I dont want to name place, or the girl...
session started totally normal,
I had to wait about 10min in entrance area, sitting on the couch, then 5-10min while she took care of the $ so we started 15-20min later than agreed time.
after about 15-20min of massage or whatever, she made it clear she didnt want to do what I was suggesting (we were doing it, and then she said she wanted to stop)... which was not remotely anything extreme or even mid level expectations (also based on reviews on this board, its a common activity with her which she enjoys)... and I expressed no concern about it, ie 'no problem'... then we moved on to what she seemed more comfortable with,,, which was FS, which Id prefer a bit of warming up to that, but whatever. (in all honestly, I wasnt planning on FS and didnt want to do it)
issues slowly started to increase... so, no matter where I put my hands, or what position we were in, or how I moved, she seems to be in pain or frustration (also in chinese basically telling me how to do it... )... she spoke zero english so, communication wasnt easy, we were using a translation app on my phone.
Im intentionally very observant and thoughtful when spending time with these girls so, when I was sure she was clearly not enjoying... but (she was) insisting on continuing... I stopped... so by this point I wasn't sure what was going on. (she insisted we do FS, I stopped after it didnt seem to be working even tho she was trying to continue)
She quickly moves onto giving CBJ which , by this point, I didnt know how I felt about the session... I dont feel comfortable w someone showing discomfort and I was confused with what was going on... and I had already trying to text: if you dont feel good or whatever we can stop. she was very pushy to be clear.... Same thing also, anywhere I put my hands she's seeming uncomfortbale so I literally am just holding my hands sort of just in the air: this has never happened to me and felt very weird... and not sexy.
She took care of me with the CBJ (not enjoyable on my end) and we were 35min into the session,,, she then started nervously pointing to the clock and saying we need to finish up quickly... ; because we had started late... she was pretending that I had 50min already... so I showed and explained we barely had half hour and I wanted to relax a bit. I paid for 1 hour... and I tried to say: look, if you're having issues, just relax and I don't care at all, I pointed to the chair ... but I didn't want to be rushed out after 35min. TBH, I think I felt overwhelmed at this point and just wanted a minute or two to collect myself.
if that was all that happened, it would have just been a dud of a session, probably one of the worst ones I've had, but nothing more... but act two starts:
she leaves, then comes back in, then starts crying, then puts her arms around me and starts telling me she loves me etc etc, (in chinese)... she wont let me move or anything so I just have to sit there,,, the rest of the 25min is basically this (crying, trying to text each other on the app). Plus, we go 'over time'.. and now the mama-san is knocking on the door, and asking whats going on... ALL of this 25min is on her part, I would have definitely left if I was able. Before I leave the girl grabs my phone, puts her number in it, calls herself, waits to make sure the call goes through, and (sign language), tells me to be quite. (I had made zero suggestion to do this... and based on our interaction wouldnt have)
finally she lets me go, and mama-san hurries me out... everything is a big rush and everyone there (mama-san, and another girl in the hallway), all look either very busy or confused... idk.
a day later, I still feel very uncomfortable about what happen. I don't think the girl was intentionally messing with me, maybe she had a unexpected meltdown and she didnt want to get in trouble so she was trying to control the situation as best she could.
As a paying customer, I feel completely ripped off, it was a 100% stressful, not fun, weird, forced time (sexually it was horrible)... with an attempt to get me out after 35min... A day later, I feel mentally exhausted still.
Im thoughtful, friendly, empathetic, easy going, good looking, good hygiene etc (as in Im ruling out that she found me disgusting or I am unaware how bad I am sexually etc), there is a possibility I treated her better than usual, and she was just having a stressful week? and so it triggered her? Im just at a loss ... this board is the last place Id go to for advice tbh... but worth a try.
(She has several good reviews on this board also...)
session started totally normal,
I had to wait about 10min in entrance area, sitting on the couch, then 5-10min while she took care of the $ so we started 15-20min later than agreed time.
after about 15-20min of massage or whatever, she made it clear she didnt want to do what I was suggesting (we were doing it, and then she said she wanted to stop)... which was not remotely anything extreme or even mid level expectations (also based on reviews on this board, its a common activity with her which she enjoys)... and I expressed no concern about it, ie 'no problem'... then we moved on to what she seemed more comfortable with,,, which was FS, which Id prefer a bit of warming up to that, but whatever. (in all honestly, I wasnt planning on FS and didnt want to do it)
issues slowly started to increase... so, no matter where I put my hands, or what position we were in, or how I moved, she seems to be in pain or frustration (also in chinese basically telling me how to do it... )... she spoke zero english so, communication wasnt easy, we were using a translation app on my phone.
Im intentionally very observant and thoughtful when spending time with these girls so, when I was sure she was clearly not enjoying... but (she was) insisting on continuing... I stopped... so by this point I wasn't sure what was going on. (she insisted we do FS, I stopped after it didnt seem to be working even tho she was trying to continue)
She quickly moves onto giving CBJ which , by this point, I didnt know how I felt about the session... I dont feel comfortable w someone showing discomfort and I was confused with what was going on... and I had already trying to text: if you dont feel good or whatever we can stop. she was very pushy to be clear.... Same thing also, anywhere I put my hands she's seeming uncomfortbale so I literally am just holding my hands sort of just in the air: this has never happened to me and felt very weird... and not sexy.
She took care of me with the CBJ (not enjoyable on my end) and we were 35min into the session,,, she then started nervously pointing to the clock and saying we need to finish up quickly... ; because we had started late... she was pretending that I had 50min already... so I showed and explained we barely had half hour and I wanted to relax a bit. I paid for 1 hour... and I tried to say: look, if you're having issues, just relax and I don't care at all, I pointed to the chair ... but I didn't want to be rushed out after 35min. TBH, I think I felt overwhelmed at this point and just wanted a minute or two to collect myself.
if that was all that happened, it would have just been a dud of a session, probably one of the worst ones I've had, but nothing more... but act two starts:
she leaves, then comes back in, then starts crying, then puts her arms around me and starts telling me she loves me etc etc, (in chinese)... she wont let me move or anything so I just have to sit there,,, the rest of the 25min is basically this (crying, trying to text each other on the app). Plus, we go 'over time'.. and now the mama-san is knocking on the door, and asking whats going on... ALL of this 25min is on her part, I would have definitely left if I was able. Before I leave the girl grabs my phone, puts her number in it, calls herself, waits to make sure the call goes through, and (sign language), tells me to be quite. (I had made zero suggestion to do this... and based on our interaction wouldnt have)
finally she lets me go, and mama-san hurries me out... everything is a big rush and everyone there (mama-san, and another girl in the hallway), all look either very busy or confused... idk.
a day later, I still feel very uncomfortable about what happen. I don't think the girl was intentionally messing with me, maybe she had a unexpected meltdown and she didnt want to get in trouble so she was trying to control the situation as best she could.
As a paying customer, I feel completely ripped off, it was a 100% stressful, not fun, weird, forced time (sexually it was horrible)... with an attempt to get me out after 35min... A day later, I feel mentally exhausted still.
Im thoughtful, friendly, empathetic, easy going, good looking, good hygiene etc (as in Im ruling out that she found me disgusting or I am unaware how bad I am sexually etc), there is a possibility I treated her better than usual, and she was just having a stressful week? and so it triggered her? Im just at a loss ... this board is the last place Id go to for advice tbh... but worth a try.
(She has several good reviews on this board also...)
