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Learning Chinese to communicate with providers

bigbird1

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I've recently been trying to learn Chinese emphasis on TRYING. And after a couple days I've been struggling a lot. Don't get me wrong I can understand the basics and some basic grammar. But I've been struggling with kanji. Any mongers here who learned Chinese who can give me some pointers or resources to learn from?
 

doofu77

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I don't think you need to learn to read/write. There are alot of apps that can translate even by scanning. Its also no efficient since Chinese characters are one of the most time consuming things.

I am focusing only on speaking and listening. One of the way is to watch Chinese shows with eng subs. It helps get familiar with it outside of books and the more educational stuff.
 

bigbird1

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I don't think you need to learn to read/write. There are alot of apps that can translate even by scanning. Its also no efficient since Chinese characters are one of the most time consuming things.

I am focusing only on speaking and listening. One of the way is to watch Chinese shows with eng subs. It helps get familiar with it outside of books and the more educational stuff.
Yeah that's what I've been doing as well. I can understand some things they are saying but most of time time it still seems a bit gibberish.

I learned Chinese by interacting with them at their social gatherings, forums, and conferences. Not fluent and takes time with more practice
I'll try to participate in their forums I like that idea.

Keep in mind that OP is the same guy who wanted a blow job from a junkie in Kensington.
I'd like this thread to stay relevant I will update that thread once I have the time to go.
 

Mr Wizard

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I found this site years ago, and it helped me with some basic Mandarin..Has other languages too..Click and listen
I just kept saying it until i learned it..Or, just went back to it if i wasn't sure and tried again the next time!..LoL

https://www.transparent.com/learn-mandarin-chinese/phrases.html

You can also use Google..I usually type in the search box, "How do you say ??? in Chinese (or any other language)..Click and listen
Good luck!
 

Koondog

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I've recently been trying to learn Chinese emphasis on TRYING. And after a couple days I've been struggling a lot. Don't get me wrong I can understand the basics and some basic grammar. But I've been struggling with kanji. Any mongers here who learned Chinese who can give me some pointers or resources to learn from?
Just learn a bunch of common phrases. It will carry you far. Come on---grammar and being fluent in it? Not bloody likely.
 

kgirler

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It will be difficult especially if you are over 50. Your brain is wired for language assimilation when you are a child and that ability diminishes as you age.

That being said, the most important thing I have found is to establish a relationship with one girl and see her a couple times a week. Make a specific arrangement to teach each other the opposite language. It will be easier for her to pick up English than for you to get Chinese because she will be immersed in a foreign language and you will not be. Plus, I have found they study all the time when things are slow.

Be sure to hook up with your partner on WeChat. You will need to talk face to face daily if you really want to become conversational.

Once you have a partner, focus on mastering numbers, singular and plural personal pronouns, a set of maybe twenty verbs, and maybe 100 nouns. Basic grammatical structure will come by talking with her-it’s not really that much different than English. I found that with these few words you can construct sentences that can cover a lot of territory.

I believe that you don’t have to focus on grammatical number or tense because it seems like those things are handled with modifiers rather than changing the actual word. It also seems like you don’t need to conjugate verbs either. One verb seems to work the same for first, second, or third person. But make sure to master the numbers. From numbers you will easily derive days of the week, months, and other time related words.

You will find that there are sounds you need to master that seem, frankly, unnatural. There are a lot odd tongue positions and a lot of sounds to make with your throat. These are very hard. My advice is don’t try to use words that rely on those sounds. No one will understand you and you will get frustrated. There are plenty of work around words.

Your partner will have similar frustrations with sounds that are unnatural in Chinese, such as “R”, “L”and “th”. You can bond while practicing these sounds. There will be a lot of funny moments.

But perhaps the hardest thing to master, at least for me, is the use of the four tones. Words are pronounced in one of four tones that will completely change the meaning of the word. “Horse” and “mother” are basically the same words just said in a different tone. The word for invoice is the same as the word for idiot, with just a slight movement of the accent of a syllable. You can say some ridiculous things if you don’t master the tones. Ask your partner to practice with you. They learn the tones when they are babies.

Make flash cards and practice them every day. Google will translate the word into pinyin, which is an English depiction of the word. You can use this as a phonetic crutch on a flash card. Be careful, however, using Google Translate for learning tone and accent for a word. It is not usually correct. To learn this you will have to rely on your partner or a native speaker.

ChineseClass101.com is a good supplementary tool. The basic lessons are free and they have a convenient list of 100 important words you can link from your phone to your car radio via Bluetooth and practice while driving.

You will forget new words if you don’t use them. Keep practicing the lists. Also try to think of the word as a picture rather than a translation of an English word. If you are constantly translating in your mind from English to Chinese and back again, you will be too slow to carry a conversation. It’s hard but possible with practice.

Don’t bother with the Chinese written word, either reading or writing. You are not going to live long enough to learn it. It looks to me like a bunch of brooms chasing a house.

After saying all of the above, it has taken me a full year to barely be able to hold a rudimentary conversation at 10% of the necessary speed. Don’t give up. It is a great skill to have if you are serious about Chinese women. It is a compliment to a Chinese woman that you even attempt to communicate with her in her language. And the rewards are worth it. Trust me.
 

