Anyone ever buy a gift for their FAV Asian Massuse

[Wayne1250]

Yes it is great to get take them to dinner or lunch. Like someone said above, they appreciate the added affection

 

[Wayne1250]

I wonder what Mrs K's name was on Spa Hunters and why he wanted to hide his former identity.

I find it very useful to know I am talking to an old friend on one of these sites. Except for some minor problem setting up my handle on Utopia Guide, my handle has always been consistent. Even there it's close with the rose avatar.

 

[asianampman]

Rice cake from the Korean place in the Elkins Park hMart center. Not the rice cake for soup or spicy, but the nice looking fancy stuff.

 

[Ellocohombre]

Yes I have seen women turn down money, " too much". Then proceed to hand some back,that along with paying my house fee and no tip. Imagine that!!!

 

[Wayne1250]

Yes, happened many times, that's when you know you have something special. Or when they give you a Birthday, Valentine's or Christmas gift.

 

[kantuchdis]

The dollar store has small chocolate boxes shaped like hearts. Buck a piece. Grab a stack and keep them handy for your visits. They love them. I had a particular cutie who'd immediately open the box and bang every chocolate down while sitting on the bed nude, between my legs, and me massaging her tits from behind till she was finished. She saved the boxes as decorations. Good time, good times...

 

[jv50]

Absolutely. I've got one I've been seeing since 2013. We exchange birthday, Christmas, Mother's Day, and Fathers's Day gifts. We take each other to lunch now and then. I once took her to the Baltimore Museum of Art and she was enthralled as she was generally unfamiliar with Western art--so I bought her a membership so she can get into all the special exhibits free and at members only times. Others I've bought chocolates--I was seeing 3 Chinese girls at the same time and bought each of them a Chinese Government produced 30 gram Panda Silver Coin--didn't cost much (about $20 each at that time), but they were all thrilled. One I've been seeing for 3 years loves to dress up for encounters, so I've bought outfits that I find sexy (mostly involving open cup and crotch-less design) via amazon.com for her. The outfits seldom cost as much as $10, but she delights in showing them off and posing for pics. Yeah, I fall in love with pretty much every one of them who I see more than once.

 

[kantuchdis]

Whoa, some of you guys treat them like you are in a real relationship. Assuming you do not have an SO, why not actually have a real relationship with them?

 

[Wayne1250]

A SO, makes it difficult. As long as you know the game it is safe to play. All part of the spa game, we can seduce them too.

Like I say as long as you know you are not the only one. Makes it a lot more fun.

 

[jv50]

Actually, they are real relationships. Some are just business relationships (I give you money, and you give me 1 hour of pleasure)--but those are relationships, too. As to creating something more than just the business relationship (although the business relationship is still there as well), yes, it does happen. Not often, but it does happen.

 

[Baggio10]

Food and sweets are always a good option but if you are going to buy a gift don't be cheap or thoughtless buying a gift card. Show some class and thought if you are going to buy them something. An Hermes scarf is always nice

 

[Snooter]

I gave Lisa, the head masseuse in Bloomsburg, New Chinese Massage, a bottle of Jack Daniels for her birthday

 

[chunfun]

I have given across the spectrum. Money, jewelry, handbags, chicken, fruits, lingerie, etc. Only for those whose time rises above the standard level of care. You are sorely mistaken if you believe that "she does that for all her customers". She doesn't. Well, maybe a few. My SO is completely clueless. Happy wife, happy life!

 

[kantuchdis]

Actually, they are real relationships. Some are just business relationships (I give you money, and you give me 1 hour of pleasure)--but those are relationships, too. As to creating something more than just the business relationship (although the business relationship is still there as well), yes, it does happen. Not often, but it does happen.

My friend, no semantics please... you know what I mean by "real relationship". I am referring to a "romantic relationship" with the elements of intentional courtship, wooing the lady and building a romantic connection between the two of you that could ultimately become a lifetime commitment of sharing a life together. That's a little different from the "business relationship".

If you are a single guy, are buying gifts, taking her on trips with you, strolling around town on dinner dates, being scene with her, why not just date and fall in love happily ever after? IF you are single and available?

 

[jv50]

My friend, no semantics please... you know what I mean by "real relationship". I am referring to a "romantic relationship" with the elements of intentional courtship, wooing the lady and building a romantic connection between the two of you that could ultimately become a lifetime commitment of sharing a life together. That's a little different from the "business relationship".

If you are a single guy, are buying gifts, taking her on trips with you, strolling around town on dinner dates, being scene with her, why not just date and fall in love happily ever after? IF you are single and available?

After 3 divorces, I'm fine just as I am! I like the real relationship I have, without having to live with someone, or for sure, marrying them.

 

[kantuchdis]

After 3 divorces, I'm fine just as I am! I like the real relationship I have, without having to live with someone, or for sure, marrying them.

Wow - 3 divorces! Very sorry to hear about that! On a related note: How can you possibly afford mongering with 3 ex's getting checks from you every month?!?! J/K - no need to respond!

My question is posed more to the general crowd regarding why not go ahead and make a commitment to that girl on your arm walking into the restaurant?

 

[Swiggen]

If you have a service that a provider may be interested in, run it by her. Worked for me a couple times. Transportation is a huge value to those who have no other options...no license, car etc.

Excellent idea. Korean taxi service they often use is VERY expensive

 

[tennisman]

Over the years I have given, perfume, candy, facial beauty masks, Chinese medicine, etc. Ninety percent of the time appreciated.

 

[Wayne1250]

Best is when they give you gifts. Last weekend I brought some sushi, left with 2 small bottles of Korean raspberry wine.

Today, she says don't bring anything. During extra time after session we shared a fruit plate one of the other girls prepared and I left with nice large different chocolate bars. (I do tip a little extra for her great service.)

Only thing I could say is thank you and ser you Saturday.

I love these Korean women.

 

[chunfun]

I agree with you, Wayne1250. When they like you enough to give you gifts, you know it's real. I've gotten matching outfits (cuteness factor = 10), trinkets, and many meals made/paid for. Although one time I was taken to lunch and she said "your money paid for this". Talk about Return on Investment!