OK I think there's a bunch of things that come into play. When I turned 11 girls approached me my age range. Up until age 16-17 this happened. I approached some gfs or girls I was interested in. However they were very obvious. Used to have a lot of girls flirting. At work now I have girls who flirt. I think I'm handsome. Always have. One pretty girl who I worked with I broke up with an ex told me "Your face is a aesthetically pleasing" my ex manager saw I was having a bit of a issue with having broken up with my gf. Told me "your a good looking guy, you'll have another gf fast. Now get back to making the company some more money"
So I do think that how others perceive you may affect your opinion of yourself. That being said I'm in decent shape. 15-20lbs off ideal weight and not 6ft tall. So while im attractive im not the ideal Chad as many of you are calling it.
OK. Thanks for the response.
I was 6'1" 115 (yes, 115!) when I graduated HS.
You can imagine the shit I went through.
Starting seeing pros as a Junior in college and been there ever since.
I am 6'1" 175, exercise regularly, have been an IT Consultant for Wall St. firms for 32 years, never been seriously sick or hosptalized...and still have never had any delusions about getting hot girls OTHER than escorts at ANY point in my life. I know who I am am, and act accordingly.
If you are slaying 'em on SA, more power to you!
Keep at it!
But for guys like me, with our limited genetic physical attributes and without "Harvey Weinstein" cash, SA is a wasteland. All the "faux confidence" in the world won't change that.
Have fun sir. Enjoy the gifts God gave you!
I'll do it my my and you do it yours!
Take care.