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Learning Chinese to communicate with providers

Koujiao

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If you only knew what rebirth means. Literally, they have to start over. Whatever they were or had in China, they gave it up to come here and they have to start at the bottom. The very bottom. Many gave up a lot to come here and perform all kinds of demeaning chores. Advice they give to each other when someone just arrives, forget what you and what you had, you are starting over. What you were and what you had mean nothing here.
Lol...if only you knew what I know.
 

Koujiao

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Lol, I went to a massage parlor to have a meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman, turns out she offered to pull my peepee instead, she passed on the offer of MLLR.
You are an easy mark for them, you are not in their league. At least it was a short pull.
 

roy1074

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Making an effort, no matter how seemingly small or ineffective, can and often does make a HUGE difference. I have met a handful of FOB girls, usually at the old San Francisco spa on Arch street (affiliated with Saigon). Sometimes its just a way-station, with the best girls moving on to Manhattan and working for top dollar, while others quickly learn that they're simply not suited to this line of work and are either sent back home, or to a back of the house job at a restaurant. One girl that I met, "Sofia" , agreed to see me the following morning at 9am (they opened at 3 PM. ) I cooked her breakfast, and brought it to her along with some fresh fruit , including a kiwi that i cut in a zipper pattern , that makes quite an elaborate presentation when opened. She was quite happy with it, so much so that she put it on her We-Chat page for her friends back home to see, captioned "My first American boyfriend made me breakfast today". We spent the much of the day together, with the manager knocking on the door at 2:30pm to tell her to get ready for work. I am convinced that had I not been able to speak any Chinese, that that fun short lived "relationship" never could have happened. She landed at Osaka in midtown Manhattan, where she met a well to do Banker dude, got out of the business, and is married with two kids. We're still friends on We-Chat, and my wife knows that we met at the spa, but supposedly when I was there fixing the water heater !
 

East Lake II

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Making an effort, no matter how seemingly small or ineffective, can and often does make a HUGE difference. I have met a handful of FOB girls, usually at the old San Francisco spa on Arch street (affiliated with Saigon). Sometimes its just a way-station, with the best girls moving on to Manhattan and working for top dollar, while others quickly learn that they're simply not suited to this line of work and are either sent back home, or to a back of the house job at a restaurant. One girl that I met, "Sofia" , agreed to see me the following morning at 9am (they opened at 3 PM. ) I cooked her breakfast, and brought it to her along with some fresh fruit , including a kiwi that i cut in a zipper pattern , that makes quite an elaborate presentation when opened. She was quite happy with it, so much so that she put it on her We-Chat page for her friends back home to see, captioned "My first American boyfriend made me breakfast today". We spent the much of the day together, with the manager knocking on the door at 2:30pm to tell her to get ready for work. I am convinced that had I not been able to speak any Chinese, that that fun short lived "relationship" never could have happened. She landed at Osaka in midtown Manhattan, where she met a well to do Banker dude, got out of the business, and is married with two kids. We're still friends on We-Chat, and my wife knows that we met at the spa, but supposedly when I was there fixing the water heater !
Met while you were fixing a water heater. Lol. I just learned how to say water heater. Maybe it will pay dividends.
 

Harvala

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Korean gets more mileage for the effort of learning it. Koreans are more impressed than Chinese or Japanese when a westerner can converse with them. Learning the written language is easier too since it consists of 26 letters that represent sounds withvowels and consonants. I can go for hours or days a time using Korean only.
 

Spa1123

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You have stated your view, and stated it well. I and numerous others tend to agree.

Those that do not care about things like that, never will, and will think the added effort is foolish. Because they do not value the same things, they never will agree.
It's also worth noting that the two loudest complainers about trying to speak Mandarin both have contributed no reviews and can not read private details of others' reviews. At a minimum, it appears they don't really care about reviews, and maybe they're just here to argue.
 
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