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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

Suck-I-Tuna

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So my gf was out of town for 4 days so I went on a bit of SA rampage...I wanted to arrange 2 dates in that time frame to allow me recovery time in between, lolz...I started about 10 days before, I cut straight to the chase and told them we meet in the hotel for approx 3 hours, have fun there and we vibed we would go to dinner afterwards... I did so to eliminate the ones looking for a quick hit dump and pump or the pro clock watchers...Probably send out like 100 messages like that, most ghosted me which is fine by me, since it eliminates the small talk that goes no where or you have a decent convo then you get ghosted, since I am short on time I get straight to the point. I tell them if they interested in that kind of scenario to text me.

I offer $300 which I know is considered "lowball" for NYC standards but I don't care cause I have payed more and not necessarily gotten a hotter girl or a better time...there are a lot of mid girls quoting $700-$100, skinny, short, average no bodies...I am willing to go up to $500 if she checks all my boxes like my previous ATF who left town: if she is a PAAG, tall, thick (I mean latina thick) with a cute face who likes to fuck, as of now have not found that girl that excites me enough to want to pay 5 bills.

I assure them a good time and the $300 for their time, most will ghost me after that or curse me out, including one delusional "milf" who has been 39 for the past 20 years with a butta face who claims she gets 10x that $3k per date, anyways a few like the idea and what I am paying maybe approximately 6 girls like the idea and the ppm amount. A couple are ready to meet right away but I need to schedule it like a week in advance, then they lose interest, a couple agreed to $300 then changed their mind. Had a date with a 42 Milf who was a RE agent she didn't care about the money but wanted to fuck...She put it in her calendar and texted me 2 days in advance to confirm location, then day before and morning of goes dark on me and flakes out, whatever I text a latina milf I met a few times who is not hot but she is fun and likes to fuck...

Had another date confirmed in advance with a chunky asian girl who is short and perhaps bordeline obese but she looks like a freak and says she enjoys long leisurely blow jobs so we schedule like 10 days in advance because she is "touring" in Philadelphia, day before when I text to confirm she has 2nd thoughts she says she normally gets twice what I offered hourly... I guess she is a professional escort, not interested so that's out...So I meet a 53 yr old Milf who invites me to her apartment on the UES so I save the hotel cost, but she looks less attractive and older than her photos she is a nice lady, she tried to accommodate, but can't really get excited about her...She has a whole treasure trove of sex toys that she whips out, lolz...So this time it was kind of a bust for me....

Of course right after my gf comes back when its harder to meet a bunch of girls text me that they want to meet...some of them like weeks or months after I message them so it's like planting seeds and building a pipeline....Be patient and don't expect immediate results, especially if you in a rush to do anything u will not negotiate in your favor....and lastly I learned assume the girl will flake out no matter how down they are to meet, and always have plan B and C lined up, lolz.
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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so dinner afterward. interesting twist.
Yea I need to eat as well, and consider myself a foodie and there are place I wanna try...So If I vibe with the girl and wanna hang out I choose when and where we go...But out of the roughly 50 girls that I met from SA, I only did drinks/dinner with like 6 of them....The rest of them have them hung out at the hotel only with some snacks and alcohol, etc.
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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so dinner afterward. interesting twist.
Yea, I call it the reverse date...I learned to be upfront about expectations of time we will spent together and what we do so as to not waste my time or money...I don't want to spend money for hotel, uber, and ppm for a pump and dump girl who is looking for a quick hit...if they only looking for a short time like an hour there would be no point to a SB, I could visit an escort and save all the extra money on hotels, ubers, etc....Some of the girls want to steer the ship and dictate where we meet, where we go, have drinks/dinner first, etc, and how long we gonna be in the hotel or get antsy after an hour or so...and I am not kool with that, the way I see it if I am paying I should control the narrative of the date...
 

namidanam

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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
 

VJLUTZ

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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
 

TIskier

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You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
It amazes me how many SB’s use their real name, real phone number, real social media etc…. Boggles my mind
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
 

TIskier

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
I try and see only college girls. It’s usually easy to screen for by asking some basic questions. Doesn’t guarantee that they’re not traditional pros I guess but works well for me.
 

이 회장님

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How often do you see Sb's you talking to on Escort websites? And they try to hide the fact that they are pros...

It's happened to me a few times, and it's funny how they don't want to be treated like escorts but then they start talking like pros about hourly rates, and how they "normally" get 2-3 times as much per hour than what I am offering for a multi hour session... Lolz
I’ve seen Korean SB’s profiles who are room salon girls in Flushing and Japanese SB’s profiles who are piano bar girls in Manhattan.

