What would you tell yourself before getting into this hobby?

[Zzzz]

I agree with this to a point.
However, practice always helps.
A guy that bangs 20, or 50, or 100, 150 providers a year will eventually learn how to use his schwanz.
It's better than not using it.
And also, he won't be so intimidated by some divorced 130 lb 35 y/o with stretch marks and cellulite...

If that guy focuses on the right signals.

Based on reviews I read, it seems like a lot of guys focus on the contrived moans and verbal praise as the main method of evaluating how they're doing.

Those are false signals. The thing guys should be focusing on is what the gal's body is communicating.

Is blood flowing to her nether regions, is her genitalia and pubic area swelling, the obvious excess fluid, translucent is a good start, but viscous white even better. Eyes rolling to the back of her head, is she uncontrollably shaking while having the O, etc.

True, you can learn a few things by running up your body count, but only if you know what you're looking for.

 

[Matawan3]

If that guy focuses on the right signals.

Based on reviews I read, it seems like a lot of guys focus on the contrived moans and verbal praise as the main method of evaluating how they're doing.

Those are false signals. The thing guys should be focusing on is what the gal's body is communicating.

Is blood flowing to her nether regions, is her genitalia and pubic area swelling, the obvious excess fluid, translucent is a good start, but viscous white even better. Eyes rolling to the back of her head, is she uncontrollably shaking while having the O, etc.

True, you can learn a few things by running up your body count, but only if you know what you're looking for.

And I think you touched on a great point, if you can excite a provider who has tons of experience; obviously. You can certainly do that with a date.

Confidence; way up!

 

[joeymachine]

Money is the big equalizer.

 

[Zzzz]

And I think you touched on a great point, if you can excite a provider who has tons of experience; obviously. You can certainly do that with a date.

Confidence; way up!

The problem with running up the body count is eventually you plateau.

Honestly, if you really want to have confidence with women, read this book

Get Inside Her: Dirty Tips and Secrets from a Woman on How to Attract, Seduce and Get Any Female You Want.

The author has a deep understanding of the female perspective, and she doesn't sugarcoat her message. Her delivery is candid and direct.

I read the book a while back, and every few minutes I found myself thinking, "Oh shit, a gal has said those exact words to me." She is dead on accurate about how women process the world of relationships and dating.

She doesn't attempt to excuse women's cognitive distortions/ traps, she simply lays it out on the table so that men are better prepared to deal with women's shit and still close the deal.

 

[joeymachine]

Money is the name of the game.

 

[Zzzz]

Money is the name of the game.

Only when you're dealing with gold-diggers and/or you're not offering value in any other form.

Women are more complex than most men. Money (or more apt, Security) is just one piece of the puzzle.

 

[joeymachine]

I disagree. My experience over many years is that money is the main motivator. Look at sports players, actors, etc. Gold diggers and security are extremely closely related.

 

[Zzzz]

I disagree. My experience over many years is that money is the main motivator. Look at sports players, actors, etc. Gold diggers and security are extremely closely related.

Your comparison point is professional athletes/ actors?!

Those type of guys have an orchestra surrounding them and probably make up .00005% of the global population. Only a few gals are pulling those guys.

 

[joeymachine]

OK let's compare a guy who is a physician to a machinist. Most women are looking for security and nice things. A physician typically makes good money and there is some prestige. I dont blame the woman at all. Money does not buy happiness but it allows you to enjoy your life more and do more.

 

[joeymachine]

My former boss years ago was pretty successful. When he got divorced the women were calling him. There not stupid.

 

[Zzzz]

OK let's compare a guy who is a physician to a machinist. Most women are looking for security and nice things. A physician typically makes good money and there is some prestige. I dont blame the woman at all. Money does not buy happiness but it allows you to enjoy your life more and do more.

I understand your point, but you're giving impractical examples.

A machinist vs a physician - I assume in 99% of cases, there are many more differences between the people who move into these types of roles than the money they're bringing in.

It's simply a bad example, but I understand your point.

 

[twotimesone]

Ya sure?

I'll make a few admissions, I am 38, but I have limited experience in bed. Had an 10 year relationship with one person, ok fine, but prior to that, was a virgin. I have zero confidence in bed. None. To the point where it works against me. It becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.

This does me good in the confidence department. I promise. Because who cares if performance ain't great at an amp. Then when its time to date, I am not burdened by lack of experience. Because, what lack of experience?

