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When a provider tells you that you are handsome, are they telling the truth?
- Thread starter Tico1
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Some boyfriends or husbands watch their every move after getting them out of a FS spa. They drop them off to work, install an app on their phone to track their movements, Wechat with repeatedly throughout the day to make sure they have their phone, and pick them up after work. I recall several girls that would not venture down the block from the spa because of the tracking. I know several more that never stop glancing at their phone (sounds familiar?)
I know of other girls that married their American spa boyfriend. These guys don't trusts their spa princess at all and cut off their supply of cash. They can buy whatever they want on credit cards but they wont have a Lincoln in their purse.
I guess their honesty or dishonesty boils down to whether you are willing to setup boundaries that they willingly accept within their culture. This comes with all the expectations of taking care of them fully. That's why they ask if you are married, have a house, car, good job. You get triple the points by being a "boss" that employs "workers".
If you plan to be a permissive American and neglect to play the role of the accusatory, jealous, and untrusting Asian husband that threatens consequences, you will get played. It works, but it is a lot of work if you are faking being this person.
I know of other girls that married their American spa boyfriend. These guys don't trusts their spa princess at all and cut off their supply of cash. They can buy whatever they want on credit cards but they wont have a Lincoln in their purse.
I guess their honesty or dishonesty boils down to whether you are willing to setup boundaries that they willingly accept within their culture. This comes with all the expectations of taking care of them fully. That's why they ask if you are married, have a house, car, good job. You get triple the points by being a "boss" that employs "workers".
If you plan to be a permissive American and neglect to play the role of the accusatory, jealous, and untrusting Asian husband that threatens consequences, you will get played. It works, but it is a lot of work if you are faking being this person.
"These guys don't trusts their spa princess at all and cut off their supply of cash."
Why would a husband ever give them a supply of cash or access to their credit card in the first place? Let them go get a real job like any american wife would. Have a small joint account together, but if she wants extravagant things it's on her to get them for herself.
I don't get this entitlement mentality that these Asian girls have. Taking care of them fully? No way, marriage is a partnership. It's not all about them. They're damaged goods to begin with, not that they see themselves in that way though.
For the most part these girls come from poor backgrounds in Asia, they didn't grow up on the upper west side. You would think they would be modest as hell and have no expectations at all of expecting men to lavish them with material goods and money. They never had that lifestyle at all back in Asia yet suddenly they come here, get a BF and expect the moon? WTF---that just will never compute with me.
Also for a boyfriend it would be hard to follow her every move when you both work in different states. If your life revolves around spying on your spa girlfriend maybe it's time to cut bait and find a decent girl away from this biz who is far more likely to be trustworthy.
Why would a husband ever give them a supply of cash or access to their credit card in the first place? Let them go get a real job like any american wife would. Have a small joint account together, but if she wants extravagant things it's on her to get them for herself.
I don't get this entitlement mentality that these Asian girls have. Taking care of them fully? No way, marriage is a partnership. It's not all about them. They're damaged goods to begin with, not that they see themselves in that way though.
For the most part these girls come from poor backgrounds in Asia, they didn't grow up on the upper west side. You would think they would be modest as hell and have no expectations at all of expecting men to lavish them with material goods and money. They never had that lifestyle at all back in Asia yet suddenly they come here, get a BF and expect the moon? WTF---that just will never compute with me.
Also for a boyfriend it would be hard to follow her every move when you both work in different states. If your life revolves around spying on your spa girlfriend maybe it's time to cut bait and find a decent girl away from this biz who is far more likely to be trustworthy.
Dude, you're being coy---no way you're as bad as you make it seem I bet. I read all those reviews of yours, they don't seem repulsed at all---quite the opposite in fact. Paying for it or not the girls seem to dig you a lot! I don't see any doors being slammed in your face or the girls keeping you at arms length during the sessions, lol
They never had the lifestyle, but this was always their dream. It is as engrained as the house with the white picket fence, baseball and apple pie. It is a different culture with it's own rules. The guys that marry them know this. If they wanted an American girl with American rules, they have to shake their Asian fever.
On the flip side, these girls will take care of you in ways that some American girls feel is no longer the role. You can have 50/50 if you want, but I challenge anyone to find that after mongering with a girl.
