I'm Torn About Writing a Review/Not Writing a Review

[HorneyDDog]

So, I had a great session today, FS, and the young Korean lady, when we were done, we chatted a little. And the topic of reviews online came up. She asked me very politely, but firmly, not to leave a review of our session. They have been open for not too long now, and she has all the clientele she needs/wants, and would prefer not to be out there with a review every day/week, whatever. With LE, and the like, i guess it's understandable, depending on where in NJ the place is. I'm leaning on respecting her wishes, if the place was horrible, I probably would never go back, and I would not have a problem with leaving a review to warn others.

Thoughts?:

 

[Ellocohombre]

RESPECT her wishes!!!

 

[PorterD]

Definitely respect her wishes. I agree if you where treated terribly that would be different. But I think her request should be respected.

 

[THE BROOKLYN BARON]

HER WISHES

 

[HorneyDDog]

I will. The place is reviewed on here, both her and the worker she empoys.

 

[Ampme]

So, I had a great session today, FS, and the young Korean lady, when we were done, we chatted a little. And the topic of reviews online came up. She asked me very politely, but firmly, not to leave a review of our session. They have been open for not too long now, and she has all the clientele she needs/wants, and would prefer not to be out there with a review every day/week, whatever. With LE, and the like, i guess it's understandable, depending on where in NJ the place is. I'm leaning on respecting her wishes, if the place was horrible, I probably would never go back, and I would not have a problem with leaving a review to warn others.

Thoughts?:

Respect her wishes. Don't do it

 

[Uniquelyme]

So, I had a great session today, FS, and the young Korean lady, when we were done, we chatted a little. And the topic of reviews online came up. She asked me very politely, but firmly, not to leave a review of our session. They have been open for not too long now, and she has all the clientele she needs/wants, and would prefer not to be out there with a review every day/week, whatever. With LE, and the like, i guess it's understandable, depending on where in NJ the place is. I'm leaning on respecting her wishes, if the place was horrible, I probably would never go back, and I would not have a problem with leaving a review to warn others.

Thoughts?:

Dont write the review. She asked you not to.

 

[mitchellmichael]

use your big head. She says she has enough business, and that may be true, but she is probably trying to also stay in the shade. You write a good review and suddenly she gets busy, and someone else writes a good review and she gets really really busy, and suddenly she is in the spotlight and her place is crawling with mongers and its getting lots of attention and someone says something and maybe she gets inspected or shut down, etc, etc, etc. OR, and this is also true, someone goes based on your review and writes a BAD review, and someone else goes and based on that presumed review says the same thing. Then, all of a sudden she is no longer in the shade but in the shadows and nobody wants to go there anymore because of some bad reviews and she has to let some of her good girls go and their replacements stink and nobody comes back and the next thing you know she is either doing things she swore she never would (ie going FS) or shutting down. So yeah, if she says "no reviews please" honor her wishes.

 

[tekwrek]

Let me know if you need me to help you read through the thousand PM's you are going to get.

 

[metal rat]

You won't write a review, but what's to stop anyone else from doing so? Ain't no future in it bro.

 

[metal rat]

Let me know if you need me to help you read through the thousand PM's you are going to get.

PM’s will be sent, he’ll share her whereabouts only to have a pm’er post a review, happens all the time. Only way to avoid the extra unwanted attention is to never mention her in the first place, ask me how I know.

 

[HorneyDDog]

I have not received one PM, not one. And I will not share anything. Truth is, there are 100's of FS AMPs in NJ, NY and elsewhere. What's the big deal.

 

[Newtothescene]

Respect her request, then enjoy your find. Sounds like you stumbled onto something good. That's what keeps me in this game now into my 60's. Enjoy the ride!

 

[L8yPleaser]

Just two cents here - A few years back I had a similar arrangement with someone I met. To this day I haven't mentioned here in any type of review or endorsement, There was one exception at a time when she wanted to add a couple of clients and would only new clients recommended by clients she trusted. I gave her one person (who also never told anyone about her).

Always honor her wishes.

 

[James_stance]

Writing a review should be a personal decision. I am not sure why mongers keep having conversations about reviews with their providers. I just don't see the benefit in telling a provider they are being rated.

