Tips for avoiding obsession?

[philwhosis]

So last night was my first FS AMP experience in NYC; prior to that i'd been to HJ AMPs, which obviously is a different experience; less intimate, not the same level of personal connection, etc.... I went to AS/PP, saw Smiling, and i'm hooked. Already planning next visits: PH, AL, etc etc... and on and on. The number of gorgeous, available young women in this city seems endless, but my budget - in money and time/focus - is not.

How do you guys keep from thinking about this *all* the time? And spending *all* you have? I mean, self control and moderation, sure, but.. jesus. Just knowing what's out there makes it hard to think about anything else. Like those damn lab mice (rats?) who starved themselves to death bc the only lever they pulled was for cocaine.

You get the idea. Veteran mongers, share your tips for keeping this little vice under control!

 

[TUMA_guy_NYC]

After a few spending benders on this hobby, you will learn for yourself how to keep this thing in check and what methods work for you. Speaking for myself, it isn’t always the easiest and the temptation comes in waves ... good luck.

 

[TheEnjoyer]

So last night was my first FS AMP experience in NYC; prior to that i'd been to HJ AMPs, which obviously is a different experience; less intimate, not the same level of personal connection, etc.... I went to AS/PP, saw Smiling, and i'm hooked. Already planning next visits: PH, AL, etc etc... and on and on. The number of gorgeous, available young women in this city seems endless, but my budget - in money and time/focus - is not.

How do you guys keep from thinking about this *all* the time? And spending *all* you have? I mean, self control and moderation, sure, but.. jesus. Just knowing what's out there makes it hard to think about anything else. Like those damn lab mice (rats?) who starved themselves to death bc the only lever they pulled was for cocaine.

You get the idea. Veteran mongers, share your tips for keeping this little vice under control!

The struggle is real. It’s all about balance. It ain’t easy but it is obtainable.

 

[hawaii78]

It can be addicting, but you need to have the self control. It is the same with alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc. If you feel you are losing control, you should definately seek professional help.

In the beginning, your feelings and thoughts are going all over the place. Just sit and think about what your real priorities are, and focus on that.

 

[fiv-love]

Being freelance I've found that work is the best distraction. Its my downtime that is dangerous to me. I often have full weeks without booked jobs so I just have to catch up on billing and paperwork and that leaves me the option to go at anytime and I do but have learned to keep it in check. Its hard...

 

[Cholo54]

Everything everyone has said is very true.


Also....there's nothing like those one off bad experiences that makes you want to take a break. (money saved)

Lol

 

[rog314]

Self help guided by porn-my 2c

 

[umbrellafiller]

Don't wast too much of your seed money from wallets. Never try financial suicide. That's all. Under wallet control, we just keep digging and spitting.

 

[Ostryziom]

Yeah first couple months can be rough on your wallet specially when you try to figure out what/who really works for you.
Also life will be different for you from now on.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

Set a budget and try to stick to it and remember that you’re spending your kids college $.

 

[mbill6969]

Jerk off. I know it seems crude, but it definitely will stem the urge and you'll be surprised how clear headed and rational you'll be after getting a nut!

 

[Queball]

I went in pretty hard after my first R&T experience but have since found good checks and balances that keep me where i need to be.
Im in a strictly R&T area but will occasionally run into something a little extra that will up my visits, but put my head back on straight after a visit or 2.

 

[Jackboner]

Jerk off. I know it seems crude, but it definitely will stem the urge and you'll be surprised how clear headed and rational you'll be after getting a nut!

100% accurate statement

 

[Jackboner]

Remember that it is a transaction. These providers despise you. They only want your money and after you are finished they want out the door faster than when you came in.

Do not get attached. Tip as minimal as required and be on your way. Find other things to do with your life and time, you’ll be much happier.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

100% accurate statement

Well, I would say that jerking it to Asian porn should be part of a measured approach to managing your AMP hobby. Mix it up, FS place, JO, R&T, agency, high end girl, etc.

 

[philwhosis]

Don't wast too much of your seed money from wallets. Never try financial suicide. That's all. Under wallet control, we just keep digging and spitting.

I don’t understand what you’re saying.

 

[Koujiao]

Dont watch the LPGA and stay off of this forum.

 

[Zzzz]

So last night was my first FS AMP experience in NYC; prior to that i'd been to HJ AMPs, which obviously is a different experience; less intimate, not the same level of personal connection, etc.... I went to AS/PP, saw Smiling, and i'm hooked. Already planning next visits: PH, AL, etc etc... and on and on. The number of gorgeous, available young women in this city seems endless, but my budget - in money and time/focus - is not.

How do you guys keep from thinking about this *all* the time? And spending *all* you have? I mean, self control and moderation, sure, but.. jesus. Just knowing what's out there makes it hard to think about anything else. Like those damn lab mice (rats?) who starved themselves to death bc the only lever they pulled was for cocaine.

You get the idea. Veteran mongers, share your tips for keeping this little vice under control!

In my first year of this lifestyle, I dropped nearly 15K...very unexpected and forced myself to go through a cooling off period to regain self-control. The initial high can definitely blindside you and leave you dazed. If I were you, I would narrow my scope by getting solid intel on who to see that is guaranteed to be a solid experience. Assessing the landscape, there are few really good options at the moment, so that might help you curve an impending habit and avoid buyer's remorse.

 

[Zzzz]

As an add-on...get several perspectives on a gal. Reading one stellar review may make you want to pull the trigger right away, but a few more tempered reviews will also help you regain your senses and prevent you from making a hasty decision.

 

[haaretz]

I agree with Hawaii78---this is an addiction. It should be recognized as one and dealt with. What's the end game? We're a wide range of men, married/single, rich/middle class and working class.
This subculture offers a passion and intimacy that can't be found anywhere.
Most of us find a level of fulfillment for that void in our lives. So we go out.
The legal, personal and financial risks are no joke, however.

Intimacy

It can be addicting, but you need to have the self control. It is the same with alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc. If you feel you are losing control, you should definately seek professional help.

In the beginning, your feelings and thoughts are going all over the place. Just sit and think about what your real priorities are, and focus on that.