Srhsrh

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I've recently been trying to learn Chinese emphasis on TRYING. And after a couple days I've been struggling a lot. Don't get me wrong I can understand the basics and some basic grammar. But I've been struggling with kanji. Any mongers here who learned Chinese who can give me some pointers or resources to learn from?
You’re struggling because you’re learning the wrong language. Kanji is Chinese symbols used in the Japanese written language. Chinese writing is referred to as pinyin or Hanzi. Similar but different. You shouldn’t need either to chat with a spa girl. Chinese writing is pretty complex. Even the simple version is like 8000 “letters”. Unlike Korean, Chinese writing wont help you to phonetically sound out words. It’s a separate skill.
 

bigbird1

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You’re struggling because you’re learning the wrong language. Kanji is Chinese symbols used in the Japanese written language. Chinese writing is referred to as pinyin or Hanzi. Similar but different. You shouldn’t need either to chat with a spa girl. Chinese writing is pretty complex. Even the simple version is like 8000 “letters”. Unlike Korean, Chinese writing wont help you to phonetically sound out words. It’s a separate skill.
Yeah sorry about that I meant pinyin. I'm interested in learning how to read as well.
 

bigbird1

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It will be difficult especially if you are over 50. Your brain is wired for language assimilation when you are a child and that ability diminishes as you age.

That being said, the most important thing I have found is to establish a relationship with one girl and see her a couple times a week. Make a specific arrangement to teach each other the opposite language. It will be easier for her to pick up English than for you to get Chinese because she will be immersed in a foreign language and you will not be. Plus, I have found they study all the time when things are slow.

Be sure to hook up with your partner on WeChat. You will need to talk face to face daily if you really want to become conversational.

Once you have a partner, focus on mastering numbers, singular and plural personal pronouns, a set of maybe twenty verbs, and maybe 100 nouns. Basic grammatical structure will come by talking with her-it’s not really that much different than English. I found that with these few words you can construct sentences that can cover a lot of territory.

I believe that you don’t have to focus on grammatical number or tense because it seems like those things are handled with modifiers rather than changing the actual word. It also seems like you don’t need to conjugate verbs either. One verb seems to work the same for first, second, or third person. But make sure to master the numbers. From numbers you will easily derive days of the week, months, and other time related words.

You will find that there are sounds you need to master that seem, frankly, unnatural. There are a lot odd tongue positions and a lot of sounds to make with your throat. These are very hard. My advice is don’t try to use words that rely on those sounds. No one will understand you and you will get frustrated. There are plenty of work around words.

Your partner will have similar frustrations with sounds that are unnatural in Chinese, such as “R”, “L”and “th”. You can bond while practicing these sounds. There will be a lot of funny moments.

But perhaps the hardest thing to master, at least for me, is the use of the four tones. Words are pronounced in one of four tones that will completely change the meaning of the word. “Horse” and “mother” are basically the same words just said in a different tone. The word for invoice is the same as the word for idiot, with just a slight movement of the accent of a syllable. You can say some ridiculous things if you don’t master the tones. Ask your partner to practice with you. They learn the tones when they are babies.

Make flash cards and practice them every day. Google will translate the word into pinyin, which is an English depiction of the word. You can use this as a phonetic crutch on a flash card. Be careful, however, using Google Translate for learning tone and accent for a word. It is not usually correct. To learn this you will have to rely on your partner or a native speaker.

ChineseClass101.com is a good supplementary tool. The basic lessons are free and they have a convenient list of 100 important words you can link from your phone to your car radio via Bluetooth and practice while driving.

You will forget new words if you don’t use them. Keep practicing the lists. Also try to think of the word as a picture rather than a translation of an English word. If you are constantly translating in your mind from English to Chinese and back again, you will be too slow to carry a conversation. It’s hard but possible with practice.

Don’t bother with the Chinese written word, either reading or writing. You are not going to live long enough to learn it. It looks to me like a bunch of brooms chasing a house.

After saying all of the above, it has taken me a full year to barely be able to hold a rudimentary conversation at 10% of the necessary speed. Don’t give up. It is a great skill to have if you are serious about Chinese women. It is a compliment to a Chinese woman that you even attempt to communicate with her in her language. And the rewards are worth it. Trust me.
Thank you for your info. I'll try out that website as well. Pronounciation is also one of the things I struggle with. I am also trying to read and write because id also like to take a trip to China one day and be able to communicate enough with Chinese girls there. I find that google translate is pretty inaccurate at times so I'd rather rely on myself than some translation device.
 

krideynyc

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Don't want to dampen the enthusiasm, but being able to speak with the provider just means learning key phrases. Unless you want to maintain a conversation with them.

You’re struggling because you’re learning the wrong language.Kanji is Chinese symbols used in the Japanese written language.
Aside from the fact that Kanji characters could have different meanings than their Chinese counterparts. And that the Japanese have created their own Kanji characters not used by the Chinese.

Chinese writing is referred to as pinyin or Hanzi.
It's Hanzi. PinYin is the phonetic spelling of spoken Chinese using Roman Alphabets. Not Chinese writing at all. I think you meant HanZI with the two current classifications; Traditional and Simplified. All the providers from China learnt Simplified Chinese. Only those with advanced education would be able to understand Traditional. Unless you were born in Taiwan or Singapore.
 

KittyHawk

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I am impressed with you guys who have learned or want to learn Chinese. I wish I had the time, money and life expectancy to attempt it. I was able
to communicate briefly with a provider using Google Translate set to simplified Chinese. I think that's as far as I'll ever get.
 
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