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Would You Wife an AMP Woman?
- Thread starter brrdmmn
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May I ask how your wife has met these providers? Were you able to convince your wife into a threesome with a provider? And the provider had to act like she didn't know you or you have a free pass to bang hos? Any variation of these would just be a fantasy for most guys. If I could meet a wife who would be ok with me seeing a ho every now and then, that would be amazing.
I've mentioned this in the context of other threads, but sexualy open from day one...we met on AOL...discussed it before we ever met...she was inexperienced and burdened by societal/cultural expectations, but was looking to explode seually from decades of alienation from her sexual nature.
Introduced her to dancing, cause I knew she'd love it...hardest part for her was feeling confident, not burdened by self-criticism and any rejection...but she dug the part about dancing on guys n shit...and hot AF to watch...used to come home at 5:00 or 6:00 AM...shower, eat, and put some of her oiutfits back on and get right back into shit. So, I feel safe sayimg that she enjoyed it...and there weren't too many who did.
It's weird, because unlike most of you guys (I'm guessing), I knew a long time ago that this type of thing would become my main way of meeting women. Unlike you guys, to me, the weirdest and most unexpected part is that I'm married...all this other stuff was inevitable. The prospect of finding anyone who knocked my fuckin socks off and who was a perfect partner for me and who felt the same way about my ass, AND who'd be ok with some form of open marriage involving my dick in other women seemed like a fantasy...one I never even bothered fantasizing about because of how unlikely it would be for me to find. I was planning on just dating indefinitely and transition to paid dating when I got too old to expect to do any regular dating (at least with women I'm attracted to). Then I met a great girl who was ok with it (most of the time) because it was working for us and we'd had some fun with it together. Being able to hook up with other women also keeps my sex drive for my wife extremely high...we always fuck more in the days after I fuck someone else than in the days preceding that...same if it's her hookup...but she hasn't bothered with guys since around 2003 (totally her choice)...had a few dates with couples but didn't pan out. She's very picky about guys and wants to avoid situations that might turn her off rather than on. Understand that I'm pretty hardcore about other societal rituals too (not just psychosexual ones)...Homey don't play celebrations or parties of any kind...or marriages or funerals. We cabbed over to the courthouse in our sweat pants, brought my oldest friend (who she spent the day with and blew once about 7 years earlier) as our witness...cab back home...turned on the TV and she made chicken and something for us.
So, that's where we started from...I had a couple of younger GFs early on...one she became close to for a while and we did the FMF thing a few times...and a secretary at an old job...basically, I like introducing certain types of girls (including providers) to my wife anytime I think there'd be a personality match and especially if there's potential for something more between them. Meeting providers isn't really different from meeting civilian women in that respect: I go for highly-liberated and/or sexed-upwomen who are also extremely sweet in personality and persona, like my wife. Anytime I meet a girl (anywhere), the best case scenario is that they each like what they hear from me about one another and where my expectations from interacting with both of them is that there should be a high likelihood of their liking each other. One girl who we'd seen for a session after I met her alone she took to a Bdwy show, another we've met for lunch and dinner, but nothing besides warm friendship between them, and another she stays in touch with texting.
The way we met providers was simply by my talking to ones I'd already seen alone and asking if they were bi at all and I'd mention that my wife and I sometimes see girls together, and I break out a picture on my cell. Hey, I appreciate what you're saying. I never expected to be married because of the monogamy bullshit. Shuts me down psychosexually (and I believe it's a huge reason when guys stop fucking their wives). When I met my wife, we had nothing (else) necessarily in common but wanted to meet for sex. Ended up really liking, trusting, caring about each other...kept the same rules...not that there are never any potentialy tricky situations...but in principle, yeah, she enjoys watching me with girls. Being bi is another thing she never realized applied to her before we discussed it just one time...it was pretty obvious...she just didn't know what questions to hypothesyze to figure it out for herself. I was just lucky that the chick who wanted to get in touch with her slutty side and looking for it on AOL as much as I awas also happened to be exactly my type and the nicest and most deserving person I've ever met.
Would Repeat. [Wait...sorry...forgot what I was doing here. Never mind.]
Introduced her to dancing, cause I knew she'd love it...hardest part for her was feeling confident, not burdened by self-criticism and any rejection...but she dug the part about dancing on guys n shit...and hot AF to watch...used to come home at 5:00 or 6:00 AM...shower, eat, and put some of her oiutfits back on and get right back into shit. So, I feel safe sayimg that she enjoyed it...and there weren't too many who did.
