When I was younger and more handsome the girls would often ask me why I come to a place like this. I was always honest with them and would reply "For the mini bottle of water and mints, of course."
It’s interesting how the questions change over time, the more you see one, the more probing the questions become. Sometimes I think it’s just curiosity or just making conversation, other times I think it’s to gauge if there is an emotional connection that will ensure repeated visits, and other times I think they are genuinely interested.
First question are you married.
Do you have children, how old - they want to gauge your current financial obligations.
How long have you been married. Then they always say, your wife is very beautiful right? This question is meant to see how you feel about your wife.
Then comes how long have you been married.
Eventually, sometimes sooner rather than later, why do you come see me? With this question, they also want to see if an emotional attachment is developing which is more likely to ensure repeated visits.
And, with that question, the statement, you only see me OK.
And, over time, I’m off tomorrow, you come see me OK. We do this and that? Sorry, honey it’s your day off, but not mine. I have to work. Lol