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Do any of you guys seriously date providers with the intention of having a long term serious romantic relationship?
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I've dated a few, not with the goal of a long term serious romantic relationship, but with the idea of having a good time. Which I did and I think they did too. I've fond some to be the same out of the spa as they are in the spa, and some to be vastly different. Either way was fine for for me. I was just along for the ride. One thing I did notice with all that I dated, was that the dynamic changed and they wanted, or rather expected more from me. The more might have only been in the way of helping them with real world issues, but they all expected more.
Yes and no. A lot depends on their ethnicity. Koreans tend to work in Korean spas and only talk to other Koreans. Ditto with Chinese. Vietnamese tend only to work in nail salons. Also, certain girls make the rounds between different (separate) spa networks. After a while, you get the sense of what those are in a given area. But, yeah, if two girls ever worked at the same spa (or a spa in a network) you have to assume they communicate.
Speaking of nail salons, that is another potential source of girls. It takes a lot longer to cultivate, but it is both cheaper and legit (no LE worries).
Speaking of nail salons, that is another potential source of girls. It takes a lot longer to cultivate, but it is both cheaper and legit (no LE worries).
@ VJLUTZ
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I agree with you about the nail salons. A lot of potential there.
As for the Korean amp women, most of them are North Korean and Yanbian. And many of them do an excellent job hiding their dialect and pretending to be South Korean.
So for example, an amp will have Chinese and Yanbian women. Yanbian speak fluent Mandarin so they will talk with the Chinese.
You even now have many Latina women who use Kakao and WeChat. And many of them talk to Chinese and Koreans.
Glad you’re back!
I agree with you about the nail salons. A lot of potential there.
As for the Korean amp women, most of them are North Korean and Yanbian. And many of them do an excellent job hiding their dialect and pretending to be South Korean.
So for example, an amp will have Chinese and Yanbian women. Yanbian speak fluent Mandarin so they will talk with the Chinese.
You even now have many Latina women who use Kakao and WeChat. And many of them talk to Chinese and Koreans.
This, 100%. I posted earlier in this topic mit my old handle before the bangasm about having a provider who I was thinking about GFE with. Many sent great advice and I enjoyed and appreciated, set me in a way that I can manage this.
Since then, it has escalated, but to exactly where I'm comfortable.
The kissing thing was it. I told her more than two weeks after she DFK that it was a super turnon, and she blushed in a way that I never saw from her. She explained as you did, that for them, this is not a thing to happen casually, DFK is only for special. I have seen same in many providers over the years, and two Chinese gents who work for me gave me an odd look that it even happened then confirmed that it was not something to take lightly.
As others said, "let her like you more than you like her", and that was slam dunk great advice. For me, I don't want or need a girlfriend. Am married, and every AMP I go to they want the BFE and be texting all hours of the day and night. But the worst for me so far is that they fscking work 12 hours a day, you know, the hours when I'm at my plant running the business. So it's not practical in any setting other than their store. This one texts me the moment she gets in her car to leave the store, but by that time I'm already in my bed, am not going to get dressed and drive 30 minutes to go lick lick lick, although of course I'm tempted.
That she likes you more than you like her thing, wow that did it. Is like old thing girls used to do when I was small, playing hard to get. Now, she texts me dirty pictures and is leaving her store, i.e. leaving potential money on the table, just to take me out on a date to a place I told her I might like to go. Is kind of a role-reversal to how I would normally be, and it's awesome. If I don't text her within say two hours of her text, she sends me a nude. Who wouldn't want this lol
So, keep it real mongers, if she wants the BFE, why not give it to her, but make her want it so bad that she begs! It's kind of awesome. But still remember, when she's not with you, she's jerking dudes off for money. And as others mentioned, it's not unlikely that they always will.
Since then, it has escalated, but to exactly where I'm comfortable.
The kissing thing was it. I told her more than two weeks after she DFK that it was a super turnon, and she blushed in a way that I never saw from her. She explained as you did, that for them, this is not a thing to happen casually, DFK is only for special. I have seen same in many providers over the years, and two Chinese gents who work for me gave me an odd look that it even happened then confirmed that it was not something to take lightly.
As others said, "let her like you more than you like her", and that was slam dunk great advice. For me, I don't want or need a girlfriend. Am married, and every AMP I go to they want the BFE and be texting all hours of the day and night. But the worst for me so far is that they fscking work 12 hours a day, you know, the hours when I'm at my plant running the business. So it's not practical in any setting other than their store. This one texts me the moment she gets in her car to leave the store, but by that time I'm already in my bed, am not going to get dressed and drive 30 minutes to go lick lick lick, although of course I'm tempted.
That she likes you more than you like her thing, wow that did it. Is like old thing girls used to do when I was small, playing hard to get. Now, she texts me dirty pictures and is leaving her store, i.e. leaving potential money on the table, just to take me out on a date to a place I told her I might like to go. Is kind of a role-reversal to how I would normally be, and it's awesome. If I don't text her within say two hours of her text, she sends me a nude. Who wouldn't want this lol
So, keep it real mongers, if she wants the BFE, why not give it to her, but make her want it so bad that she begs! It's kind of awesome. But still remember, when she's not with you, she's jerking dudes off for money. And as others mentioned, it's not unlikely that they always will.
Great inputs Gents - my close AMP friend has always ensured that I’m on toes and made me compete with other mongers specifically for gifts and loans. I have gotten close to her over the years but she never allowed me for tongue wrestling but we had passionate kisses on lips, DD boobs, DATY, neck and face (not DFK). Of course the whole nine yards . I believe tongue wrestling is also personal thing besides culture.
. I believe tongue wrestling is also personal thing besides culture.My girl absolutely loves me. Cares and provides ($$) for me like no woman ever will for the rest of my life. its really something, and its 100% genuine. It definitely seems like this is extremely rare though, comparing to the stories throughout this thread. Obviously I will never actually commit to being long term and serious with her. My family will never know about her, etc
In my experience, most of these girls are takers (that is, the money flows only from you to them). And that is generally fine with me given the nature of the relationship. However, there are some that have been generous. I've had some girls buy me (smallish) gifts and take me out to eat. That's fine too. But I never put any pressure on them to do it. I had two girls buy me rather expensive gifts. The first was a pair of designer-label sunglasses (which I took). The other was a very expensive, luxury watch, which I insisted she return. In the latter case, I thought there were better things she could spend her money on and did not need, or really want, a watch like that. Given what they do, I almost never want them to spend anything on me. If they ask, I typically tell them to spend it on themselves.
Many of these girls send their money home to help their families. Many others are just stupid with their money. A significant number of these girls seem to have serious gambling issues. That is the most heartbreaking thing to me. I know some girls who literally make a fortune, and then piss it away in less than a weekend. While they are young, they can no doubt make more, but one day, the gravy train will slow and eventually stop.
Many of these girls send their money home to help their families. Many others are just stupid with their money. A significant number of these girls seem to have serious gambling issues. That is the most heartbreaking thing to me. I know some girls who literally make a fortune, and then piss it away in less than a weekend. While they are young, they can no doubt make more, but one day, the gravy train will slow and eventually stop.
I will try and deny it from her, but she will refuse. I do know though, that she is very well off, she doesn’t actually provide anymore and also has assets in China. And yeah she has spend a couple thousand on me, she has easily spent 10s of thousands on herself. I try and tell her don’t waste her money, but that’s just her lifestyle it seems like