call her for 3 days cause we had an argument. She called me and apologized and i had the power for most of that relationship. Only one Woman ever had more power than i did in a relationship. If lasted for years and she got the power towards the end. Cause i decided she is special and she deserves better treatment......She didn't she's still a Woman and still plays games. Even when they live with you they play games.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

Like most guys his background the males and females are not attracted to each other i think hes still on the ; Journey to find da baddie asian mami widda phattie social media influenced fetish. Chinatown you speak truths I wonder if he will take your advice

Not even true I’m not vain when it comes to dating I said that on multiple threads. I see your trying to be disrespectful to get a rise out of me but hey I guess you don’t have that much self fulfillment in your life. I use seeking to smash baddies I don’t see on the street. You judging someone you don’t know I doubt your a Casanova yourself on ampreviews get over yourself

 

[Agentcarribean0]

I wouldn't be so harsh on the kid but he's a little too young to be dealing with seeking woman. I thought he was an older man. Homie should be looking for a family etc. Something happen to you and you in the hospital. Those seeking chick's will be nowhere to be found.

No you are bugging tf out. I dont give em anything for birthdays either. And my main Sb gave me 3 free sessions and she sleeps over and she is $250 evertime i see her.

Yeah I’ve woke up I’m not paying her a goddamn thing. She just giving me some free pussy that was giving to other men. It’s not like it’s my girl going to use that money to go to a Latina fast house.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

This generation is screwed when it comes to their perception of woman. Dude is in his 20s and taking seeking woman on a carribean vacation. He must be very successful to have all that disposable income but damn he should be investing; buying a house and looking for a good woman. This game here should be for mature gentleman who want a little action on the side. One should not be using it as a sole means of female contact unless your in your 70's. I think you’re right. He's looking for the perfect woman and she doesn't exist. Look for a good woman and give her that valentines gift. Like I said before I thought he was older. Now that I know this is a young man. Nothing I originally wrote applies to him. He's a baby playing an old man's game and that's kind of sad and wack but he won't listen cuz he's having too much fun living the illusion. Don't forget my brother. The moment you stop paying. Those baddies will disappear. That free session is all game to keep you coming back and make you feel special but your not. To those hoe's your a john and a mark. You may have to spend on a regular chick.... far less mind you. But at least she will like you for you.

Lol im not looking for the perfect women that’s false. I never thought this women liked me I just thought free session quick gift but now fuck it I would never keeping my money to myself. It ain’t that easy out here in modern society seeking is easier and the women are badder that why I use it. Not caught up in an illusion of this women likes me she’s just bill and I’m just a John. Don’t even really know if I want to even have a family the way society is.

 

[Chinatownluv]

Lol im not looking for the perfect women that’s false. I never thought this women liked me I just thought free session quick gift but now fuck it I would never keeping my money to myself. It ain’t that easy out here in modern society seeking is easier and the women are badder that why I use it. Not caught up in an illusion of this women likes me she’s just bill and I’m just a John. Don’t even really know if I want to even have a family the way society is.

Upon further reading of my comments I believe I was too harsh. I don't know you, I don't know where you come from and it is not my place to judge how you spend your money and your time. I do want to see the best for brothers in this game and I have been around for a while and feel as though I have knowledge to impart and sometimes that clouds might judgment and makes me a little judgy. In hindsight it is not my place to question your motives I give you an example. I'm thinking about a trip to Thailand. I'm going by myself. If I decide to go I will most likely partake in the providers out there. What's the difference with me racking up a list of sw's versus you taking a s b that you have a rapport with and just having fun with her and maybe even having fun with other women too cuz she probably wouldn't care. I want to apologize to you sir. I want you to live your life however you want to live it and I want you to live it to the fullest because tomorrow is not guaranteed

 

[User826]

How old are you because I'd be getting a hotel room or booking a short stay. If she's having sex with men next to her mother, her mother is well aware of what she's doing and benefits as well.