 

[HorneyDDog]

Writing a review should be a personal decision. I am not sure why mongers keep having conversations about reviews with their providers. I just don't see the benefit in telling a provider they are being rated.

That's a great idea. Find a great provider that you really had a great time with, and she indicates her reluctance to take on additional customers/clientele due to LE concerns. And this particular place had a LE visit in 2015 that resulted in arrests. Most providers realize there are online sites that discuss specific services of AMPs, it's pretty common knowledge. It's not the first time I've discussed that with a provider. Try H&L Wellness in E Brunswick, she knows about this Site, abd RubMaps too. Or DDD in Sewell, those providers know about Sites that discuss the specifics of visits. I do not at all agree with your logic or opinion. Just saying.

 

[James_stance]

That's a great idea. Find a great provider that you really had a great time with, and she indicates her reluctance to take on additional customers/clientele due to LE concerns. And this particular place had a LE visit in 2015 that resulted in arrests. Most providers realize there are online sites that discuss specific services of AMPs, it's pretty common knowledge. It's not the first time I've discussed that with a provider. Try H&L Wellness in E Brunswick, she knows about this Site, abd RubMaps too. Or DDD in Sewell, those providers know about Sites that discuss the specifics of visits. I do not at all agree with your logic or opinion. Just saying.

I don't agree with your logic or opinion either. And for the record, the concerns you mentioned is in your head. I have never heard of a provider being shut down by law enforcement after being mentioned on this site. And this arrest that your mentioned that happened in 2015 was seven years ago and anecdotal. And most of the women that were reviewed on here I was able to see.

You talking to a provider and asking their permission to be reviewed vs them knowing about the site is two different things. Who cares about what the provider knows, this site is for Mongers not for Providers. My advice to you is stop falling in love with these prostitutes. They are there to deliver a fantasy for you. You are one of a hundred men they see in a week. Check your feelings at the door when you leave the provider.

Why are you here if you don't think providers should be reviewed? This site is for mongers to share information. Share and share alike!

 

[Ppstrangler]

I don't agree with your logic or opinion either. And for the record, the concerns you mentioned is in your head. I have never heard of a provider being shut down by law enforcement after being mentioned on this site. And this arrest that your mentioned that happened in 2015 was seven years ago and anecdotal. And most of the women that were reviewed on here I was able to see.

You talking to a provider and asking their permission to be reviewed vs them knowing about the site is two different things. Who cares about what the provider knows, this site is for Mongers not for Providers. My advice to you is stop falling in love with these prostitutes. They are there to deliver a fantasy for you. You are one of a hundred men they see in a week. Check your feelings at the door when you leave the provider.

Why are you here if you don't think providers should be reviewed? This site is for mongers to share information. Share and share alike!

Because the rules on the board say not to provide reviews for providers who wish not to be reviewed.

https://www.ampreviews.net/index.ph...e-following-posts-will-get-you-banned.110658/

 

[James_stance]

Because the rules on the board say not to provide reviews for providers who wish not to be reviewed.

https://www.ampreviews.net/index.ph...e-following-posts-will-get-you-banned.110658/

Noted but the title thread did ask if he should write a review. I just responded to it. The argument I was trying to make is why even tell a provider that you are going to rate them. What is the benefit of that? Does the monger think he is going to get freebies?

Also, the sites bylaws may state that if a provider wishes not to be reviewed the site will honor it. But the truth is, this site is making money off of the reviews. If every provider stated they do not want to be reviewed, this site would not make any money and most of us wouldn't even be here.

 

[Ppstrangler]

Webhosting ain't free. I don't know how much money the website pulls but if it does pull in money it's well deserved because it provides us mongers a place to hang out, discuss what's on our mind and to weed out the shitty providers, I personally have saved a ton by reading reviews and not going to providers who I thought would be worth it. I've also found a few ATFs through the website because of reviews.

If a provider doesn't want to be reviewed maybe they have enough clients and don't want to turn away people. But I do get your point as well, who the fuck tells a provider that they're gonna get reviewed during the session.

The topic of reviews might of came up if the provider asked dude how he found out about her or the place. Shit happens, whatever, but it's always nice to respect someone wishes.

I'm a bit worried about coming across a shitty provider who doesn't want to be reviewed. I wonder how that should be handled because I would hate to see others waste their money on a shitty provider.