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Keeping the hobby from the wife...
- Thread starter rottie
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I hear you. We still have sex and it's good, just not often enough. I supplement my needs with AMP precisely so I don't resent her for it. As awful as it sounds, it helps because then I don't feel like I'm constantly hounding her for it and making her feel guilty for not being in the mood. So long as my needs are met, I'm fine. We still do it often enough that she's not like thinking I'm getting it elsewhere.
And while we were dating before we got married I did tell her I loved massages and got happy endings every once in a while, she does think those days are over. So she would be devastated, hence the secrets. Even if she said she understood and forgave me, they're never the same after that.
And while we were dating before we got married I did tell her I loved massages and got happy endings every once in a while, she does think those days are over. So she would be devastated, hence the secrets. Even if she said she understood and forgave me, they're never the same after that.
You are so close to not doing stuff in secret. Just tell her sometimes you miss the great feeling of a person just there to please you with massage and other erotic things. Then ask her if she would ever like to occasionally have a sensual massage. You might be surprised. It is really fun to both go and then compare notes and laugh. The secretive stuff sucks.
Remember one thing. Women will always sniff you when you walk in. If you run to the shower her antenna go up
I would not give Anyone in the office that kind of power. Burner phone is a good idea
I’m long divorced. She was a miserable human being. I held out as long as I could. Youngest was 13 and I was a faithful reliable dad. Never got remarried. 19 years. Just GF’s now. I developed roaming habits in marriage that are hard to break. I’m super careful
I would not give Anyone in the office that kind of power. Burner phone is a good idea
I’m long divorced. She was a miserable human being. I held out as long as I could. Youngest was 13 and I was a faithful reliable dad. Never got remarried. 19 years. Just GF’s now. I developed roaming habits in marriage that are hard to break. I’m super careful
Since I have been "semi caught" I am extra careful. I almost never use my phone, but the couple times I do I immediately erase the history. I never, ever use a home or work computer or cell for searching, I only use an iPad kept at work that nobody knows about and browsing history is erased after each use. Before entering an AMP I turn off my phone. I do not use AMP's anywhere near my house or near where my wife and friends frequent. I absolutely never talk about this hobby with anybody. I only go to an AMP when my wife will not be home that night, or when I will have several hours in between the massage and heading home (I am concerned about the smell, residual oils, messed hair, etc.). Also, I do nothing uncovered. Although this seems like a lot, it allows me to enjoy the hobby with peace of mind. I have been doing this long enough that it is all second nature.
a couple items to make sure you check:
1. never use your number - get a texting app (textfree is an example) or get anther phone. also try never to call if possible
2. never browse on your phone - to hard to scrub even in private mode, and you can easilty forget or hit a wrong window and you jump from incognito to regular use - and if you dont delete history - you are in trouble.
3. Use a desktop and if possible buy a vpn to staty secure
4. watch the broser you use - google can synch between phone and desktop - its a setting you should check
5. watch other apps - google maps, etc. everywhere you go can be tracked and you don't know it. I always use an address close but not exact
5. DONT DRINK AND MONGER - you totally forget all the shit you should do - turst me!!!!
1. never use your number - get a texting app (textfree is an example) or get anther phone. also try never to call if possible
2. never browse on your phone - to hard to scrub even in private mode, and you can easilty forget or hit a wrong window and you jump from incognito to regular use - and if you dont delete history - you are in trouble.
3. Use a desktop and if possible buy a vpn to staty secure
4. watch the broser you use - google can synch between phone and desktop - its a setting you should check
5. watch other apps - google maps, etc. everywhere you go can be tracked and you don't know it. I always use an address close but not exact
5. DONT DRINK AND MONGER - you totally forget all the shit you should do - turst me!!!!
Once I had a serious conversation with a provider, non Chinese, many things were discussed. Talking about differences between a provider and a wife she concluded: whether it is a provider or a wife, you will always be paying no matter what. With the provider it is understood is a business transaction, with a wife you always pay indirectly but sex is not even guaranteed. So true.
word. got married young then got divorced around 28. Swore off marriage for years and lived very happily as an Alpha. Which is what my current wife got attracted to I'm sure (plus was I was a single dad so she saw the sensitive side too). BUT, it's hard to still remain an Alpha after years of marriage and little rugrats running around.