Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[maximus799]

So what do you guys usually say in terms of what you are looking for? Besides the obvious of what we want which probably not something you want to say directly ... I'm not sure what to say lol. I'm meeting someone in a little bit that was easier to set up but not sure yet if it will be worth it.

In terms of the talking on the site, I use terms like mutually beneficial, discreet, in-person meet ups, indicating I'm mostly looking for evening meet-ups, how I value a personal connection and not just a business transaction, etc. Once text exchange is established I might go into more detail on what our meet-ups will entail (whether it be hotel, dinner at a restaurant, come to my place, etc.), but I try not to talk $ unless she insists on it. Once in-person I'll treat the coffee/dinner date like an actual date and see if we have enough of a connection where we both want to move forward. If she brings it up, we'll discuss payment, if not, ill bring it up later in texting when trying to set-up and actual meet with fs. Many of the SB's were new to this and wanted to get an idea of how the whole process worked. You kinda have to make them aware that you are not just an ATM

 

[Flloydgondolli]

In terms of the talking on the site, I use terms like mutually beneficial, discreet, in-person meet ups, indicating I'm mostly looking for evening meet-ups, how I value a personal connection and not just a business transaction, etc. Once text exchange is established I might go into more detail on what our meet-ups will entail (whether it be hotel, dinner at a restaurant, come to my place, etc.), but I try not to talk $ unless she insists on it. Once in-person I'll treat the coffee/dinner date like an actual date and see if we have enough of a connection where we both want to move forward. If she brings it up, we'll discuss payment, if not, ill bring it up later in texting when trying to set-up and actual meet with fs. Many of the SB's were new to this and wanted to get an idea of how the whole process worked. You kinda have to make them aware that you are not just an ATM

Bingo. I try to get them offline before we discuss any details and like I mentioned previously I make them bring up the dollar amount. You’ll know just by looking at their photos and them telling you what they’re cool with. And if they try and talk money before we get into the nitty gritty of what’s good BCD, then so flat out tell them “well that all depends on what type of relationship you’re comfortable with and how long we’d be spending together.” I mean, if you make them feel seen, desired and respected you can score an all day date with well more than half of it spent in bed for 4-5 Bills, and that’s including all sorts of kink/fetish play too (yours and theirs). Lots of these girls want an older guy IN CONTROL - most of them, if you approach it respectfully, will let you ask whatever you want about what is and is not on the table. And if they won’t or they dance around it - move on. Those of us who have participated in this for a while can tell you some WILD stories. They have a daddy/sub kink and they are looking for an older guy who is well put together, able to throw them a little cash, and knows what he wants in the bedroom that they legitimately can’t get from younger guys because the dynamic isn’t possible (age, attitude, etc.).

 

[Flloydgondolli]

Is there a thread that lists the handles/names of SA and WYP girls that they've had good luck with? I'm hoping to get more involved after a long hiatus from the sugarbaby scene and if people are sharing reviews or recommendations for SBs, it would be super helpful.

I seem to remember something about SB reviews not being allowed. And as you know, SBs can be so selective in who they see and why. Some need the combo of looks and money, some are freaks who have an itch and so long as you’re pretty good looking and on the same page activity wise, money isn’t as much an issue, and the third as you know is more in the vein of a working girl. I prefer 1 and 2, and I hate saying but I’m Not sharing LOL. As the factors to seeing them are dependent as much on you, if not more so, on the girls attraction to you, I don’t think listing names would be wise or worth it. That being said, depending on who we’re to message me and ask I might be willing to trade war stories.

 

[ASHP585]

Is there a thread that lists the handles/names of SA and WYP girls that they've had good luck with? I'm hoping to get more involved after a long hiatus from the sugarbaby scene and if people are sharing reviews or recommendations for SBs, it would be super helpful.

That would likely not work out well. In most cases, the sugar baby scene is VERY customized and dependent on a lot more factors then what we normally see from a traditional provider.

 

[BestTwitterer]

Let me agree with the others that the SB dynamic is very personal. I couldn’t get anywhere with one particular gal but my buddy did. Meanwhile another SB saw me for significantly less she wanted from the same friend I just mentioned. So no, reviews or grocery list of names isn’t going to work here.

 

[trimhunter]

I seem to remember something about SB reviews not being allowed. And as you know, SBs can be so selective in who they see and why. Some need the combo of looks and money, some are freaks who have an itch and so long as you’re pretty good looking and on the same page activity wise, money isn’t as much an issue, and the third as you know is more in the vein of a working girl. I prefer 1 and 2, and I hate saying but I’m Not sharing LOL. As the factors to seeing them are dependent as much on you, if not more so, on the girls attraction to you, I don’t think listing names would be wise or worth it. That being said, depending on who we’re to message me and ask I might be willing to trade war stories.

