Do a guy’s looks matter?

[instinctsrtrue]

Do you think a guy’s looks matter (so long as he’s nice and not a jerk) in terms of:

A) quality of service received at an AMP

B) being able to get a better price or more time from an Indie escort or sugar baby, and possibly converting her to a regular dating or
Hookup situation?

My thoughts are they do not matter for (a) and for (b) they matter somewhat but not a lot.

 

[puffin]

In my world when it comes to people, my answer is sometimes. I mean if it's a slow day and you look like a favorite movie of hers, then star she might just indulge a fantasy. I'd never try to figure how often or to what extent. My limited experience with sugaring is that you get a woman who is P4P pretending to care about you. Moreover, it's not cheaper than visiting a favorite.

 

[Ahlungor]

It all matters... looks, body language, hygiene, confidence, money, money.

 

[Donkey37]

I don't think it matters. Maybe if you are young and very good looking and the girl is attracted to you, you may get a little more enthusiasm. Other than that, the things that they care about have nothing to do with looks. They want regular customers so, if you're nice and there are no issues with chronic lateness or missing appointments, they will want to make sure you're happy so you come back.

I look at it like getting a haircut...do you think they care what you look like? The girls put on a good act for GFE but come on, they don't really care about you. They're providing a service. Getting bad service is almost always 100% about the girl and not the customer. She is having a bad day, she is leaving soon and doesn't give a crap, etc. Only in cases where the customer is a total jerk can I see bad service being because of the client. They see customers of all shapes, sizes, ages, etc. They don't care what you look like.

As for the sugar daddy question...I don't know for sure since I've never tried, but I imagine it doesn't matter much as long as you have a lot of money and can give her what she wants.

 

[Rogermoore]

It all matters... looks, body language, hygiene, confidence, money, money.

You got that right. It all matters. Girls often tell me that I look like some asian actor, whom I am unfamiliar with. They can also sense whether or not you’ve got dough, simply based on your grooming and likely your approximate age/maturity. I am often given personal phone numbers from girls, without asking. I have never called a girl that has given me her number without my asking. There has only been one girl that I asked for number to see outside of spa, and was given. I am now knee deep in the shit with her...getting out of control. Porking her regularly bbfs. But to previous poster’s point, it ain’t cheap....but service and interest certainly varies based on the way you look.

 

[Hardpoll52]

Yep, when u got out of shape I got doors closed in my face a few times and bad service at a few joints, when I tightened back up, more free bbbj, nicer, no pay up front lol.

 

[Ltuser]

Haven't tried indie escorts or sugar babies, but (assuming you are also something of a regular, and treat the girl decently) there are definitely some AMP girls for whom it affects the quality of service, and can lead to conversion to a regular dating or Hookup situation. Not many but some.

 

[Rogermoore]

It’s quite obvious in many instances, for me, most obvious when the girl is on top and riding me. The ones that are living out their own fantasy and are genuinely attracted to me are grinding slowly with targeted purpose trying to achieve O, others that are not interested go acg in an effort to get you to pop ASAP. Now, obviously, there are the real pros where this cannot be distinguished, and fooled me. But I like to think I have a pretty good sense for this.

 

[Zzzz]

Do you think a guy’s looks matter (so long as he’s nice and not a jerk) in terms of:

A) quality of service received at an AMP

B) being able to get a better price or more time from an Indie escort or sugar baby, and possibly converting her to a regular dating or
Hookup situation?

My thoughts are they do not matter for (a) and for (b) they matter somewhat but not a lot.

The answers to these questions are quite obvious simply by reading the reviews.

For reviews that reference YMMV for that particular gal, then most likely, physical appearance and personality do matter.

For the reviews that are always stellar (e.g., Private Hottie, TTCompanionship) and the gal is a career companion, then, most likely the gal has overcome the disgust factor and charm/ attractiveness becomes less of defining factors.

Naturally, most guys, irrespective of their physical appearance/personality/performance want to be treated as if they're a sex god - so the moral of the story is, get lost in the fantasy and stop sweating the details that should be left unattended to within the boundaries of reality.

 

[instinctsrtrue]

Maybe that raises the next question of what the average customer’s physical appearance and looks are

 

[Zzzz]

Maybe that raises the next question of what the average customer’s physical appearance and looks are

That question is moot, unless you're asking the gals (who are incentivized to lie and flatter you).

But relatedly, I still wonder about the personal profiles of the 98Mott mongers. I still don't understand why anyone would pay for subpar gilfs when it would be extremely easy to get that for free...

 

[Retired031424]

I dropped about 50lbs some years into my mongering career. Things changed.

 

[Zzzz]

I dropped about 50lbs some years into my mongering career. Things changed.

Good for you...more guys should make a concerted effort to pull themselves together for these gals.

 

[instinctsrtrue]

My early 20s sugar baby had a SD who she said was fat, but he was decent looking enough, had “swag”, and so she went with it. I have heard thru SA that a guys looks do NOT matter

 

[Zzzz]

Do you think a guy’s looks matter (so long as he’s nice and not a jerk) in terms of:

A) quality of service received at an AMP

B) being able to get a better price or more time from an Indie escort or sugar baby, and possibly converting her to a regular dating or
Hookup situation?

My thoughts are they do not matter for (a) and for (b) they matter somewhat but not a lot.

For your second question, not sure about sugar babies, but for Indie escorts, I'm not even sure how you would broach the topic w/o being perceived as disrespectful. They've set their rates for a reason. The typical sentiment is that if you're not willing to pay the asking price then your labelled as a time-waster.

