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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)
- Thread starter VJLUTZ
- Start date
My cute Korean SB moved to LA. I dropped her off at the airport and she was upset that I didn’t make any effort to persuade her to stay. She cried at the airport and random people were staring at us. I wanted to say, “God is beautiful.” but I just wished her the best
Sounds fucked up but this is a battle of wills. You fuck em silly treat em good but make them fully aware you dont need em and they go crazy over you.
I've smashed for free like this and two or three other times the girl was like wait we really never discussed money??? Looking confused. No hun then they accept a lower amount than they offer others.
Women are not robots idgaf what people who are jaded and or not confidant say. I dont dislcose everything in my reviews . I disclose a lot.
Sbs speak English properly so your charisma, your style your confidence, your personality, your wit, your patience, the way you listen and remember and converse with them all makes a difference . It arouses em, intrigues em , makes em wonder about you.
"I cant believe you are on here!"
" i wonder if i met you at a bar would we have hooked up?? I think so!"
"Wow so that's your friend and you are introducing me to him"
"What kind of girls do you typically date "
"How many girls are you seeing now?"
"Let me see your phone!"
And much more phrases i have heard from these sbs .
They have the looks and youth. Bring your confidence and life experience to give you the edge.
Women are not robots idgaf what people who are jaded and or not confidant say. I dont dislcose everything in my reviews . I disclose a lot.
Sbs speak English properly so your charisma, your style your confidence, your personality, your wit, your patience, the way you listen and remember and converse with them all makes a difference . It arouses em, intrigues em , makes em wonder about you.
"I cant believe you are on here!"
" i wonder if i met you at a bar would we have hooked up?? I think so!"
"Wow so that's your friend and you are introducing me to him"
"What kind of girls do you typically date "
"How many girls are you seeing now?"
"Let me see your phone!"
And much more phrases i have heard from these sbs .
They have the looks and youth. Bring your confidence and life experience to give you the edge.
yeah, I definitely found some unicorns myself. Didn’t discuss money with one I met while traveling for a conference. Saw her 4 times in a week with 3 being sleep overs. I paid for dinners, a little shopping ($200), and gave her another $300 at the end and she was really appreciative. Money well spent. Still keep in light contact and I can fuck her whenever I’m in town.
Another, I used to see when I travelled regularly for business. Strictly ppm but I flew her out to NYC a couple times and she didn’t want anything extra. A weekend getaway, flight, hotel, meals kept her happy. She plans on moving to NYC. Can’t wait!
Another, I used to see when I travelled regularly for business. Strictly ppm but I flew her out to NYC a couple times and she didn’t want anything extra. A weekend getaway, flight, hotel, meals kept her happy. She plans on moving to NYC. Can’t wait!
I’d answer in the affirmative. Tell her that sounds “good”. Don’t say that is what you want but acknowledge that something “mutually beneficial” is exactly what you want. Then transition to it all depends on Chemistry and offer to get together to check that out.
I wouldn’t discuss financial details unless she brings it up and even then, I’d first suggest she throw out a number and also, let her know you’re not comfortable negotiating anything without meeting as that’s just transactional and you’d prefer not to go there. See what happens but I think she’ll be open to meeting. You take it from there based on the vibe and your mutual comfort level.
I wouldn’t discuss financial details unless she brings it up and even then, I’d first suggest she throw out a number and also, let her know you’re not comfortable negotiating anything without meeting as that’s just transactional and you’d prefer not to go there. See what happens but I think she’ll be open to meeting. You take it from there based on the vibe and your mutual comfort level.
All the other SDs are right. Make them throw out the number. I have a pretty standard playbook I follow.
1. Make contact with them (doesn’t matter honestly, you’re on a hunt so find as many as you can that you think talk to).
2. After initial pleasantries and confirming they are looking for basically the same thing (physical intimacy) move to text/snap/whatever. I will use snap but prefer an app with a WiFi number because it saves our conversation l. Here you can talk with a bit more freedom with BB watching you on the site.
3. I try to avoid getting to financial discussion until I find that they are on the same page as me or at the bare minimum are down for 80-90% of what I like. I also like to get another photo of them that’s preferably a selfie to verify it isn’t a catfish. I also do reverse lookups on the numbers which you’d be surprised how much extra info you can track down off of that.