Dumb personal question. 10 year relationship with one person? Shouldn't you thought about marrying before leaving her waiting? For me, I intent to date in order to get married and I chose quickly because I think the odds are against me. I didn't regret my decision.

As for the AMP girls who offer GFE experiences, I don't like variety and I like going after girls the 2nd time who can offer experience. I have to say that only one of the amp girls who blew my mind in terms "making love" sex rather just screwing her sex.

 

[david bowie is alive]

What would I tell myself before getting into this hobby?

don't get married.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

OK let's compare a guy who is a physician to a machinist. Most women are looking for security and nice things. A physician typically makes good money and there is some prestige. I dont blame the woman at all. Money does not buy happiness but it allows you to enjoy your life more and do more.

She'll marry the doc and cheat on him with the mechanic.
Then divorce the doc after a few years and take half his stuff if there is no pre-nup.
And if she had kids she'll rape him for child support even if there is a pre-nup.
And...the kid(s) might not even be his biologically, but most states will still hold the doc responsible for payments unless he immediately challenged paternity at birth.
And she will spend most of the child support money on herself.
I agree with some of what you say here, but I blame the dishonorable sluts. Always did, always will.

 

[joeymachine]

I have a friend of mine who was worth millions. She became disgruntled with my friend and asked for a divorce. She said he was not attentive to her needs and accused him of cheating, which he did not. She also said she had a promising career in advertising, but her husband made her stay at home to take care of the kids, which prevented her from making her own living and therefore she should be compensated. In Maryland the man typically gets screwed and he did.

 

[Matawan3]

Dumb personal question. 10 year relationship with one person? Shouldn't you thought about marrying before leaving her waiting? For me, I intent to date in order to get married and I chose quickly because I think the odds are against me. I didn't regret my decision.

As for the AMP girls who offer GFE experiences, I don't like variety and I like going after girls the 2nd time who can offer experience. I have to say that only one of the amp girls who blew my mind in terms "making love" sex rather just screwing her sex.

What do you mean the odds are against you? Yeah, I was stupid. Its a long story. I had my reasons for not proposing and I wasted a ton of time.

Huh, I don't think I'd want to "make love" with an AMP girl. But for that matter my Ex of 10 years didn't know how to make love either, she just knew how to be pounded out. I guess what I am saying is, a relationship doesn't even come close to equaling sexual bliss in a lot of situations, so I see no shame in this. But I guess people knew that already? I feel like some were putting it down, which seemed odd.

 

[slob.my.knob]

I have a friend of mine who was worth millions. She became disgruntled with my friend and asked for a divorce. She said he was not attentive to her needs and accused him of cheating, which he did not. She also said she had a promising career in advertising, but her husband made her stay at home to take care of the kids, which prevented her from making her own living and therefore she should be compensated. In Maryland the man typically gets screwed and he did.

Well...did he make her stay at home with the kids?

 

[Matawan3]

She'll marry the doc and cheat on him with the mechanic.
Then divorce the doc after a few years and take half his stuff if there is no pre-nup.
And if she had kids she'll rape him for child support even if there is a pre-nup.
And...the kid(s) might not even be his biologically, but most states will still hold the doc responsible for payments unless he immediately challenged paternity at birth.
And she will spend most of the child support money on herself.
I agree with some of what you say here, but I blame the dishonorable sluts. Always did, always will.

So true. As the old saying goes "Alpha fucks, Beta bucks". Funny to check out the dating app profiles of the 30 somethings. Many of them are like "I am ready to get serious". Meaning "I had my fun and slept with 100+ random guys, now I need someone to support me. PS: I don't hookup".

 

[joeymachine]

I believe he wanted her to stay at home with the kids. As the kids got older, she used to say I am going to get a job now, but she never did. She was a real SOB anyway and always had her own interests first.

 

[joeymachine]

A guy I grew up with called me one day and asked if he could come by my office and look at his taxes as he thought they may have been done wrong. I looked at them and they were OK. He then began to tell me he was going through a divorce. He made in the upper 60's and his wife was a home health care aid. They had no kids and lived in an apartment. She accused him of cheating on her and he was talking to another woman but nothing was going on as they were friends only. This guy was scared of his own shadow and would not cheat. He then told me that he had to pay alimony to her the rest of his life, which I have never heard of before. Then tears came to his eyes and he thanked me for looking over his taxes and he left. Poor guy as he really got the shaft big time.