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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

VJLUTZ

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Anyone have experience with Seeking Arrangements (SA)? Tried it again recently and am looking for some tips. Thanks in advance.
 

ASHP585

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Just recently signed up. Less then a month ago.
It's actually been much more productive then I thought it would have been. I don't know about tips, necessarily. I just send a message with something relevant off their profile(if the profile isn't filled out at all it's probably fake or playing games). Usually try and move to texting within a handful of messages and then ask for a recent pic. From there, the meet is usually a given and details discussed. Some were not agreeable, most are. No terrible experiences to speak of on the meet. I think the biggest challenge is weeding out the ones who are serious vs the ones who are playing.
 

njlefty

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Anyone have experience with Seeking Arrangements (SA)? Tried it again recently and am looking for some tips. Thanks in advance.
I know of one person who tried SA and generally found it okay. I think you have to be patient and also weed out what is real and what is not.

One thing he cautioned: never agree to provide money for the first meet up. Apparently, this is called "rinsing." You'll get rinsed for money for a meet up and never see or hear from the woman again. If they start having some back and forth with you and indicate a dollar amount for the first get-together, walk away.
 

VJLUTZ

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I know of one person who tried SA and generally found it okay. I think you have to be patient and also weed out what is real and what is not.

One thing he cautioned: never agree to provide money for the first meet up. Apparently, this is called "rinsing." You'll get rinsed for money for a meet up and never see or hear from the woman again. If they start having some back and forth with you and indicate a dollar amount for the first get-together, walk away.
I had a meetup and that was not a problem at all. I provided what was agreed upon when I physically got there. If you mean send them the $$ up front via Paypal? If that is the scam, I agree it is a stupid thing to do.
 

VJLUTZ

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If you mean don't provide $$ just to meet and have coffee, I agree. However, I have found that these girls just want to talk with you briefly (to size you up) and then immediately want to get physical. Also been surprised by girls just sending nude pics. Someone said that the SB to SD ratio is 7:1. Maybe that explains it?
 

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If you mean don't provide $$ just to meet and have coffee, I agree. However, I have found that these girls just want to talk with you briefly (to size you up) and then immediately want to get physical. Also been surprised by girls just sending nude pics. Someone said that the SB to SD ratio is 7:1. Maybe that explains it?
Doubt that figure. Probably the reverse. Seems like something made up by the owners of the site to get guys to join.
 

VJLUTZ

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Doubt that figure. Probably the reverse. Seems like something made up by the owners of the site to get guys to join.
I googled it and this is the only reference I found. As of 2015, it's supposedly 8:1, but sounds like it came from the SA CEO. From my experience the last 20 days, I think a lot of the SBs are both real & serious, but have out-of-wack expectations. Also a disproportionate number are in NYC, which is difficult for me to visit without taking the entire day. Lots of women respond from distant states or countries (maybe 30%); don't even bother with those.

From exchanging PMs, most women say they get contacted by SDs who are not serious and trying to get them for little or nothing. Many of the SDs are not physically appealing either. So the ratio might be right, but there is a big mismatch between what is desired and what is being offered. In my 20 days on, I had two successful encounters, two were obvious scammers and one was real but got cold feet. I also have a list of about 10 women who seem like good candidates for connections, just haven't had the time yet.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/30xfsh
 

didi88

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Only the owners of the website know for sure how many men and women are members if that site. But the girls I’ve spoken to tell me they’re swamped with messages, especially the good looking ones. One girl received close to 100 at the beginning. Seems to me there are thousands of hard-dicks on the site who are ready to pounce every time a desirable girl puts up a profile. From my own experience, the number that have contacted me is pretty small, and often not worth pursuing
 

TGBeldin

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Only the owners of the website know for sure how many men and women are members if that site. But the girls I’ve spoken to tell me they’re swamped with messages, especially the good looking ones. One girl received close to 100 at the beginning. Seems to me there are thousands of hard-dicks on the site who are ready to pounce every time a desirable girl puts up a profile. From my own experience, the number that have contacted me is pretty small, and often not worth pursuing
Sounds about right for what I hear from guys who are "serious" SB site members. 30% fake bait to attract guys, 30% flakes among the female posts, 30% not apealing.

