Yea, you're definitely out of control unless your a multi-millionaire living off your investments. If you're spending that much, I don't even see how you have time to hold down a job. In the end, it's a self correcting problem. Once you're out of money, exhausted your credit and sold all your assets, you will stop. AMPs don't do freebees. Problem is, when you're totally broke & sleeping on the sidewalk, you can't even get internet porn to jack off to. Best you can do is fuck another stew-bum; unfortunately, that is probably a guy. But at least you'll have those memories, eh?
“it's a self correcting problem”. Great line. You should go into counseling. Really, you should. All this people that whine and moan and complain, whatever ails them, given time it will self correct.
Much more eloquently put than my garbled attempt at expressing my thoughts. As for the success stories, any good ones you'd like to share? I know a few and it's always nice to see.
One more thing about forgiveness, it benefits us, the forgiver more than the one being forgiven. They likely don’t care that they have hurt us and they have moved on. We on the other hand, the one hurt, needs to move on.
Success story: This one is fresh on my mind as it happened just the other day. I was pretty good friends with a provider. All of the sudden she disappeared. Was told some guy met her and took her out of the business. I had her WC information and she said she met a nice man and decided to give it a try. We continued to communicate sporadically, not very much, not even on holidays just every now and then. The other day, I was shopping and we ran into each other. It was a nice reunion. She is happily married. Needless to say other providers she worked with, were very jealous. They still are! The thing about this one, she wasn’t the best looking at that spa, despite all those that rotated in, she was OK, the others were always better looking. Her business never suffered, she always seemed busy. She was a very pleasant person. I swear, she looked better than I remember her looking and she was much happier. She left the business completely!
Another one is in the works: One of the providers I see said she is moving towards the alter. She called to tell me she just got engaged and wants to celebrate with me. Asked me to come over after they closed and for snacks and wine and whatever. She took the opportunity to introduce me to others and said she would be leaving the business shortly.
I also know a few MMSs that have been married for a number of years.