4. Only after we have the conversation about what’s good and what isn’t do I discuss what a gift will be. At that point they’ll try and fish a number from you, I always go back with “well I don’t want to risk insulting you, so I’d prefer that you tell me what you’d be comfortable with.” I’ve gotten some off the wall numbers where I tell them flat out (but politely) that this better be a LONG multi hour affair with me very thing agreed upon on the table. Or you get a much more reasonable amount which I’ll usually agree to - think an hour rate for decent agency but that you know will be much more like 2-3 hours.
With it being June the glorious season of young teacher SBs has commenced. Any of them that aren’t tenured or work in NYC Public schools probably make jackshit comparatively, so with downtime in the summer they’ll be sugaring MUCH more. Currently talking with two now. Works a little nuts, but I have something on the books with a nice 25 y/o who finishes school next week, is away the week after and then back in NY. For what I’m looking for and the atmosphere I enjoy this could be a very good thing (or bad depending on how you look at it) as she has stated she’s either already cool with what I asked or willing to let me train her. I did have one set up with a hairdresser that reminded me a lot of Kate Beckinsale but she disappeared. Sucks but it is what it is.
Sugaring is the way to go gentlemen. You can be plainspoken upfront about what’s expected, establish rules, and train them like Pavlov’s dog if you do it right. I’m repeating myself here but there’s so many other facets to think about but starting off with the simply steps I mentioned above, which I think a lot of fellow SDs would agree with, can Make the process move much more quickly for you.
1. Make contact with them (doesn’t matter honestly, you’re on a hunt so find as many as you can that you think talk to).
2. After initial pleasantries and confirming they are looking for basically the same thing (physical intimacy) move to text/snap/whatever. I will use snap but prefer an app with a WiFi number because it saves our conversation l. Here you can talk with a bit more freedom with BB watching you on the site.
3. I try to avoid getting to financial discussion until I find that they are on the same page as me or at the bare minimum are down for 80-90% of what I like. I also like to get another photo of them that’s preferably a selfie to verify it isn’t a catfish. I also do reverse lookups on the numbers which you’d be surprised how much extra info you can track down off of that.
4. Only after we have the conversation about what’s good and what isn’t do I discuss what a gift will be. At that point they’ll try and fish a number from you, I always go back with “well I don’t want to risk insulting you, so I’d prefer that you tell me what you’d be comfortable with.” I’ve gotten some off the wall numbers where I tell them flat out (but politely) that this better be a LONG multi hour affair with me very thing agreed upon on the table. Or you get a much more reasonable amount which I’ll usually agree to - think an hour rate for decent agency but that you know will be much more like 2-3 hours.
With it being June the glorious season of young teacher SBs has commenced. Any of them that aren’t tenured or work in NYC Public schools probably make jackshit comparatively, so with downtime in the summer they’ll be sugaring MUCH more. Currently talking with two now. Works a little nuts, but I have something on the books with a nice 25 y/o who finishes school next week, is away the week after and then back in NY. For what I’m looking for and the atmosphere I enjoy this could be a very good thing (or bad depending on how you look at it) as she has stated she’s either already cool with what I asked or willing to let me train her. I did have one set up with a hairdresser that reminded me a lot of Kate Beckinsale but she disappeared. Sucks but it is what it is.
Sugaring is the way to go gentlemen. You can be plainspoken upfront about what’s expected, establish rules, and train them like Pavlov’s dog if you do it right. I’m repeating myself here but there’s so many other facets to think about but starting off with the simply steps I mentioned above, which I think a lot of fellow SDs would agree with, can Make the process move much more quickly for you.
I am under 40, single, and have played quite a bit on seeking.
You’d be surprised how much bang for the buck you can get on the site. There’s definitely a space for the guys flush with cash on there too….but I’d say that most younger guys, who are at the very least independent and not living with parents, and have a decent track record with women in general, would have more success on seeking as far as sex goes then a lot of the other traditional dating websites.
You’d be surprised how much bang for the buck you can get on the site. There’s definitely a space for the guys flush with cash on there too….but I’d say that most younger guys, who are at the very least independent and not living with parents, and have a decent track record with women in general, would have more success on seeking as far as sex goes then a lot of the other traditional dating websites.
There’s a sales technique that’s called Mirroring. Basically, you mirror the behavior or style of the client. They will tell you how to sell them. That’s applicable here as these women will tell you how to approach them and what you need to say in many cases. The word “respect” or “respectful” is dropped by them all the time. Use it. They will say something about mutual satisfaction- use it. Mention the frequency- typically 2-4 times a month depending on your mutual schedules. Talk about fun and being adventurous. They like that. And add something about each situation is unique and the two of you will decide what works.
