I am not sure you can answer this well at a State level. I think it varies town by town, city by city a lot more than at the State level.
Central FL (Orlando for example) has a Taliban-like rabidness to eradicate sin. Miami is a completely different situation (with some of the most stunning women around).
Austin TX is pretty accepting and tolerant, but cross the county line to the north and you are in the territory of some serious Zero Tolerance LE.
Colorado Springs and Denver, an hour apart by car, but light years away in attitude about sex.