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What would you tell yourself before getting into this hobby?

joeymachine

joeymachine

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I will give my opinion and it is my opinion only. My first marriage lasted 3 and half years and my current marriage 34 years. I have had numerous girlfriends over the years and have paid for hundreds of women. I have been seeing a Korean woman on the side for over 4 years now. From my current and prior experiences, the women change and the biggest motivator is money. Without money, you are sunk. My friends agree with me, including a physician and psychiatrist. If you think otherwise then you are just kidding yourself and maybe you are better off kidding yourself. I am not saying that there is not love and caring in a relationship. There is. However, I believe money trumps all, no pun intended.
 
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Matawan3

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joeymachine said:
I will give my opinion and it is my opinion only. My first marriage lasted 3 and half years and my current marriage 34 years. I have had numerous girlfriends over the years and have paid for hundreds of women. I have been seeing a Korean woman on the side for over 4 years now. From my current and prior experiences, the women change and the biggest motivator is money. Without money, you are sunk. My friends agree with me, including a physician and psychiatrist. If you think otherwise then you are just kidding yourself and maybe you are better off kidding yourself. I am not saying that there is not love and caring in a relationship. There is. However, I believe money trumps all, no pun intended.
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I think its just chemically built in. Back in the day the guy was the hunter/gatherer and the woman raised the kids and wanted the man to feel safe and secure. A lot of that is connected to money.

As far as sex goes. I think in almost all cases, it disappears. When I started dating my Ex, I was probably spoiled. She liked all kinds of crazy stuff, 24/7, the sexting never ended, she couldn't get enough. She'd even be the one wanting to take me to adult conventions for "ideas". Even with all of that it eventually turned 100% into a dead bedroom. She "just wasn't feeling it". Then she got her kicks elsewhere, because that was new and exciting. Or whatever. It all turns to shit.
 
joeymachine

joeymachine

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My best friend has been married to his wife for 38 years. He told me he has to practically beg his wife for some form of sex and at best he gets it twice a week, more likely once a week. He told me his wife loves to spend money and has a terrible temper sometimes. I told him he is lucky he still finds his wife attractive. He has gone in the past with me to the spas and has always enjoyed himself.
 
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There is another guy I know who is 72 and his wife is 58. He is from Maryland and his wife is from Chile. He has been married for around 15 years and he met her online as she was living in San Antonio. She has 2 kids from 2 prior marriages. He was desperate and would have married a blowup doll as he did not want to be alone. His wife now slaps and hollers at him if he does not listen to her. She controls him. First of all, no one would be hitting me as that would be a big mistake on their part. Secondly, no one would be controlling me to that extent. In my opinion, he is a numbskull.
 
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Yeah, sad state of affairs. I know a guy who let an unattractive, unemployed 30 something year old woman with 3 kids from a previous marriage into his house. I guess they are getting married and she requested that he buy her a bigger house for her kids. So now he supports her, kids that aren't his etc. I wonder how long until she cheats on him, leaves him, and bones him in court........Not for me.
 
이 회장님

이 회장님

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This summer when I went to Korea, my family pressured me into meeting a lady for an arranged marriage. I went, we talked, had lunch at an overpriced and fancy restaurant.

I thanked her for her time but kindly told her that I have no intentions of getting married.

I dropped her home and then immediately drove over to the red light district in Paju (near Camp Casey). 200 whorehouses to choose from. lol.
 
joeymachine

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Another friend of mine is on marriage number 4 and he says to me this is his best marriage yet, so their is still hope.
 
joeymachine

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My neighbor in my office building has been married for 44 years. He has told me that he does not care about sex and would rather play golf. He has prostate cancer and so far it is stable and he has not needed any treatment and is just monitored. He has an attractive 29 year old Russian girl who works for him and she is divorced. I kid around with him that he is going to make a move on her. He says he has no interest and said his wife is due to inherit $500,000 from her mother and he does not want to jeopardize any access to the money. He said his marriage is great, but he is a liar. When he was ill for a while and his wife had to drive him around, she said to me that she did not know how long she could drive him around and do some things for him as it is driving her crazy. I felt like saying you don't work and your 2 kids are grown, so what do you have to cry about as you have a life of riley. So much for your devotion to your husband, I felt like telling her.
 
joeymachine

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I promise this will be my last negative story, even though I could go on for a bit yet. I used to work with this guy many years ago. He was married and had a son who was in elementary school. He was 34 and his wife was 32. He suspected his wife was cheating on him. He hired a PI and had her followed. It turns out she was having an affair with her boss. The PI caught her in the act and divorce proceedings began. His wife contracted breast cancer at a young age. It was familial as her mother and grandmother both had it. It spread very quickly and she passed away within a year. When she passed away, this guy said to me, well that is what she gets for cheating on me and at least I don't have to worry about custody battles.
 