It's weird, because unlike most of you guys (I'm guessing), I knew a long time ago that this type of thing would become my main way of meeting women. Unlike you guys, to me, the weirdest and most unexpected part is that I'm married...all this other stuff was inevitable. The prospect of finding anyone who knocked my fuckin socks off and who was a perfect partner for me and who felt the same way about my ass, AND who'd be ok with some form of open marriage involving my dick in other women seemed like a fantasy...one I never even bothered fantasizing about because of how unlikely it would be for me to find. I was planning on just dating indefinitely and transition to paid dating when I got too old to expect to do any regular dating (at least with women I'm attracted to). Then I met a great girl who was ok with it (most of the time) because it was working for us and we'd had some fun with it together. Being able to hook up with other women also keeps my sex drive for my wife extremely high...we always fuck more in the days after I fuck someone else than in the days preceding that...same if it's her hookup...but she hasn't bothered with guys since around 2003 (totally her choice)...had a few dates with couples but didn't pan out. She's very picky about guys and wants to avoid situations that might turn her off rather than on. Understand that I'm pretty hardcore about other societal rituals too (not just psychosexual ones)...Homey don't play celebrations or parties of any kind...or marriages or funerals. We cabbed over to the courthouse in our sweat pants, brought my oldest friend (who she spent the day with and blew once about 7 years earlier) as our witness...cab back home...turned on the TV and she made chicken and something for us.
So, that's where we started from...I had a couple of younger GFs early on...one she became close to for a while and we did the FMF thing a few times...and a secretary at an old job...basically, I like introducing certain types of girls (including providers) to my wife anytime I think there'd be a personality match and especially if there's potential for something more between them. Meeting providers isn't really different from meeting civilian women in that respect: I go for highly-liberated and/or sexed-upwomen who are also extremely sweet in personality and persona, like my wife. Anytime I meet a girl (anywhere), the best case scenario is that they each like what they hear from me about one another and where my expectations from interacting with both of them is that there should be a high likelihood of their liking each other. One girl who we'd seen for a session after I met her alone she took to a Bdwy show, another we've met for lunch and dinner, but nothing besides warm friendship between them, and another she stays in touch with texting.
The way we met providers was simply by my talking to ones I'd already seen alone and asking if they were bi at all and I'd mention that my wife and I sometimes see girls together, and I break out a picture on my cell. Hey, I appreciate what you're saying. I never expected to be married because of the monogamy bullshit. Shuts me down psychosexually (and I believe it's a huge reason when guys stop fucking their wives). When I met my wife, we had nothing (else) necessarily in common but wanted to meet for sex. Ended up really liking, trusting, caring about each other...kept the same rules...not that there are never any potentialy tricky situations...but in principle, yeah, she enjoys watching me with girls. Being bi is another thing she never realized applied to her before we discussed it just one time...it was pretty obvious...she just didn't know what questions to hypothesyze to figure it out for herself. I was just lucky that the chick who wanted to get in touch with her slutty side and looking for it on AOL as much as I awas also happened to be exactly my type and the nicest and most deserving person I've ever met.
Would Repeat. [Wait...sorry...forgot what I was doing here. Never mind.]
The Korean lady’s English isn’t very good so I would be doing the translation for her.
Somehow, these couples are able to communicate despite the language barrier. I think it’s because they truly like each other. The guy’s are able to understand what their wives are saying. Quite impressive.
And I’m sure their attorneys prep them so the immigration officer doesn’t become suspicious.
I was never able to communicate with my Korean exes and we had no language barrier.
Somehow, these couples are able to communicate despite the language barrier. I think it’s because they truly like each other. The guy’s are able to understand what their wives are saying. Quite impressive.
And I’m sure their attorneys prep them so the immigration officer doesn’t become suspicious.
I was never able to communicate with my Korean exes and we had no language barrier.
I'm always fascinated by stories like yours, bro. They seem to pop up a few times a year at least.
Just a couple of questions: Has she had the baby yet? If not, did she go back to work WHILE she was pregnant? It's not clear to me.
Man, I don't know where to begin here. I know at LEAST 5 friends who have TRIED to have a relationship with these working women (not even counting MYSELF!).
I know 4 girls currently married who are working either one day a week on the slide or they tell their husbands that they are working in a legit spa now (but they're offering extra services). During the spring I was seeing a few different ex spa girls who were either in a serious relationship or married. They reached out to me to try to make some money. So I'd take them out to a hotel for the night or weekend and pay them well. After a few months with one girl (who had a bf for two years) she asked me one day as I was dropping her off "Why don't you ever ask me out on a REAL date???"!!!
So... yeah... not all of these girls are fucked up in the head but MANY of them are! Yeah, they say they don't like the work buuuuuut... they are having fun with some customers. Don't believe otherwise.
I have one very close friend who had his life turned UpSiDe DoWn when his gf who had his baby tried to leave the country when he was away on business one week. Needless to say that didn't work out well.
I like to believe that there are (eternal) happy endings for some of these women and their customers. But I know much more stories about bad break-ups, ultimatums, deception and broken hearts.
Finally, what is it you love about her exactly? Don't mean to pry but I'm just wondering what qualities she possesses that made you fall in love with her?
Good luck either way and feel free to pm if you want to discuss anything further, bro.
Just a couple of questions: Has she had the baby yet? If not, did she go back to work WHILE she was pregnant? It's not clear to me.
Man, I don't know where to begin here. I know at LEAST 5 friends who have TRIED to have a relationship with these working women (not even counting MYSELF!).