 

[Rogermoore]

Maybe that raises the next question of what the average customer’s physical appearance and looks are

My unbiased opinion...I am confident I am better looking than most of you degenerates, but equally if not just nominally more perverse.

 

[Donkey37]

Think of it this way - if you owned an AMP, what would you value in a customer? Looks is going to be way down the list. I would say that they look for -

1. Safety - the customer is not LE or a criminal
2. Safety for the girls - the customer is not abusive
3. Reliable - the customer doesn't show up late and expect them to accommodate, and doesn't cancel appointments last minute. Also, there are no issues with payment.
4. Attitude - the customer puts the girl at ease and doesn't cause problems, like demanding BBFS or something like that

If you are strong with these 4, then they will want you to be happy and give you good service. They want you to come back. The manager will want the girl to take care of you. Frankly, with the risks of their business, getting and keeping a good customer is very important to them. I mean, do you think an AMP prefers a fat ugly guy who passes all 4 criteria above, or a really hot guy who gets mad at the girl if she doesn't do greek?

This is why the top AMPs like PH pretty much always provide top notch service and it's such a surprise when it's not good. That same service is provided to everyone, and we all vary in our looks. Also, you will notice that we will see multiple bad reviews from the same girl...I guarantee some of the customers are pretty decent looking but still get that bad performance.

Now, if you have two guys, one hot and one ugly, who meet all 4 criteria above, does the hot guy get better service? Maaaaybe....if the girl is new to the business and hasn't done 100's of guys yet. But otherwise, I'm pretty sure they're both going to get about the same service because in both cases, the AMP wants to keep the customer.

 

[captain.williams.2]

Do you think a guy’s looks matter (so long as he’s nice and not a jerk) in terms of:

A) quality of service received at an AMP

B) being able to get a better price or more time from an Indie escort or sugar baby, and possibly converting her to a regular dating or
Hookup situation?

My thoughts are they do not matter for (a) and for (b) they matter somewhat but not a lot.

A hobbyist’s looks matter to a provider as significantly as a provider’s looks matter to a hobbyist. In the case of the former, it’s simply a matter of professionalism in how they handle it.

 

[Rogermoore]

Think of it this way - if you owned an AMP, what would you value in a customer? Looks is going to be way down the list. I would say that they look for -

1. Safety - the customer is not LE or a criminal
2. Safety for the girls - the customer is not abusive
3. Reliable - the customer doesn't show up late and expect them to accommodate, and doesn't cancel appointments last minute. Also, there are no issues with payment.
4. Attitude - the customer puts the girl at ease and doesn't cause problems, like demanding BBFS or something like that

If you are strong with these 4, then they will want you to be happy and give you good service. They want you to come back. The manager will want the girl to take care of you. Frankly, with the risks of their business, getting and keeping a good customer is very important to them. I mean, do you think an AMP prefers a fat ugly guy who passes all 4 criteria above, or a really hot guy who gets mad at the girl if she doesn't do greek?

This is why the top AMPs like PH pretty much always provide top notch service and it's such a surprise when it's not good. That same service is provided to everyone, and we all vary in our looks. Also, you will notice that we will see multiple bad reviews from the same girl...I guarantee some of the customers are pretty decent looking but still get that bad performance.

Now, if you have two guys, one hot and one ugly, who meet all 4 criteria above, does the hot guy get better service? Maaaaybe....if the girl is new to the business and hasn't done 100's of guys yet. But otherwise, I'm pretty sure they're both going to get about the same service because in both cases, the AMP wants to keep the customer.

Fair point ... however there are the obvious extremes, if a guy who meets your four criteria smells like rotten eggs, and is grossly overweight....the girls’ repulse cannot be contained. And that will vary by girl obviously.

 

[doofu77]

Think of it this way - if you owned an AMP, what would you value in a customer? Looks is going to be way down the list. I would say that they look for -

1. Safety - the customer is not LE or a criminal
2. Safety for the girls - the customer is not abusive
3. Reliable - the customer doesn't show up late and expect them to accommodate, and doesn't cancel appointments last minute. Also, there are no issues with payment.
4. Attitude - the customer puts the girl at ease and doesn't cause problems, like demanding BBFS or something like that

If you are strong with these 4, then they will want you to be happy and give you good service. They want you to come back. The manager will want the girl to take care of you. Frankly, with the risks of their business, getting and keeping a good customer is very important to them. I mean, do you think an AMP prefers a fat ugly guy who passes all 4 criteria above, or a really hot guy who gets mad at the girl if she doesn't do greek?

This is why the top AMPs like PH pretty much always provide top notch service and it's such a surprise when it's not good. That same service is provided to everyone, and we all vary in our looks. Also, you will notice that we will see multiple bad reviews from the same girl...I guarantee some of the customers are pretty decent looking but still get that bad performance.

Now, if you have two guys, one hot and one ugly, who meet all 4 criteria above, does the hot guy get better service? Maaaaybe....if the girl is new to the business and hasn't done 100's of guys yet. But otherwise, I'm pretty sure they're both going to get about the same service because in both cases, the AMP wants to keep the customer.

As the other poster said these are extremes. 80-90% of mongers would meet these criteria (1-4). The question then becomes how do we differentiate ourselves from that them? Getting serviced is guaranteed. Getting excellent service is another thing. I find looks DO matter, so does charm, personality, etc.