You can get her a gift if you want. Just know you won't be the only one doing it.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

How old are you because I'd be getting a hotel room or booking a short stay. If she's having sex with men next to her mother, her mother is well aware of what she's doing and benefits as well.

You can get her a gift if you want. Just know you won't be the only one doing it.

Lol I’m in my late twenties we usually just fool around in a hotel I get but she said she couldn’t make it to my hotel so she invited me over her house. She said she doesn’t invite guys over her house you know the usual lie a lot of women tell (I don’t usually do this). So I just went over and blew her back out and I’m not getting her a gift; woke up and realized these women don’t care about you your just a bill so it’s better to beat and move on.

 

[User826]

Lol I’m in my late twenties we usually just fool around in a hotel I get but she said she couldn’t make it to my hotel so she invited me over her house. She said she doesn’t invite guys over her house you know the usual lie a lot of women tell (I don’t usually do this). So I just went over and blew her back out and I’m not getting her a gift; woke up and realized these women don’t care about you your just a bill so it’s better to beat and move on.

Going to keep it 100. You're way too young to be entertaining the idea of a sugar baby. Go out and date. Have one night stands or NSA relationships.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

Going to keep it 100. You're way too young to be entertaining the idea of a sugar baby. Go out and date. Have one night stands or NSA relationships.

If only it was that easy to pull the ig models I fool around with on seeking. I’ll rather do this then be like some of my peers either haven’t got laid since college or in a sexless marriage. It is what it is I’m just enjoying myself. I always go out it just usually goes nowhere so I put more time into seeking arrangements I still go out but now instead of wasting 100 at a bar 3 days a week and coming home with useless numbers. I can use that on a hotel and smash a ig model with thousands of followers at the end of the work week.

 

[Michael_Choo]

Going to keep it 100. You're way too young to be entertaining the idea of a sugar baby. Go out and date. Have one night stands or NSA relationships.

You'd be surprised how impossible and transactional young women are even in the civie dating scene today.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

You'd be surprised how impossible and transactional young women are even in the civie dating scene today.

Preach lmao it’s definitely not like back in some of these mongers days in the 80s or 90s.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Preach lmao it’s definitely not like back in some of these mongers days in the 80s or 90s.

Preach lmao it’s definitely not like back in some of these mongers days in the 80s or 90s.

If you didnt live then, you have no true idea of what it was then. I think it is harder now. But my Son has cleaned up with Women. He just chooses to have gfs and not juggle like that.

Men hold most of the blame for having Women think it's cool to act entitled. Specifically younger millenials and generation z. Lot of the nerds ruined social media, with the pedestalizing of average Women.

 

[User826]

If only it was that easy to pull the ig models I fool around with on seeking. I’ll rather do this then be like some of my peers either haven’t got laid since college or in a sexless marriage. It is what it is I’m just enjoying myself. I always go out it just usually goes nowhere so I put more time into seeking arrangements I still go out but now instead of wasting 100 at a bar 3 days a week and coming home with useless numbers. I can use that on a hotel and smash a ig model with thousands of followers at the end of the work week.

Don't go out looking for sex. Go out to enjoy yourself and it it happens, it happens. Like going to a spa, it's YMMV.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

Don't go out looking for sex. Go out to enjoy yourself and it it happens, it happens. Like going to a spa, it's YMMV.

I don’t go out for pussy honestly I mainly just go out to have phone and talk to people maybe get a couple of numbers if possible. I just don’t feel to much pressure to chase after civies for sex since my sugar babies are always available.

 

[Agentcarribean0]

If you didnt live then, you have no true idea of what it was then. I think it is harder now. But my Son has cleaned up with Women. He just chooses to have gfs and not juggle like that.

Men hold most of the blame for having Women think it's cool to act entitled. Specifically younger millenials and generation z. Lot of the nerds ruined social media, with the pedestalizing of average Women.

I guess we’re all different never worked out for me I can’t judge the next person . So I’m going to keep it pushing appreciate the words of wisdom.