Married Mongers

[Salty Vet]

I’m here and on this site because it reassures me I’m not the only human put in a difficult situation. Same high school sweet heart, everything but sticking it in. Catholic school and guilt. Lol. 4yrs in the navy gifts in every port or city
Never had a problem hunting pussy, free or not.
4 semi girl friends when I met my wife.. 6 yrs younger, smart, sexy, on her way up the nyc Corp ladder in the fashion world. 5 years married and she suffers a massive brain hemorrhage.six weeks in a coma. NYU for the surgery. My 4 yr high school sweetheart and her husband come to see me at my trade show booth at the javits center. Medical of 4.5 million later. 500,000.00 on me
I file Corp. and personal. Save my house and help my wife. The dr. Tell me to move on with my life, divorce her and let the state take care of her.
NOT. I sat many a day on the lake fishing and talking to god. Catholic again. I prayed and asked for help.
Even stopped at the church I grew up in.
Better or worse, sickness and in health. What the hell do I do.
Did I really mean and believe what I swear to in front of god and county.
Yes I do.
After a year it so I went to bar/club/ disco and sure enough a Puerto Rican beauty and I are in my x5 banging away. 9 months later she want me to divorce and go with her.
Not. A year later I revised club and see an Asian beauty. For me a women has to smell good or I. Move
on. I slide by and take a whiff and she is like candy. Dance the night away rubbing and necking.
The following week , lol,we are in the back of the x-5. 7 yrs later she has
Men-on-pause and tells me to leave if
I won’t divorce and marry her. Even gives me the butt. For my first time.My wife needs me more then her.
One day After a ruff hard day of construction I stopped to get a hot tub and a rundown. Lol what a mistake. I haven’t stopped since.
It’s easy on the heart as girl friends get attached and want more and I’m not a saint. We all have needs this is the best way for me.
God Bless and thanks for listening to my rant.!!!

 

[727]

As a married woman once said to me, about her husband - if he gets a little action on the side now and then, I can live with that. If he falls in love with another woman, then there will be hell to pay. So, its not the wham, bam, thank you ma'am that may really beak down a marriage, seeking and developing a deep emotional connection with another is the killer. You can have a momentary connection or even an on-going friendship with a provider, I hvae a few of those, but that is different than going down the emotional rabbit hole with someone. This is why I love seeing a professional provider. Everyone knows they're role. When you click, its great, but you are, most likely, one of numerous clicks for them.

 

[Itslian]

Now that was all said and done I can't stop doing this because its my survival time and everybody is happy. We're addicted or better (I'm addicted to sex).

 

[Kingofqueens]

Gentleman,

Just wondering if you married fellas all go through the peaks and valleys as I do after a visit. The slight pang of guilt that soon subsides as I look forward to the next visit.

I have a beautiful Asian wife whom I love very much and I'll give her anything in the world but I can't resist the experience of having sex with strangers (mind you, I don't cheat with women at the bar or work etc. I always pay). I love the whole build up and teasing during a massage and the mystery of how it will unfold.

I know it's against the very fabric of our biological make up to not mess around, but am I a horrible person?

If you gotta ask you already know the answer

 

[MoreAl]

We men are biologically configured towards the desire of spreading our seed with as many females as possible. It's our nature. It's the nature of the male of just about every species of mammal on the planet.


Trust me...many of the world's problems would be solved if more men got sexual relief on a regular basis. A LOT less anger and bitterness and angst. Folks always ask me why I'm always in such a good mood and it's because I love my home life, I love my job and I cum twice a day.

Haha , biological argument , lets u off the hook . In the wild the boss male gets all the ladies , unless the weak overthrow or sneak in , maybe u should fight it out and winner gets the score .

If more sex = less anger , u r suggesting we should elect jerkoff's ? Cause i thought we already did that .

 

[braddwilliams074]

Perfectly stated. Maybe except for #4. If everybody did it, all the appointments would be taken. HAHA

No doubt Rickey. I posted how great my favorite provider is and no I can’t schedule appointment...

 

[RickeyRomance]

Yeah. Many guys fool around, but only a few monger. Mongers are maybe 1-2% of the male population. Most guys who fool around do it the stupid way (co-workers or their wife's BFFs).

Exactly. Of course they'd never agree but a significant other should definitely PREFER a provider as opposed to her man going out and having an affair with the secretary or some other girl from work. With a provider, it's a short, emotionless endeavor that's only about physical release. With an affair, he's spending time with her, he's buying her things and emotions are involved to the point of threatening the very existence of his home relationship.

