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Married Mongers
- Thread starter Micawber
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OP asked an honest and simple question he cannot bring up in his daily circle of friends and family. Pontificating douche's who write shit to stir the pot are useless. You take a risk everyday walking out your door and driving to work, hopping on a bus, walking down a street, stepping into a massage parlor. Wise men calculate their risks and decide what their next move should be, for whatever reason they decide.
Share info if you have it, offer advice when you have some, resist urges to judge and posture anonymously.
Share info if you have it, offer advice when you have some, resist urges to judge and posture anonymously.
I’m not so sure about the whole feeling sorry thing. I have a buddy at work who’s pushing 40 and his personality prevents him from holding onto relationships. A little too used to being single perhaps. He refuses to compromise on anything which means that he won’t be married or married long.
For many of us married guys in the hobby, we truly love our wives, love our families and love the lives that we built together. We love the fact that our best friend (in ideal cases) is there with us for life. But sometimes, when age and illness sets in, you’re no longer fucking on the balcony and swinging from the chandeliers. That’s called growing older.
So this little hobby is like a vitamin supplement. If I’m not getting enough calcium from my meals, I supplement it with a pill. Not getting enough sloppy head or wet pussy at home, simply supplement it with a pro for an hour and then go back to the otherwise blissful life that I’ve built.
So that’s it. Some guys were made to be single and some were made to be married but we’re all men who value sexual intimacy. I don’t think anyone needs to feel sorry for anyone else.
For many of us married guys in the hobby, we truly love our wives, love our families and love the lives that we built together. We love the fact that our best friend (in ideal cases) is there with us for life. But sometimes, when age and illness sets in, you’re no longer fucking on the balcony and swinging from the chandeliers. That’s called growing older.
So this little hobby is like a vitamin supplement. If I’m not getting enough calcium from my meals, I supplement it with a pill. Not getting enough sloppy head or wet pussy at home, simply supplement it with a pro for an hour and then go back to the otherwise blissful life that I’ve built.
So that’s it. Some guys were made to be single and some were made to be married but we’re all men who value sexual intimacy. I don’t think anyone needs to feel sorry for anyone else.
I have empathy for Men who are not getting treated like Men. I understand a Woman who is ill or maybe even menopause to an extent. However a Woman who doesn't please her Man is ntentionally, unintentionally punishing a Man.
I just can't see myself putting up with it. Ik things die down. But ive heard Man say they are lucky they get it once a month?? Once a month. How can any Woman truly think her Man isn't going to cheat if she neglects him?? Smh.
Things don't always need to go to an extreme one to another. There should be an in between.
I just can't see myself putting up with it. Ik things die down. But ive heard Man say they are lucky they get it once a month?? Once a month. How can any Woman truly think her Man isn't going to cheat if she neglects him?? Smh.
Things don't always need to go to an extreme one to another. There should be an in between.
I, for one, do not require pity. My wife EARNED her keep when she could! We went at it 3x a day, plus more on special occasions. When she started having pain, she soldiered on anyway. Eventually, it was not a turn-on to push it where it didn't fit anymore. I told her, and she said "Do what you gotta do!" So I did. The affairs were messy (especially the other husbands, LOL). After a few mishaps (had to draw on one upset husband, and watch a nasty divorce with a former lover), I narrowed my search to single ladies. Still too messy. Especially the jealous types who could not get past the fact that I would not leave my wife, no matter how good it was! Then the days of CL/BP and escorts. Too dangerous, what with LE, fakers and thieves. Walked into VIP one day, and the rest is history. The only time my wick hasn't been wet for over a week has been due to hospital procedures. And a few lovely Asians put me back in the saddle as only they can. It has been an evolution. The result is an amazing sex life with women all around the world. No regrets whatsoever.
There’s more to being a man than getting your dick sucked on a regular basis. A lot more. There’s the love of your partner. Raising a healthy, happy family. Building a successful career and having your shit together not just for you but for all these people who respect and admire you. To me, THAT’S being tested like a man.
In our younger days, my wife and I were swingers. We’ve been to on-premise clubs and house parties from Miami to Boston. The highlight being her surprising me with a three girl reverse gangbang (she was the third girl) for my 30th birthday. We’ve done it all and while I don’t tell her about my little snacks because she’s moved on from all that and loves just being a wife, a mom and a career woman and no longer a hotwife, she’s also stopped prying too much and I think she’s content with me coming home happy, healthy and consistently every single night.
My commitment to my family and their love for me is solid and if a massage gets a bit randy or if my wife can’t perform, it has no bearing on my manhood. That was left back in my immature days when I believed that a guy’s ‘body count’ proved how much of a man he was. Now I see what true manhood is, and isn’t, really about.
In our younger days, my wife and I were swingers. We’ve been to on-premise clubs and house parties from Miami to Boston. The highlight being her surprising me with a three girl reverse gangbang (she was the third girl) for my 30th birthday. We’ve done it all and while I don’t tell her about my little snacks because she’s moved on from all that and loves just being a wife, a mom and a career woman and no longer a hotwife, she’s also stopped prying too much and I think she’s content with me coming home happy, healthy and consistently every single night.
My commitment to my family and their love for me is solid and if a massage gets a bit randy or if my wife can’t perform, it has no bearing on my manhood. That was left back in my immature days when I believed that a guy’s ‘body count’ proved how much of a man he was. Now I see what true manhood is, and isn’t, really about.
I see what you did there with the quotes around the word loans. I agree, you will probably never see that money again. I had one mistress give me the craziest rimjob ever and CIMNQNS with accompanying PSE visuals, right before hitting me with the loan request! What can I say, she caught me at a weak moment.
My home situation like many of you, is lacking in sex quantity and is additionally complicated due to a special needs family member that needs a ton of my attention (which is why no reviews on this site yet). I wouldn’t even have space in my life for any kind of outside relationship so it’s I guess easier for me to quickly shut down any emotional entanglements.
Providers make more financial sense and for those that don’t need the variety, SArrangment is another option. Just be careful not to fall for the SA provider’s sob story or you’ll be doling our more “loans”.
Also: “Admit nothing, deny everything”
My home situation like many of you, is lacking in sex quantity and is additionally complicated due to a special needs family member that needs a ton of my attention (which is why no reviews on this site yet). I wouldn’t even have space in my life for any kind of outside relationship so it’s I guess easier for me to quickly shut down any emotional entanglements.
Providers make more financial sense and for those that don’t need the variety, SArrangment is another option. Just be careful not to fall for the SA provider’s sob story or you’ll be doling our more “loans”.
Also: “Admit nothing, deny everything”
I mongered all the time during my lengthy single days. For next 20 years of meeting wife I stopped mongering completely. I still used porn as an escape and to get me through rough patches. Disease and age have made sex a chore sometimes. When my wife suggested a hooker for me I could not believe what I was hearing. It unlocked my secret inside me that I carried for many years thinking it would never resurface. My return to mongering seems to provide a needed outlet for excitement, adventure and of course lust. I still intend to keep it a secret to take to grave. I just have to be sure to balance energy between keeping her happy sexually and sneaking in a side trip once in a while.