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Significant others and the hobby

Etyyyyyy

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If your relationship has run its course it might be time to move on, especially if you don't have kids to grow. I speak from experience, I waited for too long.

We are not designed for sexually monogamous relationships. And even lifetime companionship is a stretch, otherwise we wouldn't have more than 50% divorce rate in this country. What has forced us into this nonsense is economic needs, not science. Divorces will increase further as women become financially more independent. It can be hard to think about children growing with non-biological parents, but you just have to look at the trends to see what is going on.
I agree. I think we are made to stay in relationships until they run its course. Im not a big fan of marriage and probably won’t ever get married, to much of a hassle and divorces I have seen become ugly and expensive.

Men can’t help but see a fine piece of ass and want to spread our seed
 

Halford

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I know you’re right Ducati. Doesn’t make it easier for me that my wife is not financially independent . Divorce would be a life changer . And I might have to get a a fn job! Btw. I used to have a CBR900
 

mducati

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I know you’re right Ducati. Doesn’t make it easier for me that my wife is not financially independent . Divorce would be a life changer . And I might have to get a a fn job! Btw. I used to have a CBR900
ha, you spotted me. A good strategy is to divorce when you're jobless, taking a long sabbatical if you can afford it.
 

peachykeen

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Threads like this are always a good reminder of why I have never married. I have never been able to stay in a situation where my needs weren't being met. In the long run it always seemed better to boot them to the curb instead of stepping out on them. More power to you guys who can step out on wives / girlfriends, I couldn't do it, the guilt would eat me up.

Now back to those cheez-its....
 

YOYOBlue

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My two cents.

I am married, in my early thirties. My wife is my best friend so to everyone saying no marriage i think maybe you just got burned. Then again I havent dated an american woman in a long time and met my wife in another country.

Not sure if my desire is nature or nurture but i just know that i like to see new pussy. And i find after I see a provider I enjoy sex with my wife more.

In the past I kept my mongering a secret and i hated it. I didnt feel guilty, i just didnt like not being honest. So I decided just to be upfront about it. My wife accepts it and i often show her pictures of women etc.

I know in the past I said I would do a youtube video talking to her about it and never did. no excuse im jsut an ass. This time however will be different. When i make it and its up Ill post a link here.
 

instinctsrtrue

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I got caught by my wife having a relationship with a girl on SA. It turned out almost like bf / gf and she was 20 yes younger. I left her and she called my wife. We are still together, are in therapy, and the marriage is much better in many ways. (I’m in my 40s). I have t cheated in a while and am not nearly as tempted as I used to be given the fear I have after coming close to divorce, and importantly, that we reconnected. Now we have sex 4 times a week!

I don’t know how married guys get free ass. I’m handsome but did not see how that was an option. Maybe others can explain.

One thing I learned is that girls who sell it are basically all fucked up. And that it is not worth having a relationship with feelings outside the marriage. You can work on shit and improve it. I think many of us just get resigned to a bad marriage
 

Evolfonam

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My two cents.

I am married, in my early thirties. My wife is my best friend so to everyone saying no marriage i think maybe you just got burned. Then again I havent dated an american woman in a long time and met my wife in another country.

Not sure if my desire is nature or nurture but i just know that i like to see new pussy. And i find after I see a provider I enjoy sex with my wife more.

In the past I kept my mongering a secret and i hated it. I didnt feel guilty, i just didnt like not being honest. So I decided just to be upfront about it. My wife accepts it and i often show her pictures of women etc.

I know in the past I said I would do a youtube video talking to her about it and never did. no excuse im jsut an ass. This time however will be different. When i make it and its up Ill post a link here.
Good for you for having the stones to be open to your wife about it. Pretty amazing she accepted it too! I imagine her coming from another culture than the US has something to do with it... no?
 

George62

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My wife caught me once when a provider texted me on my cell phone. I came clean with her But, our relationship is no different now than it was before her becoming aware of the provider. She has never been a warm personality. She always lets other problems that she grows out of proportion get in the way of being close to each other. I miss the warmth of a woman hugging me and kissing me more than anything. This drives me to AMPs. I also do not want a steady relationship on the side.
 

