What would this be considered?

[248Lancer]

Fucking around with someone else's wife only works when you're her side piece. Then she's got nothing on you once you are done.

 

[Dc46]

I have an opportunity to have a "friend with benefits." We are both married. Would this constitute an affair if there's no emotional component?

the simple answer is yes. Yes it is absolutely an affair.
what answer are you looking for from us to justify it for you?

 

[이 회장님]

“It depends on what the meaning of the word “is” is.”

 

[Pop_pop]

L..... The most expensive pussy you're ever going to get, is the pussy you think you're getting for free.

Exactly, paying money is the cheapest option

 

[Warmhands]

My old man would say to me about such moral questions. "If you have to ask you already know the answer."

 

[Don Hollinger]

Interesting you ask a bunch of mongers if fucking another woman is cheating.

An old saying that fits perfectly. You are not paying them for sex, you are paying them to leave.

If you go down the affair road, do yourself a favor and do all of your homework before heading down that path. It is full of potholes, debris, traps, ambushes, hazards, etc, etc, etc

https://www.bonobology.com/how-are-most-affairs-discovered/

And some of us have been chased by husbands and threatened---it was stupid fun in my 30's but the optics of an old fart running away from another old fart with a gun...
The best that I could get today would be a 50 something gilf at best. With civvie gilf rules and boundaries--the gilfs that I paid for B&S were bad enough but at least they were down for something. An affair would be an outlay of so much time anyway.

I prefer to eat fish in a barrel and pay for someone to make it all about me for that hour-- two, three decades younger who's down for whatever I want. With the only worry being parking and the gate code.

Affairs are heavy and weird, full of regret, guilt, whether or not you're caught. Real reality.
When I'm with a prostitute I feel liberated from my normal routine (and liberated of $300 or so).

 

[Terminator312]

A simple rule to use may help here.

If you have to hide what you're doing, it's cheating

 

[metal rat]

Sex with her is free, but the emotional baggage she brings last a lifetime, it’ll cost you pain, try ghosting her and you’ll discover the latter. OP will attempt to end it, she’ll say “you can’t end it, I won’t let you.” Every time the phone at your home rings you’ll wonder in fear it might be her, ain’t no future in it.

 

[charliebrown]

Sex with her is free, but the emotional baggage she brings last a lifetime, it’ll cost you pain, try ghosting her and you’ll discover the latter. OP will attempt to end it, she’ll say “you can’t end it, I won’t let you.” Every time the phone at your home rings you’ll wonder in fear it might be her, ain’t no future in it.

The trick is to get them to dump you. You can always find a weak link. Examples I would use.

If you know which way she leans politically, then praise the idiots on the other side.
Trump, Trump, Trump, Trump Trump. or Biden, Biden, Biden, Biden, Biden
If you were taking her out for dinner before the act, Start going cheaper or not at all.
Don't ghost her, just slowly reduce communications with her until she gets tired of the neglect.
Less and less foreplay.
Less and less time, think two pump hump.
How about notifying her that you have an STD?
Nervous breakdown on your part.
Say you were laid off and are now jobless.
Let her start finding out about your drug and alcohol addictions.
Remember when you used to plan on a nice refreshing shower before seeing her? Start planning on skipping a day.

These are all common techniques for repelling your SO when so desired. Make you AP feel like an SO and she will beg you not to bother her any longer.

 

[PJ73]

The trick is to get them to dump you. You can always find a weak link. Examples I would use.

If you know which way she leans politically, then praise the idiots on the other side.
Trump, Trump, Trump, Trump Trump. or Biden, Biden, Biden, Biden, Biden
If you were taking her out for dinner before the act, Start going cheaper or not at all.
Don't ghost her, just slowly reduce communications with her until she gets tired of the neglect.
Less and less foreplay.
Less and less time, think two pump hump.
How about notifying her that you have an STD?
Nervous breakdown on your part.
Say you were laid off and are now jobless.
Let her start finding out about your drug and alcohol addictions.
Remember when you used to plan on a nice refreshing shower before seeing her? Start planning on skipping a day.

These are all common techniques for repelling your SO when so desired. Make you AP feel like an SO and she will beg you not to bother her any longer.

You've got it down to a science

 

[goldstandard]

He's got to be trolling. There's no way a person with a fully functional brain could ask such a ridiculous question lol.