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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

Suck-I-Tuna

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so dinner afterward. interesting twist.
Yea, I call it the reverse date...I learned to be upfront about expectations of time we will spent together and what we do so as to not waste my time or money...I don't want to spend money for hotel, uber, and ppm for a pump and dump girl who is looking for a quick hit...if they only looking for a short time like an hour there would be no point to a SB, I could visit an escort and save all the extra money on hotels, ubers, etc....Some of the girls want to steer the ship and dictate where we meet, where we go, have drinks/dinner first, etc, and how long we gonna be in the hotel or get antsy after an hour or so...and I am not kool with that, the way I see it if I am paying I should control the narrative of the date...
 

namidanam

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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
 

VJLUTZ

Desire is the opposite of death.
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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
 

TIskier

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You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
It amazes me how many SB’s use their real name, real phone number, real social media etc…. Boggles my mind
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
 

TIskier

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
I try and see only college girls. It’s usually easy to screen for by asking some basic questions. Doesn’t guarantee that they’re not traditional pros I guess but works well for me.
 

이 회장님

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
I’ve seen Korean SB’s profiles who are room salon girls in Flushing and Japanese SB’s profiles who are piano bar girls in Manhattan.

I’ll send a message to a Korean SB by saying in Korean, “Hey I respect you for hustling with SA. I guess business at Tomato must be slow.” lol

If a Korean or Japanese SB claims to be a bartender, barista or waitress, then chances are, they are working at an adult bar at night. So they are able to meet you only during the day.
 

Uniquelyme

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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
It works. I did a video call with 3 out of the last 4 sbs i saw one of them was with an Sb before i called her an uber. Agreed to pay $28 for her uber to me and her to pay for her uber back. She was outside no wifi and it worked i was at the hotel. Did a video call on seeking with another one she was at home, i was driving. Then one other one she was also home as was I. The last one didnt want a video call i suspect her place was a mess or people around. Her ig was verified and i talked to her on the phone.
You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
I forgot you can use wechat. But most sbs don't use wechat maybe a few Asian ones but non Asian nah. Snapchat works @namidanam as does business whatsapp so u can use your app number and not your real number. If they claim SA aint working.
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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I’ve seen Korean SB’s profiles who are room salon girls in Flushing and Japanese SB’s profiles who are piano bar girls in Manhattan.

I’ll send a message to a Korean SB by saying in Korean, “Hey I respect you for hustling with SA. I guess business at Tomato must be slow.” lol

If a Korean or Japanese SB claims to be a bartender, barista or waitress, then chances are, they are working at an adult bar at night. So they are able to meet you only during the day.
Where are you finding these Room Salon girls on SA? Mostly Ft Lee/NJ area...

In NYC/Queens most of the Korean/Japanese I talk to to are born here or came here at a very young age so they are very Americanized....

There is one on SB/ Korean 35 girl I am talking to who seems FOB, not sure if she works in the Room salon though she seems to be high volume because she seems to be confusing me with other people, lolz...Other than that met a Japanese milf who was also a fitness instructor and lived in the EV, but she was living here 10 years so she kind of jaded already, I prefer the ones that are very FOB, Lolz
 

이 회장님

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The ones in Fort Lee and Palisades Park are older (late 20s to early 30s).

The ones in Manhattan and Flushing are in their early to late 20s. They usually have a profile pic of fancy food.

I also prefer those who are very FOB too. lol
 

spazman

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Anyone have experience with Seeking Arrangements (SA)? Tried it again recently and am looking for some tips. Thanks in advance.
I was ghosted by this black chick. We met in south jersey, she had to pay her ins on her car, sex wasn't that bad, she claimed to have her period. very interesting, but not much.
 

Newasianstud

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I'm back on SA for the month. I was able to reconnect with my ex sb, so I don't really need one, but figured why not try to find another for Xmas and for 2024. I just blitzed out a short message to dozens asking if they are open to straight forward arrangement. And quite a few have responded. I started to chat with this 25 yo offsite. She sent me her pics and she was absolutely stunning. She texts me again the next morning and said she was bored and wanted to play Truth or Dare. I went along. We both started with Truth. When was the last time you had sex? etc. Then, she dared me to send her a pic of my little guy. So I countered her to send me pic of her tits. And wow, what a gorgeous pair of D cups! I was salivating that I might be meeting her in person soon. But things went south quickly after that. She dared me to send her money via cashapp so she could buy some toys and play with them for me. I told her I don't have cashapp, which is the truth, and that I'll add some to her ppm (she asked for 400, but we agreed at 350) when we meet. Then, she gets pushy and asks what other online pay I use. I have Paypal but it has too much personal info so I just told her I don't use any of those. She got mad and told me I owe her $40. It really shouldn't be any issue if she had any intention of meeting me in person. I kept telling her I'll give her cash, and gave her days that we could meet. She never gave me an answer. So I told her she should have waited to hustle me until we met, if she even lives in my city. Had we actually established a relationship by meeting first, then I could have been swayed to sign up for cashapp to keep her happy as my sb. If her pics were really her, I probably would have been so smitten that I couldn't say no to her. But I felt like she was doing me dirty with this money grab ploy, so I told her goodbye. I'm shaking my head as I'm writing this while looking at her nude pic. Did I do the right thing by walking away? Should I have played her game?

