All the (four) SA encounters I had last year, I went straight to their apartments to do the deed (their place - did not shell out more $$ for a hotel). At first, I did think you had to meet them somewhere. Luckily, for many it turns out not to be necessary. I only did one month of SA last year and posted multiple times about my experience. It was work, but ultimately worth it. Just not something I feel I need to do on a regular basis, especially since I found a keeper SB who I still see.
Yeah, that is some sick, pathetic shit. Must be some super desperate simps out there. I guess there is a sucker born every minute.