I recommend to anyone even considering a long term relationship with someone from another culture is to spend at least a month in their native land. Ideally, work there for a year and really get to know the culture and what you are actually signing up for. You may even find ways to attract a well educated civie and avoid the challenges of the spa girls.
On the flip side, these girls will take care of you in ways that some American girls feel is no longer the role. You can have 50/50 if you want, but I challenge anyone to find that after mongering with a girl.
I recommend to anyone even considering a long term relationship with someone from another culture is to spend at least a month in their native land. Ideally, work there for a year and really get to know the culture and what you are actually signing up for. You may even find ways to attract a well educated civie and avoid the challenges of the spa girls.
Dreams are fine--- but when a girl pretty much throws in the towel on life and becomes a whore, you would think expectations would become tampered down A LOT. Like 'I will accept any guy who takes the slightest interest in me considering what I do---and be happy for any crumbs I get in the relationship' expectations, lol.
I still don't understand these girls' 'rules' when they come from a country where the average schlub barely has two nickels to rub together. How does that translate to the girl coming here expecting her every little whim to be taken care of by a man, who if she was in her own country a man could not possibly afford to give her much of ANYTHING?
I still don't understand these girls' 'rules' when they come from a country where the average schlub barely has two nickels to rub together. How does that translate to the girl coming here expecting her every little whim to be taken care of by a man, who if she was in her own country a man could not possibly afford to give her much of ANYTHING?
In my experience, different rules for different sets of girls.
- KGirls want a guy that is both polite and will dish out cash like no tomorrow. For any reason. VL bag, luxur Apt., money for their mother's cancer treatment, etc..
- American girls (young ones, anyway) want a sugar daddy who will shell out cash, but will not ask questions about what she does when he's not around. Which is usually
taking drugs, banging losers and thugs, and giving BJs for more drugs after they blow through the sugar daddy money.
- Not sure what the Chinese ones want. I've seen plenty of them, but TBH, never really had a meaningful conversation with one.
- KGirls want a guy that is both polite and will dish out cash like no tomorrow. For any reason. VL bag, luxur Apt., money for their mother's cancer treatment, etc..
- American girls (young ones, anyway) want a sugar daddy who will shell out cash, but will not ask questions about what she does when he's not around. Which is usually
taking drugs, banging losers and thugs, and giving BJs for more drugs after they blow through the sugar daddy money.
- Not sure what the Chinese ones want. I've seen plenty of them, but TBH, never really had a meaningful conversation with one.
CORROLARY: Please,please,please my fellow sex workers.DO NOT FALL IN LOVE with a client,there will be a lot of pain and mesiry involved.A pickle can never,never,ever turn back into a cucumber.
This version seems equally apt. In fact the pickle/cucumber analogy might even fit better!
But since this is a client board I am not surprised that there is a certain bias in the perspective.
This version seems equally apt. In fact the pickle/cucumber analogy might even fit better!
But since this is a client board I am not surprised that there is a certain bias in the perspective.
No, you didn't hit a nerve. Well, only if you consider the funny bone as a nerve.
I just find it both silly and hypocritical when a gut on here who fucks a lot of women can also say with a straight face "You can't trust/care about a woman who fucks a lot of guys".
Don't see any need for shock therapy because someone else says something foolish.
I just find it both silly and hypocritical when a gut on here who fucks a lot of women can also say with a straight face "You can't trust/care about a woman who fucks a lot of guys".
Don't see any need for shock therapy because someone else says something foolish.
The difference being a lot of us single guys would stop screwing every amp girl in sight if just one of them with whom we connected with and liked would give up what they do and just be a normal girl in a normal relationship with fidelity in mind . Just try and find one that WOULD though, without unrealistically expecting the world from the guy in return.
If we are talking about having a relationship with a FS amp girl, it's not us that can't be trusted, it's THEM and starts with them. We just react as anyone would to someone incapable of being loyal--- by being disloyal ourselves. It's as others have said--- once they go FS the genie is out of the bottle and can't be put back in.
If we are talking about having a relationship with a FS amp girl, it's not us that can't be trusted, it's THEM and starts with them. We just react as anyone would to someone incapable of being loyal--- by being disloyal ourselves. It's as others have said--- once they go FS the genie is out of the bottle and can't be put back in.