ps. I have another girl that just messaged me. She wants to send me her naughty pics for money. WTF is going on?
 

BonerMaloney

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"She" doesn't exist. Neither does the other one.

You can tell because if she's so stunning why did she agree to your counteroffer, not to mention why her initial lowball request in the first place?

At least 20% of the accounts are scams like this. Stolen pics, minimal bio, minimal seeking want list, etc. They don't really exist and so they can never actually show up.

My response is usually "I have a policy to only pay cash in person. It's for my safety and yours, I'm sure you understand..."

(Every so often if I'm bored I'll string them along and play a game of see how long I can keep them asking and thinking that any moment now I'm going to cashapp $50 for the babysitter, or whatever. Just when they've about given up, I've been known to agree to send $100 and then cashapp $1 and wait for the reactions, when I say "Oh I'm so sorry , I screwed up. I meant to type 100. I'll fix this! I owe you $99, right?" Later on when they say "I see I can't trust you" I'll reply "wait a minute, you know you can trust me, because *I* put my money where my mouth is. You already have some of my money. Meanwhile how do I know I can trust you? All you do is get angry and frustrated.")
 

VJLUTZ

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Agree with @BonerMaloney . Many of these girls want fast cash by selling pics and have no intention of doing more than that. Like OnlyFans, SA is another venue for earning $$ for content. And who even knows if the pics are actually them. If it looks too good to be true, it likely isn't.
I also can't help but wonder how many of these "girls" are actually guys (also looking for fast cash) with obviously no intention of ever meeting up.
 

Perfecto

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I'm back on SA for the month. I was able to reconnect with my ex sb, so I don't really need one, but figured why not try to find another for Xmas and for 2024. I just blitzed out a short message to dozens asking if they are open to straight forward arrangement. And quite a few have responded. I started to chat with this 25 yo offsite. She sent me her pics and she was absolutely stunning. She texts me again the next morning and said she was bored and wanted to play Truth or Dare. I went along. We both started with Truth. When was the last time you had sex? etc. Then, she dared me to send her a pic of my little guy. So I countered her to send me pic of her tits. And wow, what a gorgeous pair of D cups! I was salivating that I might be meeting her in person soon. But things went south quickly after that. She dared me to send her money via cashapp so she could buy some toys and play with them for me. I told her I don't have cashapp, which is the truth, and that I'll add some to her ppm (she asked for 400, but we agreed at 350) when we meet. Then, she gets pushy and asks what other online pay I use. I have Paypal but it has too much personal info so I just told her I don't use any of those. She got mad and told me I owe her $40. It really shouldn't be any issue if she had any intention of meeting me in person. I kept telling her I'll give her cash, and gave her days that we could meet. She never gave me an answer. So I told her she should have waited to hustle me until we met, if she even lives in my city. Had we actually established a relationship by meeting first, then I could have been swayed to sign up for cashapp to keep her happy as my sb. If her pics were really her, I probably would have been so smitten that I couldn't say no to her. But I felt like she was doing me dirty with this money grab ploy, so I told her goodbye. I'm shaking my head as I'm writing this while looking at her nude pic. Did I do the right thing by walking away? Should I have played her game?

ps. I have another girl that just messaged me. She wants to send me her naughty pics for money. WTF is going on?

You absolutely are doing the right thing...you are getting good advice here. NEVER send money in advance! For me personally, I quickly weed out the ones looking for fast cash or trying to sell content before meeting. I look for stable SB's, that already have some source of income and are doing this as supplement AND to get pounded out ;-). I will also see some college students that are looking to pay bills/tuition but not the "overtly money thirsty ones"....unless they are ready and willing to meet behind closed doors for their donation. It's true there are bots on that board. I block any favorites/messages I get from foreign countries...no matter how hot they look in their profile. I used to talk to some of them...but they are bots or not the actual girl....they are only selling content and probably not real...so why waste your time!
 
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