Now this is a civil discussion! No name calling or degrading one's choices. I'm a mixture of you two gentlemen. Cynical but romantic at the same time. I would like to find another atf now that I'm more financially stable, but will always have my guard up. We all know why the girls came into the game. But they're still human beings. Treat them as such and they'll treat you back.
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When do you give a gift, and what type?
- Thread starter CaptainBoner
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No name calling or degrading of anyone’s choices on my part. I firmly believe all is good and understand different people have different needs to be filled. When I’m with someone who accepts money for sex I find it difficult to suspend my disbelief that they’d be interested in anything romantic with someone they shared that kind of transaction with. When I’m paying, “meaningless sex” is the extent of what I’m looking for from a pro. I can and have found the “meaningful” part IRL.... it’s just that high male sex drive beast that needs occasional feeding.
So I often give gifts even to unfamiliar people. I usually buy gift baskets and give them to those I want. As a rule, this is a basic set of pleasant little things that a person of any gender and age will like. It helps me endear myself to people and subsequently communicate with them in a more informal style. I think everyone likes gifts and if you have the opportunity to give them, it's worth doing.
For an amp lady, MMS or owner, one of the best gifts you can give is taking them to the supermarket and help them do grocery shopping for the business.
Most of them do not have a car so they pay a cab driver which is not cheap.
The girl (or girls) are in your car and you hold their hands while driving and chit chat and get to know each other better.
Most of them do not have a car so they pay a cab driver which is not cheap.
The girl (or girls) are in your car and you hold their hands while driving and chit chat and get to know each other better.
i was drunk and randomly bought a bouquet of cheap flowers that was $15 on grand st and gave it to a girl i had seen a few times she thanked me with a bbbj
I bought pastries once and the girl i liked wasnt there so i gave them to a different masseuse she looked at me like wtf and im pretty sure it went in the garbage after
I had an extra bag of guac and chips once and gave it to the spa. the next time i went back she thanked me and said it was delicious.
Most recently a different girl started working in a new spa. I bought a $15 lilly plant in a pot for the spa. She seemed to be happy with it.
I bought pastries once and the girl i liked wasnt there so i gave them to a different masseuse she looked at me like wtf and im pretty sure it went in the garbage after
I had an extra bag of guac and chips once and gave it to the spa. the next time i went back she thanked me and said it was delicious.
Most recently a different girl started working in a new spa. I bought a $15 lilly plant in a pot for the spa. She seemed to be happy with it.
Some of these providers live shitty lives, sending their earnings to family overseas, and dealing with clients that try to stiff them (literally) with small tips. Depending on the girl, small favors and gifts can add some emotion to the experience they provide. For the amount we already spend on them, a few extra bucks and expression of thoughtfulness can yield higher returns. But YMMV depending on the girl
Situations are different but thinking of what has gone over well in the past. Anytime fruit is nice. A bag of tangerines, oranges, pears, the ladies appreciate the simple gesture and share around the house and also say so and so gave this to us. Same thing for chocolates. If you know the house well and its not a busy time, particularly during holidays, bring a bottle of champagne and keep a glass for you and the provider and give the rest to mms for the ladies. Not everyone is a big drinker, but some are and will enjoy it. In all of this, the girls talk and say who brought the goodies and thus you get street cred.
During your sessions in normal chit chat, tell your provider I like X,Y&X type food, what do you like? Most likely they said they like X, Y or Z too. Then offer to take them to that type of dinner when it is slow, or give them a gift certificate. Either way a step up in bucks but appreciated. I once gave a gift cert for a nice restaurant for all the ladies in a house thinking they would go or order take out if too busy. Turns out they invited me to go to because their English was so so and they wanted me to go help order and have a good time too. Ok, me at table with mms and 7-8 gorgeous K-gals, I got some strange looks but well it was fun.
Since being in the house all the time is boring, other things work too but border on relationship so be careful if that's not for you. Like, oh, you like the beach or casinos or whatever?, yeah I'm thinking about going next month let's go. (watch out for degenerate gamblers.) Often the ladies are not as mobile or as adept in English or American things, so they are happy to get away with a "guide" and worry free transport. Girlfriend to go, for the cost of a simple vaca, near or far. Remember, no visa/green card issues to fly within the US.
In the end, something to remember is the boredom of being in the house all the time, the often lower mobility of the ladies and the fact they are in a strange land. Anything that alleviates one or more of these is often a welcome distraction from the day in and day out of the business.
Happy gifting.
During your sessions in normal chit chat, tell your provider I like X,Y&X type food, what do you like? Most likely they said they like X, Y or Z too. Then offer to take them to that type of dinner when it is slow, or give them a gift certificate. Either way a step up in bucks but appreciated. I once gave a gift cert for a nice restaurant for all the ladies in a house thinking they would go or order take out if too busy. Turns out they invited me to go to because their English was so so and they wanted me to go help order and have a good time too. Ok, me at table with mms and 7-8 gorgeous K-gals, I got some strange looks but well it was fun.
Since being in the house all the time is boring, other things work too but border on relationship so be careful if that's not for you. Like, oh, you like the beach or casinos or whatever?, yeah I'm thinking about going next month let's go. (watch out for degenerate gamblers.) Often the ladies are not as mobile or as adept in English or American things, so they are happy to get away with a "guide" and worry free transport. Girlfriend to go, for the cost of a simple vaca, near or far. Remember, no visa/green card issues to fly within the US.
In the end, something to remember is the boredom of being in the house all the time, the often lower mobility of the ladies and the fact they are in a strange land. Anything that alleviates one or more of these is often a welcome distraction from the day in and day out of the business.
Happy gifting.
Due to the small number of people in the company, we were all able to become friends. It wasn't just a coordinated job, we became almost a family. She was the person I gave cute souvenirs and big bouquets to because she deserved it. When I quit, I gave her a customized pillow with her face on it. It was a risky and slightly cheeky act, but she laughed heartily. I know this pillow still lives in her office 