Of the 10% they say they have had some good success, but the amount of work seems excessive. For the time they spend, and the $, I guess I'd prefer the escort route. When I actually push them to be honest with what it costs them per score, it isn't that different. But some like the thrill of the hunt I guess.
 

didi88

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Sounds about right for what I hear from guys who are "serious" SB site members. 30% fake bait to attract guys, 30% flakes among the female posts, 30% not apealing.

Of the 10% they say they have had some good success, but the amount of work seems excessive. For the time they spend, and the $, I guess I'd prefer the escort route. When I actually push them to be honest with what it costs them per score, it isn't that different. But some like the thrill of the hunt I guess.
It requires some work and can be frustrating weeding out the time-wasters. But the major draw for me is the option of finding an alternative to high volume providers. The ones I’ve seen are civvies who certainly don’t fuck multiple guys every day. So their sexual responses are more real, they don’t have time limits, and they are less jaded than most providers. No guarantees about performance but that’s true for providers as well
 

VJLUTZ

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Only the owners of the website know for sure how many men and women are members if that site. But the girls I’ve spoken to tell me they’re swamped with messages, especially the good looking ones. One girl received close to 100 at the beginning. Seems to me there are thousands of hard-dicks on the site who are ready to pounce every time a desirable girl puts up a profile. From my own experience, the number that have contacted me is pretty small, and often not worth pursuing
The attention the girls get varies wildly. The hotter girl I had an encounter with says she gets 50 messages a day from new guys. However, the other one (who was far less hot) gets just a few a day. In fact, I was her first encounter 4 months. In 20 days, I've easily had over 100 girls favorite me, but more than half are non-starters due to things like location, age and ethnicity. Many of those I do correspond with want allowances right off the bat. The really hot girls want 600 per visit (standard in NYC), but outside the city, some can be bargained down to 200-300. Like I said, I've boiled it down to about 10, so that's about a 10% filter rate.
 

driverseven

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When I tried it, I got a bunch of hot babes approaching me and I had not even joined. I felt like they were all fakes to sucker me into paying the monthly fee. You can't respond until you pay and it's not cheap.
 

Jackboner

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Settle for the less than hot ones. Do not pay any SB $600, these women are delusional. Your best bet is a coed or single mom who needs the extra cash and will appreciate your attention. Also, they become very frisky and desperate towards the end of the month as next months bills are coming due. It takes work to weed out the garbage. i tried it for awhile and dropped it. Not for me. And don't assume that just because these women are not pros that they are not fucking multiple men. The fact they they are on SA gives it way. Have fun.
 

VJLUTZ

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I am only doing the Premium SA service for one month; not going to renew. So it set me back $90. Was it worth it? I'd have to say yes. If nothing else, it was an interesting and educational experience. And I had some success. But it would not be worth it for 2 or more months at that rate. If SA was smart, they would do what some porn sites do and cut the rate drastically to keep you subscribing. I might consider keeping my subscription for $20/month.
 

didi88

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It’s not for everyone, that’s clear. I certainly don’t assume that the ones I see are only fucking me. But I guarantee the number of guys they might see doesn’t come close to the popular high volume girls , who are servicing multiple guys every day. So SBs are a much lower volume alternative, which to me is a positive. Most will want 300-500 each time, which isn’t that much different from high end AMPs here
 

VJLUTZ

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SA is dangerous. You have to be aware that some of these women may try to blackmail you or extort you or cry victim 10 years from now. Pay a pro and that's the end of it. Food for thought.
Yeah, well, there is always the risk of getting caught in an AMP raid too. If you're going to pay for play, there is no such thing as risk free. As did88 said, never reveal your real identity and keep a buffer. If I start talking details, I do it via text (using a GV number) not on the SA site. I have the transcript of the text session in case someone tries to "cry victim". Maybe I'm naïve, but I really don't get the sense that is what these girls are about. Anyone with common sense can filter out the scammers pretty quickly. The scammers want to milk idiots for the quick buck and are not playing the long game.
 
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