Would you?

[Uniquelyme]

Just curious. So my gf and I have sex lately 4-6 times a week. Sometimes it's 3-4. This has been going on 3 mos or so. I don't really have much left over with work and on top of that I am trying to be good. I stray when we have an argument and she overreacts.

If your gf or wife was very pleasing in bed. Would you not stray? Or would you still because variety is the spice of life. My gf is more attractive than the majority of these pros in the 400 and under range.

I'm also curious when does the sex drive go down with work and my gf 4xs is sometimes enough. I read some stories hear and I'm just surprised people crave it daily lol.

 

[Spaceman1917]

Same boat. Sex drive rises and falls at home....and sometimes it affects how much I want to stray. But really, I find the addiction is what determines things.

 

[headsup]

I would say if your GF is a hottie, likes sex, does not have any limits that you can't live with, and you love, respect and admire her... then don't lose her. I would say lay off the providers given all that, especially if you are taking the relationship to another level like marriage and family. It comes down to what your needs and goals are, I believe.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I would say if your GF is a hottie, likes sex, does not have any limits that you can't live with, and you love, respect and admire her... then don't lose her. I would say lay off the providers given all that, especially if you are taking the relationship to another level like marriage and family. It comes down to what your needs and goals are, I believe.

Marriage Woah Woah Woah!!! Lol nah I getcha. I'm just trying to decipher if it's like @Spaceman1917 says the addictive nature of this hobby that keeps me intrigued. Or just the variety. I feel like it's a combo of the two.

Also if sex drive goes lower cause some threads I read it seems the older gents have a sex drive pretty high lol

 

[Nycthobby]

Marriage Woah Woah Woah!!! Lol nah I getcha. I'm just trying to decipher if it's like @Spaceman1917 says the addictive nature of this hobby that keeps me intrigued. Or just the variety. I feel like it's a combo of the two.

Also if sex drive goes lower cause some threads I read it seems the older gents have a sex drive pretty high lol

Mannn I’ve been wondering that too.. honestly I think it’s the power dynamic that I can’t stop getting off on. Lol even having cute chicks on the side to hook up with for free, idk if I’ll ever tire of the idea of dominating some random new hot undergrad for a couple hundred bucks and not have to do the text/date/drinks thing.

I might avoid it moreee if I’m in a good thing because of fear of losing the good situation-ship I’ve got. But that doesn’t make me less attracted to some agencies new young addition to their line-up. Lol it just makes me less inclined to book (but I’m def still picturing having that girl blow me).

 

[MAXIMUS]

Great sexlife at home is awesome. I suggest you cut down on chippy on the side to once a months as a threat.

Make sure you only go with top notch talent because you will feel bad if you go with a McDonald's burger when you have filet mignon at home

 

[Uniquelyme]

Mannn I’ve been wondering that too.. honestly I think it’s the power dynamic that I can’t stop getting off on. Lol even having cute chicks on the side to hook up with for free, idk if I’ll ever tire of the idea of dominating some random new hot undergrad for a couple hundred bucks and not have to do the text/date/drinks thing.

I might avoid it moreee if I’m in a good thing because of fear of losing the good situation-ship I’ve got. But that doesn’t make me less attracted to some agencies new young addition to their line-up. Lol it just makes me less inclined to book (but I’m def still picturing having that girl blow me).

Yes. Like I don't check staff that much. But I'd be fronting if I didn't tell you I've checked out Lears girls and IG's lineup from time to time. Every once and a while the amp girls and even cityguide. This shit is tough to ever really quit. That's why I never say I'm done etc. Cause just from my hiatuses 3 times. Towards that 9th-14 mo however long the hiatus I'm looking to get back lol.

For me it's just looking at a Woman ima have some fun with. That's just arousing to me. That I'm looking at her pic and then I'm smashing.

I've got my girl, got girls at work that flirt. Got pschicks that are with it. Ex dates and gfs I could reach out to. Words with friends girls I've flirted with. Hooked up with a few lmaoooooo. All of them are some type of work. Some a lot, some very little, some virtually none.

However the seeing someone and her not catching feelings makes it tough to give up.

Even SA which is awesome they catch feelings. Whereas the pro doesn't usually.

 

[Desiguy]

I have a partner that is fairly attractive, enjoys sex and is a great person / wife / mother. That notwithstanding, the lust doesn't last forever in a marriage and I think (only speaking for myself) that it's just a desire for new strange that pulls me back in. I like the excitement of finding someone new and the variety of trying things / looks I can't get at home. I wish a lot of times that I wouldn't stray but I think even if I had my sexual ideal at home, the variety and at this point the addiction would lead me to look.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I have a partner that is fairly attractive, enjoys sex and is a great person / wife / mother. That notwithstanding, the lust doesn't last forever in a marriage and I think (only speaking for myself) that it's just a desire for new strange that pulls me back in. I like the excitement of finding someone new and the variety of trying things / looks I can't get at home. I wish a lot of times that I wouldn't stray but I think even if I had my sexual ideal at home, the variety and at this point the addiction would lead me to look.