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poop58249 said:
I am also in my 20s and started in 2018. Financially, everyone makes different amount, imo as long as you have control and budget it should be fine. I don't think I will ever regret it, this is a happy unique experience for us. Imo it's kind of like spending 200-500$ eating a meal from Gordon Ramsay or Jiro Ono. It's definitely something to try at least once in our lifetime. What is money for if not to experience good things in life. My friends probably spend the same amount of money drinking and smoking.
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your reason is too healthy for me.

my need is quirkier but probably shared by many. i have this need to do something naughty/edgy/tabooish/dangerous. except for my atf's i like to go in not knowing what i'll get, and i generally prefer utr's
 
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이 회장님 said:
This summer when I went to Korea, my family pressured me into meeting a lady for an arranged marriage. I went, we talked, had lunch at an overpriced and fancy restaurant.

I thanked her for her time but kindly told her that I have no intentions of getting married.

I dropped her home and then immediately drove over to the red light district in Paju (near Camp Casey). 200 whorehouses to choose from. lol.
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Spoken like a true monger - I love it . That is something I would have done
 
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I've been doing this for nearly 2 decades. My introductuon came through work associates when I use to work directly with folks in the funds world. Not much came out of my own pocket back then. It was something of wolf of wastreet situation bit these guys were more controlled, not big into substance use except too much alcohol. This is also the time period when I saw the highest end ladies I ever would including PornStars. That carried me through my first 7 years of the hobby. Once I had to start paying out of pocket 100% of the time my hobbling went down considerably. Out of my own pocket I haven't spent enough to be able to say that my life would be substantial better having kept the money and used it elsewhere. So while I probably wouldn't mind undoing all my hobbying, the financial aspect has just never been that great for me. To be honest I'm ok with having spent the sums I have given the quality of women I've had. I never would have caught some of them on my own not a chance so it was well worth it for certain ones. There are some life lessons I've genuinely learned over my hobby years and some of those have been worth the spend.
 
TheFreakz

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After all these years, I think getting MILFS from supermarkets is the best deal.
Give them what their husbands don't give, your attention.
Then when it's time, walk away.
 
Coffe_Tech

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It's gonna be near impossible to quit for me. A slim Korean girl with an athletic body around 5'7 tall walks into the H-Mart in Bayside. Although she was wearing normal blue jeans, it was impossible to hide her figure. Trying my best to be discrete, but we both locked eyes above our mask. She had innocent pure eyes that belied her cold attitude. That's kinda hot. Normally, I have no chance at anything close to this in my private life and immediately, it would make me feel depressed and hopeless. But knowing at anytime I can call K-AMP with rosters that's hotter than her makes me feel a little better.
 
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Coffe_Tech said:
It's gonna be near impossible to quit for me. A slim Korean girl with an athletic body around 5'7 tall walks into the H-Mart in Bayside. Although she was wearing normal blue jeans, it was impossible to hide her figure. Trying my best to be discrete, but we both locked eyes above our mask. She had innocent pure eyes that belied her cold attitude. That's kinda hot. Normally, I have no chance at anything close to this in my private life and immediately, it would make me feel depressed and hopeless. But knowing at anytime I can call K-AMP with rosters that's hotter than her makes me feel a little better.
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This is a good point and omething that made approaching civi chicks that much easier for me. I started punching above my weight, so to speak, once I realized women on par with models and actresses were available to me at a moments notice. Suddenly any fear of rejection or of making fool of my self went away completely, more natural interactions happened and paid off for me in the civi game.
 
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Talo said:
This is a good point and omething that made approaching civi chicks that much easier for me. I started punching above my weight, so to speak, once I realized women on par with models and actresses were available to me at a moments notice. Suddenly any fear of rejection or of making fool of my self went away completely, more natural interactions happened and paid off for me in the civi game.
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Exactly. The rejection stings less knowing I have backups who can rock my world better than she can. I placed attractive girls on a high pedestal, but it made talking to girls who I would normally avoid easier to talk to. Either that or I'm just not giving any fucks what people think anymore with age.
 
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