Zippy17

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And i find after I see a provider I enjoy sex with my wife more.
That's no mystery. Nothing kills a guy's sexual fire more than monogamy. That's why sudden increased interest in marital sex on the part of the guy should be a cue to women that their husbands might be getting laid outside the marriage. If you're still physically attracted to your wife and you get along well, getting laid typically increases your interest in marital sex right afterwards, and much more so if you don't have to hide it.
One thing I learned is that girls who sell it are basically all fucked up.
I dunno about that, Man. After reading some of the shit guys post here and seeing the way they talk about these girls and what they need from them to get their rocks off, and (especially) some of the completely batshit pretzel-knot logic used to justify moral double standards, I'd say that a lot of these girls might be less fucked up than many of the guys they see. Do some girls fall into this because they're fucked up? Of course. But a lot of them are really no different from and no less nice than "regular" girls you'd meet anywhere else.
 

Barfolomew

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That's no mystery. Nothing kills a guy's sexual fire more than monogamy. That's why sudden increased interest in marital sex on the part of the guy should be a cue to women that their husbands might be getting laid outside the marriage. If you're still physically attracted to your wife and you get along well, getting laid typically increases your interest in marital sex right afterwards, and much more so if you don't have to hide it.
I dunno about that, Man. After reading some of the shit guys post here and seeing the way they talk about these girls and what they need from them to get their rocks off, and (especially) some of the completely batshit pretzel-knot logic used to justify moral double standards, I'd say that a lot of these girls might be less fucked up than many of the guys they see. Do some girls fall into this because they're fucked up? Of course. But a lot of them are really no different from and no less nice than "regular" girls you'd meet anywhere else.
@instinctsrtrue never said HE wasn't fucked up. We all are. I think the key is we know we are and I'm not sure the providers do, IMHO
 

Hardrobert

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There are those that are FU and go into the biz, and those that go into the biz and get FU. A third category would be those that just love to fuck and discover that they can get paid for what they love to do.

Now back to the original topic - SOs: There was a lady I was involved with where the relationship evolved rather quickly to an understanding of each other's wants and needs. She understood that I was a slut and while loved her, would not pass up an opportunity (hell, seek out) any opportunity to stick my 3rd leg into any female hole of convenience. She, on the other hand, had the following attitude toward sex. She felt giving a bbbjcim & swallow was to be reserved for those she truly cared about(loved), but fucking was about her being pleasured. (She was multi orgasmic and could go on for a couple of hours). She therefore had no problem with (nay desired) multiple men in an evening to satisfy her (covered), but at the end of the line of cocks always wanted to end up with me, uncovered and dropping a load in her. This was back in the 80s and we frequently went to Plato's and Trapeze. Eventually, we grew apart, different careers, familiarity, whatever. Still are friends and talk a couple of times a year.

Now, most females are possessive and breeders. Most men are possessive and while wanting to stay feel guilty. But every once in a while 2 sluts will meet in a storm. Monger on my friends.
 

softball3

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To keep it simple, I tell my wife when I am going to get a massage (and I don't/won't do FS)...I too have the need for physical touch, a need not shared by/with my wife...
There's plenty more to share, mostly negative, so not going to get into it, but reading the above posts, I feel myself in almost every one, to varying degrees of course...
 

SuperLun

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Society (women in particular) are programmed to believe in a strictly monogamous relationship. They can accept masturbation with little to problem at all, but use another woman and it is the end of the world.

As for feeling guilt about the hobby, hum, I have a wife who was an amazing partner in and out of bed. When menopause hit, her desire for sex died and her desire to satisfy me died. It was a very difficult time in our marriage because of my frustration. How many times did I have to jerk off before I finally broke? I can not remember but their absolutely was a number for me.
Just wanted to thank you for sharing your comment with us... It was nice to learn I wasn't alone.
 
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