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Keeping the hobby from the wife...

archie65

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So VPN I use that most of the time I log in. Is that to stay secure from LE or something else?
Without a VPN, your connection is open. which means if someone wants to look (boss, employer, wife) at your data they can - for most it is not super necessary unless you are on the wifes "watch list", in that case you should try and be as secure as you can - its not that expensive and is jsut antoehr level of protection - again most dont need it but its there in case you do.
 

OlderGuy77

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word. got married young then got divorced around 28. Swore off marriage for years and lived very happily as an Alpha. Which is what my current wife got attracted to I'm sure (plus was I was a single dad so she saw the sensitive side too). BUT, it's hard to still remain an Alpha after years of marriage and little rugrats running around.
Therein lies the tightrope known as marriage. My old boss used to say “you’ve got to keep them on the ropes”. Sounds good on paper but he ended up divorced. The crux of the matter is that once there are children and financial commitment you don’t have the leverage of the classic Alpha. My conclusion is keep yourself in shape, don’t be a jerk and maintain your boundaries. If you feel you have a perceived leverage don’t abuse it. Good luck
 

Versao

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Therein lies the tightrope known as marriage. My old boss used to say “you’ve got to keep them on the ropes”. Sounds good on paper but he ended up divorced. The crux of the matter is that once there are children and financial commitment you don’t have the leverage of the classic Alpha. My conclusion is keep yourself in shape, don’t be a jerk and maintain your boundaries. If you feel you have a perceived leverage don’t abuse it. Good luck
Exactly, you beat me to it. Well said.
 

jasonmet0099

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dude same shit happened to me - good lesson
You can turn on or pause Location History from within your Activity Controls and can delete your Location History data here. Note: You can see Timeline on the Google Maps app version 9.12 and up. If your Google Maps app is older, visit maps.google.com/timeline on yourdesktop or mobile browser to see Timeline.”
 

AutomaticSlim

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What you really need to think about is: Is she messing around with someone else?

Women are much better at hiding things like this from men. Just something to think about.
Yeah, but if she's some wrinkled 40 y/o bag, who cares?
I'm not married, but if I was, I would hire a PI and get pics if I suspected that. Then divorce in my favor. No alimony. Yippee!

It's, um.....a real good thing I'm not married.... :sneaky:
 

joebelfonte

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I'd like to add more item to the privacy / location tracking. Check your vehicle's app. We have a new Ford and it's app Ford Pass shows where your vehicle is located/parked. I'm not sure if you can turn it off or not. My wife it not tech savvy so she probably won't bother to look, but who knows....
 

OlderGuy77

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Yeah, but if she's some wrinkled 40 y/o bag, who cares?
I'm not married, but if I was, I would hire a PI and get pics if I suspected that. Then divorce in my favor. No alimony. Yippee!

It's, um.....a real good thing I'm not married.... :sneaky:
Infidelity isn’t necessarily grounds for no alimony. There is automatic (pendent lite) which is set at first hearing. It ends when divorce is final and virtually impossible to adjust. Woman’s attorney can prolong settlement and bleed you into submission. Just sayin
 

Versao

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Infidelity isn’t necessarily grounds for no alimony. There is automatic (pendent lite) which is set at first hearing. It ends when divorce is final and virtually impossible to adjust. Woman’s attorney can prolong settlement and bleed you into submission. Just sayin
Marriage is really the best deal for a woman, pretty much all divorce laws are in their favor.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Infidelity isn’t necessarily grounds for no alimony. There is automatic (pendent lite) which is set at first hearing. It ends when divorce is final and virtually impossible to adjust. Woman’s attorney can prolong settlement and bleed you into submission. Just sayin
Now that just plain sucks and reinforces my belief that this country was far better off prior to the 1960s. And prior to 1920.

Also reinforces my thoughts on marriage as well...
 

Massage Vet

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Since I have been "semi caught" I am extra careful. I almost never use my phone, but the couple times I do I immediately erase the history. I never, ever use a home or work computer or cell for searching, I only use an iPad kept at work that nobody knows about and browsing history is erased after each use. Before entering an AMP I turn off my phone. I do not use AMP's anywhere near my house or near where my wife and friends frequent. I absolutely never talk about this hobby with anybody. I only go to an AMP when my wife will not be home that night, or when I will have several hours in between the massage and heading home (I am concerned about the smell, residual oils, messed hair, etc.). Also, I do nothing uncovered. Although this seems like a lot, it allows me to enjoy the hobby with peace of mind. I have been doing this long enough that it is all second nature.
Semi caught?
 

Jakethesnake

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Me too! Except now I am supervised probation - and if she could put an ankle bracelet on me - she would.
Caught, but neither of us wanted to go down that road I pleaded down to massage with hj and was let off with time served and a severe warning to not do that again
Ok so if you don't mind me asking so the rest of us can learn and hopefully prevent ourselves from getting caught, how exactly did you both get caught? Bearfoot so you only admitted to HJ but your reviiews clearly show that you did more than that. How did you get her to believe you? Are either of you able to monger anymore or are those days over?
 

Jakethesnake

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Caught, but neither of us wanted to go down that road I pleaded down to massage with hj and was let off with time served and a severe warning to not do that again
Actually dude before you even answer me you need to make your reviews more private. If I can see them, your wife might figure it out!
 

Jakethesnake

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Caught, but neither of us wanted to go down that road I pleaded down to massage with hj and was let off with time served and a severe warning to not do that again
Sorry I just realized you already answered this above. This post has been going on for a while I probably should have re-read everything. You're the guy with the ipad at work so you should be good i guess.
 
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