That's my point. That's why I get on dudes that got those hobby goggles on and wear thick lenses. My girl is attractive. Let's say she's a 7.5-8 lol.

Even if she was a legit 9 I think I would stray from time to time. Shit maybe even stray with some 7.5's.

 

[green2]

Here's the harsh put simple truth. If your in a committed monogamous relationship or marriage, dont cheat. It undermines trust and safety and ultimately any sexual emotional intimacy. If you want to have variety, dont make a commitment or be in an open relationship.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Here's the harsh put simple truth. If your in a committed monogamous relationship or marriage, dont cheat. It undermines trust and safety and ultimately any sexual emotional intimacy. If you want to have variety, dont make a commitment or be in an open relationship.

Sounds straight forward. You know most pros will tell you it's not cheating lmaooooo

Ik it is but it's not the same as an affair.

You make a fair point.

 

[green2]

Not trying to an ahol3..life is obviously way more complicated. People have children in laws and other dynamics. These things evolve and peoples needs go unmet at times or never, hence the cheating. I wouldn't blame the cheater..the other person in the relationship needs to take responsibility too in most cases.

 

[Rogermoore]

I am juggling my wife, AND my provider gf....AND I continue to stray about twice a week. A little more difficult when provider gf is not working, but I find a way to get it done. The problem is my wife is attractive, and my provider gf is really full blown hot, so most if not nearly every straying experience lately is with someone that is not as good looking. So I end up feeling like I am just wasting my time, effort and money.

 

[Chiparlor]

not judging anyone here. If my wife/gf/roommate is champ in a lot of areas with of course few flaws, I would not stray at all.

I will share an example. My Miss You provider asked me if I could chauffeur a girl from parlor a to parlor b. I said I would because I know in my mind I will add a new contact on my fone.

When the new provider hopped in my vehicle, the Miss You provider said not to do anything ish. We nodded and hushed.

We left parlor a and did some ish things in our vehicle on the way to parlor b including exchanging information.

Somehow the Miss You provider asked me why we exchanged information, I simply said we are not a unit yet. If we were a unit, I would not do that. She said okay and not going to argue with me.

I am glad we were not a unit because our ish time during travel was worth the trip!!!

 

[Jasonastor1]

I’m gonna need to see a nude pic of your gf before answering g

 

[Chiparlor]

All of my providers nude pictures are my property and aint going to share! I do share some selfies to certain ampr customers.

 

[MAXIMUS]

Here's the harsh put simple truth. If your in a committed monogamous relationship or marriage, dont cheat. It undermines trust and safety and ultimately any sexual emotional intimacy. If you want to have variety, dont make a commitment or be in an open relationship.

Sounds like a bunch of cultural indoctrination crap to me. The human male organism did not evolve to be monogamous nor for permanent long term pair bonding. We are fucked by circumstances otherwise we would all be like ghengis Kahn. Why do you think there is such thing as harems concubines slaves roman orgies etc?

Amy man that claims he needs commitment devotion blah blah blah .. is deluding himself.

Fact is that we can be intimate committed and in love with hundreds of women at the same time

Thus spoke Darwin.

 

[hamilton2015]

Sounds straight forward. You know most pros will tell you it's not cheating lmaooooo

Ik it is but it's not the same as an affair.

You make a fair point.

Pros always say its not cheating lol, except when you decide to see another girl instead of them in the same agency then you are cheating and its different lol.

 

[hamilton2015]

Sounds like a bunch of cultural indoctrination crap to me. The human male organism did not evolve to be monogamous nor for permanent long term pair bonding. We are fucked by circumstances otherwise we would all be like ghengis Kahn. Why do you think there is such thing as harems concubines slaves roman orgies etc?

Amy man that claims he needs commitment devotion blah blah blah .. is deluding himself.

Fact is that we can be intimate committed and in love with hundreds of women at the same time

Thus spoke Darwin.

There may be a truth to this but if you are truly in a good relationship with a good and beautiful woman, then you have to decide whats that worth to you. Would you rather spread yourself with as many women as possible or hunker down with one woman who gives you fulfillment. It depends on what matters to you.

 

[hamilton2015]

I think that the hobby can be addictive at times and after you get past that high, there is an emptiness that comes. Sometimes I find myself bored when I am with the girls while lobbying, Im finding im only enjoying myself if I have chemistry/connection with the girl in some way.