Like many guys here are saying, there's also the mental and emotional health aspect. The longer most men go without a sexual release, the less you want to be around that guy.

 

[chunfun]

I used to fool around. After wine & dine, dates, gifts, "loans", etc., spas come out much cheaper. We are not paying to have sex, we are paying to have sex, and LEAVE!

 

[letshelpeachother143]

After wine & dine, dates, gifts, "loans"

I see what you did there with the quotes around the word loans. I agree, you will probably never see that money again. I had one mistress give me the craziest rimjob ever and CIMNQNS with accompanying PSE visuals, right before hitting me with the loan request! What can I say, she caught me at a weak moment.

My home situation like many of you, is lacking in sex quantity and is additionally complicated due to a special needs family member that needs a ton of my attention (which is why no reviews on this site yet). I wouldn’t even have space in my life for any kind of outside relationship so it’s I guess easier for me to quickly shut down any emotional entanglements.

Providers make more financial sense and for those that don’t need the variety, SArrangment is another option. Just be careful not to fall for the SA provider’s sob story or you’ll be doling our more “loans”.

Also: “Admit nothing, deny everything”

 

[kantuchdis]

Guilt = conscience, listen to it, it's guiding you. This game is not for the faint of heart. Side note: always intrigued by mongers who have a hot (their description) Asian wife at home who fucks, sucks cleans and cooks but they still risk it all by visiting AMPS. Head scratcher for me.

Like my friend says: if my wife would even give me a HJ once in a while I'd never stray... everything's relative, right?

 

[RickeyRomance]

Guilt = conscience, listen to it, it's guiding you. This game is not for the faint of heart. Side note: always intrigued by mongers who have a hot (their description) Asian wife at home who fucks, sucks cleans and cooks but they still risk it all by visiting AMPS. Head scratcher for me.

Like my friend says: if my wife would even give me a HJ once in a while I'd never stray... everything's relative, right?

For some guys, it’s not about finding the perfect ‘one’ but finding perfect variety.

As the saying goes, for every beautiful woman in the world, there’s at least one guy who’s tired of fucking her.

 

[chunfun]

I see what you did there with the quotes around the word loans. I agree, you will probably never see that money again.

It usually starts out as a loan. "I'll pay you back. I have my pride", she'll say. But eventually the amount is too large or the calamity too severe to facilitate repayment. It is my policy to never loan what I would not give, so no harm done. Too many "loans" and it is time to move on.

Seeking Arrangements/Sugar Babies sites are prostitution, no matter what they say. No one I ever contacted wanted anything but money, and the only thing they brought to the table was sex. They just think that because they aren't hookers they can maintain the illusion.

 

[Jackboner]

SA/Sugarbabes are prostitutes. These women delude themselves into,thinking they aren't thookers because they don't do it full time. All they bring to,the table is sex in exchange for an allowance or pay per visit. They are in total,denial of what they are doing. SA such a waste of,time.

 

[Glass Onion]

Best value is SA if you can play that game .

 

[Jackboner]

Lotta garbage and bullshit. But you're right.....

 

[Glass Onion]

I’ve got it down to a science

 

[Uniquelyme]

This thread is sad. I always hear Men say that their wife stopped giving em. That is her neglecting her duties as a Married Woman.

All Women have that desire Menopause though idk it sounds and I hear it's awful. Smh this is why many Millenials don't believe in marriage I can't say I blame em.

I wouldn't tolerate a Woman who isn't pleasing me. They need emotional support I need physical support and sometimes emotional. They need physical too but not as much.

It really is sad I feel for you married men.

Also SA is amazing. I fucked one girl on there free. Next time $100. 3rd or 4 th time $150 all in if i pay the hotel it comes off the amt. Another girl $180 and drinks last girl $250. Anyway all girls multi hours and 21,24,18.

I should do it again but the girls get attached. Especially when you are the one to tell em no we can't take it there. Stop responding to their texts etc.

 

[Micawber]

At least with sex workers, they get routinely checked. It's part of the job. SA girls? Who knows.

 

[Glass Onion]

At least with sex workers, they get routinely checked. It's part of the job. SA girls? Who knows.

And how do you know girls at the places reviewed here are taking routine STD tests? Because they say they do? Lol

 

[Uniquelyme]

And how do you know girls at the places reviewed here are taking routine STD tests? Because they say they do? Lol

Some hobbyists have their head in the sand and some are dillusional.

Unfortunately too many in fact.