I’ll send a message to a Korean SB by saying in Korean, “Hey I respect you for hustling with SA. I guess business at Tomato must be slow.” lol

If a Korean or Japanese SB claims to be a bartender, barista or waitress, then chances are, they are working at an adult bar at night. So they are able to meet you only during the day.
 

Uniquelyme

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For privacy reasons I don’t put my pic on the site or ever give them out. However, I always get a lot of pushback on that. I would be willing to do a video call if it was anonymous so I’ve tried doing it through the seeking site several times but it never seems to work. Does it ever work for you guys? What is the best service to do Anonymous video calls?
It works. I did a video call with 3 out of the last 4 sbs i saw one of them was with an Sb before i called her an uber. Agreed to pay $28 for her uber to me and her to pay for her uber back. She was outside no wifi and it worked i was at the hotel. Did a video call on seeking with another one she was at home, i was driving. Then one other one she was also home as was I. The last one didnt want a video call i suspect her place was a mess or people around. Her ig was verified and i talked to her on the phone.
You might want to try Whatsapp, Viber or WeChat for video calls. However, they can take screenshots, which will give them your pic.

I only allow them to see my pics after I've vetted them somewhat. Mostly, I want to see their pics to make sure I don't know them. I also never use my real name in interactions with SBs.
I forgot you can use wechat. But most sbs don't use wechat maybe a few Asian ones but non Asian nah. Snapchat works @namidanam as does business whatsapp so u can use your app number and not your real number. If they claim SA aint working.
 

Suck-I-Tuna

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I’ve seen Korean SB’s profiles who are room salon girls in Flushing and Japanese SB’s profiles who are piano bar girls in Manhattan.

I’ll send a message to a Korean SB by saying in Korean, “Hey I respect you for hustling with SA. I guess business at Tomato must be slow.” lol

If a Korean or Japanese SB claims to be a bartender, barista or waitress, then chances are, they are working at an adult bar at night. So they are able to meet you only during the day.
Where are you finding these Room Salon girls on SA? Mostly Ft Lee/NJ area...

In NYC/Queens most of the Korean/Japanese I talk to to are born here or came here at a very young age so they are very Americanized....

There is one on SB/ Korean 35 girl I am talking to who seems FOB, not sure if she works in the Room salon though she seems to be high volume because she seems to be confusing me with other people, lolz...Other than that met a Japanese milf who was also a fitness instructor and lived in the EV, but she was living here 10 years so she kind of jaded already, I prefer the ones that are very FOB, Lolz
 

이 회장님

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The ones in Fort Lee and Palisades Park are older (late 20s to early 30s).

The ones in Manhattan and Flushing are in their early to late 20s. They usually have a profile pic of fancy food.

I also prefer those who are very FOB too. lol
 

spazman

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Anyone have experience with Seeking Arrangements (SA)? Tried it again recently and am looking for some tips. Thanks in advance.
I was ghosted by this black chick. We met in south jersey, she had to pay her ins on her car, sex wasn't that bad, she claimed to have her period. very interesting, but not much.
 

Newasianstud

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I'm back on SA for the month. I was able to reconnect with my ex sb, so I don't really need one, but figured why not try to find another for Xmas and for 2024. I just blitzed out a short message to dozens asking if they are open to straight forward arrangement. And quite a few have responded. I started to chat with this 25 yo offsite. She sent me her pics and she was absolutely stunning. She texts me again the next morning and said she was bored and wanted to play Truth or Dare. I went along. We both started with Truth. When was the last time you had sex? etc. Then, she dared me to send her a pic of my little guy. So I countered her to send me pic of her tits. And wow, what a gorgeous pair of D cups! I was salivating that I might be meeting her in person soon. But things went south quickly after that. She dared me to send her money via cashapp so she could buy some toys and play with them for me. I told her I don't have cashapp, which is the truth, and that I'll add some to her ppm (she asked for 400, but we agreed at 350) when we meet. Then, she gets pushy and asks what other online pay I use. I have Paypal but it has too much personal info so I just told her I don't use any of those. She got mad and told me I owe her $40. It really shouldn't be any issue if she had any intention of meeting me in person. I kept telling her I'll give her cash, and gave her days that we could meet. She never gave me an answer. So I told her she should have waited to hustle me until we met, if she even lives in my city. Had we actually established a relationship by meeting first, then I could have been swayed to sign up for cashapp to keep her happy as my sb. If her pics were really her, I probably would have been so smitten that I couldn't say no to her. But I felt like she was doing me dirty with this money grab ploy, so I told her goodbye. I'm shaking my head as I'm writing this while looking at her nude pic. Did I do the right thing by walking away? Should I have played her game?

ps. I have another girl that just messaged me. She wants to send me her naughty pics for money. WTF is going on?
 
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