I know 4 girls currently married who are working either one day a week on the slide or they tell their husbands that they are working in a legit spa now (but they're offering extra services). During the spring I was seeing a few different ex spa girls who were either in a serious relationship or married. They reached out to me to try to make some money. So I'd take them out to a hotel for the night or weekend and pay them well. After a few months with one girl (who had a bf for two years) she asked me one day as I was dropping her off "Why don't you ever ask me out on a REAL date???"!!!
So... yeah... not all of these girls are fucked up in the head but MANY of them are! Yeah, they say they don't like the work buuuuuut... they are having fun with some customers. Don't believe otherwise.
I have one very close friend who had his life turned UpSiDe DoWn when his gf who had his baby tried to leave the country when he was away on business one week. Needless to say that didn't work out well.
I like to believe that there are (eternal) happy endings for some of these women and their customers. But I know much more stories about bad break-ups, ultimatums, deception and broken hearts.
Finally, what is it you love about her exactly? Don't mean to pry but I'm just wondering what qualities she possesses that made you fall in love with her?
Good luck either way and feel free to pm if you want to discuss anything further, bro.
From the people I talk to a lot of these girls "quit" but still work in Flushing (either still FS or just HE.) Maybe if she just started in the biz then thats one thing. But vets are vets for a reason.
Civvie woman, I wouldn't think about it but an AMP girl you will always ask.....damn did she go back. Especially as the OP said he saw her reviews and what others did to her that day
A lot of people say trust but that would be super hard to do
Civvie woman, I wouldn't think about it but an AMP girl you will always ask.....damn did she go back. Especially as the OP said he saw her reviews and what others did to her that day
A lot of people say trust but that would be super hard to do
From the people I talk to a lot of these girls "quit" but still work in Flushing (either still FS or just HE.) Maybe if she just started in the biz then thats one thing. But vets are vets for a reason.
Civvie woman, I wouldn't think about it but an AMP girl you will always ask.....damn did she go back. Especially as the OP said he saw her reviews and what others did to her that day
A lot of people say trust but that would be super hard to do
Civvie woman, I wouldn't think about it but an AMP girl you will always ask.....damn did she go back. Especially as the OP said he saw her reviews and what others did to her that day
A lot of people say trust but that would be super hard to do
To answer yours and everyone’s question because it looks like there is a misinterpretation: she is currently pregnant and in the business right now.
And that is strictly her choice. Money is not an issue, I can support her—but she co-owns the shop with some of the other girls and leaving the business will definitely be a huge pay cut for her. She told me that I am not supposed to try and save or fix her lifestyle.
As for why I love her? That’s something that I am re-evaluating right now.
And that is strictly her choice. Money is not an issue, I can support her—but she co-owns the shop with some of the other girls and leaving the business will definitely be a huge pay cut for her. She told me that I am not supposed to try and save or fix her lifestyle.
As for why I love her? That’s something that I am re-evaluating right now.
Then money is the issue if she's worried about the "huge pay cut".
This is very simple and a case of unrequited love. She's prioritizing money and sucking/ screwing random men over the relationship she has with you.
It's fine to be non-judgmental and progressive in your thinking on the issue, but know that it serves as a mask for denialism.
The gal is pregnant and was dishonest with you (either through boldfaced lying or omission) about what she has been up to - it's not normative behavior for anyone who would claim to be in love with another human being (working gals shouldn't get a free pass here), but then again, maybe she never confessed her love for you.
If you can separate your emotions from your calculus for one minute, you'll have your moment of clarity.
The fact that you ever wound up in a relationship with a working gal, I'm going to make the leap and assume you probably came into the relationship with relatively low self-esteem, and the fact that you're unsure of how to respond to this latest transgression is further evidence that the assumption holds true.
Having a child involved definitely complicates this case, but remember that there are many quality women in NYC, and you certainly won't be at that great of a loss by ending a relationship with a working gal...you may in fact eliminate a lot of baggage from your life by doing so.
This is very simple and a case of unrequited love. She's prioritizing money and sucking/ screwing random men over the relationship she has with you.
It's fine to be non-judgmental and progressive in your thinking on the issue, but know that it serves as a mask for denialism.
The gal is pregnant and was dishonest with you (either through boldfaced lying or omission) about what she has been up to - it's not normative behavior for anyone who would claim to be in love with another human being (working gals shouldn't get a free pass here), but then again, maybe she never confessed her love for you.
If you can separate your emotions from your calculus for one minute, you'll have your moment of clarity.
The fact that you ever wound up in a relationship with a working gal, I'm going to make the leap and assume you probably came into the relationship with relatively low self-esteem, and the fact that you're unsure of how to respond to this latest transgression is further evidence that the assumption holds true.
Having a child involved definitely complicates this case, but remember that there are many quality women in NYC, and you certainly won't be at that great of a loss by ending a relationship with a working gal...you may in fact eliminate a lot of baggage from your life by doing so.