Why do you think many guys don't get started with mongering after their first job? As opposed to when they get divorced after a long marriage?

[Brian Cartier]

Hey guys,
This is something I found curious and I asked many guys around the world. It seems many guys get into mongering after getting divorced or after being on a sexless marriage for awhile.

I always wondered why most guys when they get a high paying job the first thing they could do is to start mongering or at least getting into stripclubs more regularly. Who wants to go to the nightclub to approach girls especially if you have money. At the nightclub there are mostly guys there and few girls.

 

[Jpnt]

For me, it was because I was satisfied with my sex life until getting married. I wish I hadn't been so monogamous all those years, but I was monogamous with numerous hot women in their 20s with the occasional one night stand or fuck buddy situation in the mix. All in all, nothing to complain about until I became an incel with a beautiful, but frigid wife. I had no reason to ever pay for it. If I knew then what I know now, I would have gotten in the game sooner but if we're to play that game, I'd have also bought a ton of Amazon and Yahoo stock low and sold high.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I got started BEFORE my first "real" job -- back when I was making $3.75/hr and using my Xmas & Birthday money to supplement when applicable...

 

[Retired061423-1]

I got into mongering after being in a nasty relationship about 12 years ago. I started being a regular at local strip clubs first, then moved onto amps and have been partaking ever since.

 

[Ellocohombre]

Is this for the Times or Post ?

 

[Massage Vet]

Hey guys,
This is something I found curious and I asked many guys around the world. It seems many guys get into mongering after getting divorced or after being on a sexless marriage for awhile.

I always wondered why most guys when they get a high paying job the first thing they could do is to start mongering or at least getting into stripclubs more regularly. Who wants to go to the nightclub to approach girls especially if you have money. At the nightclub there are mostly guys there and few girls.

Such a strange and untrue question/comment.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

Hey guys,
This is something I found curious and I asked many guys around the world. It seems many guys get into mongering after getting divorced or after being on a sexless marriage for awhile.

I always wondered why most guys when they get a high paying job the first thing they could do is to start mongering or at least getting into stripclubs more regularly. Who wants to go to the nightclub to approach girls especially if you have money. At the nightclub there are mostly guys there and few girls.

This is a pretty broad assumption...I would change " most guys" to some guys

I first heard about the massage with extras scene in a chat room of all places, thought it was BS. Then fast forward to about 2005 and while scrolling through the back pages of the village voice the word " shemale" was suddenly noticed..... I had spent many days admiring what I thought were women....anyway while being laughed at by co-workers...one older dude pulled me aside and explained that scene...and the other sex worker scenes including illegal massage parlours .

It was years later before I even decided to try it out, I was not in any of the groups you mentioned, just decided to satisfy my curiousity.

 

[Elduro]

Lack of curiosity. I started doing things alone and realize I had variety at my finger tips. I started with milfs, big tits, small tits, and then onto ladies with diferent butt sizes.

 

[Defyeler]

I had zero need to monger until my divorce.

And I've stopped mongering for about a month now. Unless the MMS I know in the city call me, I've deleted every working girl number off my phone, except of course the ones I've made friends with and no longer see for sex.

I did want to try this one high end girl, but I don't think I'm going to. Summer time, going out and meeting people is much more rewarding for me both physically and emotionally. Plus, it will soon be 4 yrs since my divorce, time to move on.