That would likely not work out well. In most cases, the sugar baby scene is VERY customized and dependent on a lot more factors then what we normally see from a traditional provider.

Let me agree with the others that the SB dynamic is very personal. I couldn’t get anywhere with one particular gal but my buddy did. Meanwhile another SB saw me for significantly less she wanted from the same friend I just mentioned. So no, reviews or grocery list of names isn’t going to work here.

Thanks guys. That all makes sense...I guess it's a middle ground between regular dating and pros, so almost inevitable that the work required will be a lot more than regular pros.

 

[oldhorndog53]

Thanks guys. That all makes sense...I guess it's a middle ground between regular dating and pros, so almost inevitable that the work required will be a lot more than regular pros.

https://ampreviews.net/index.php?th...by-reviews-and-those-sites.43071/#post-344728

 

[Zippy17]

I've had a membership for about a year and, until tonight, had nothing really worth adding to this thread: reconnected with one ex-agency girl and met one new girl and saw them both at a hotel a few times...still in touch with both. All in all, not worth the amount of wasted time it takes to weed through the bullshit on there. Tonight was one of the best experiences of my fucking life: posted about it here:

https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/arab-persian-fs-providers.25969/

 

[BestTwitterer]

While many will likely criticize your investment, that’s your business. Congratulations on finding the unicorn you were looking for on Seeking. You choose Quality or Quantity and obviously got a great reward. That was a tremendous score for you. SA can be a excellent source of beautiful women and as you now know, it’s about patience to find the one that’s right for you. A great find and any details you care to share via PM, I’m all ears! Lol. Sincerely, glad you’re successful.

 

[Sloopjohnb]

I know this is an old thread but if you are under 40, good looking and successful why the fuck do you need to pay for a sugar baby. Dumbest thing I may have read. Most men who want a sugar baby are married, successful 40 somethings.

Sorry to have authored the "dumbest thing you may have read". I'm not sure why you think someone under 40 can't be successful or married or both. It may be that this is a situation you don't find yourself in, but I'll explain further. For someone who is 40ish and looking for opportunities with college aged girls, there are not a lot of options. Being middle aged and hanging out at college bars is creepy. Using mainstream dating apps are too public and also will seem a little creepy if you're looking in the 18-23 age range. I don't need someone I work with seeing my online dating profile and preferences (there is a funny SNL skit about that exact situation.) Randomly messaging girls on social media is once again pretty creepy. But message girls half your age on Seeking? It's the norm. It's expected. It's what everyone is there for. It also provides a lot of anonymity not available on mainstream dating sites. Private photos that I can share with only the profiles I am interested in is appealing to me. For me, this is the place to go for what I am looking for. The beauty of Seeking in my opinion is the range of available options. If you are strictly a buyer, you'll be able to find what you are looking for but seeking is one of many sites that will have that. If you are more of a hunter and are willing to wade through hundreds of profiles and spend hours searching, texting, getting ghosted, risking expensive dinners that go nowhere just to find a gem, I don't think there is a better place for that than seeking. For some all the time and searching is repulsive. For me, the hunt is half the fun.

 

[이 회장님]

I agree with Sloopjohnb—the hunt is half the fun. Life is more rewarding when you break a sweat…..and leche. lol.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I've had a membership for about a year and, until tonight, had nothing really worth adding to this thread: reconnected with one ex-agency girl and met one new girl and saw them both at a hotel a few times...still in touch with both. All in all, not worth the amount of wasted time it takes to weed through the bullshit on there. Tonight was one of the best experiences of my fucking life: posted about it here:

https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/arab-persian-fs-providers.25969/

Read it . I myself wouldnt spend $1k on any Woman pro or non pro . Unless it's a movie star i really like.

 

[lguy1]

lol met with a super cute asian -> she said her last arrangement was 5k / month. i can't lol. seems like asians are at a premium on sa especially the younger they are

 

[Uniquelyme]

lol met with a super cute asian -> she said her last arrangement was 5k / month. i can't lol. seems like asians are at a premium on sa especially the younger they are

Don't listen to their stories. Where is he now?? "Oh he moved away !"

Always an excuse. Idgaf what the next Man paid. Matter of fact if i got the time and im annoyed i might send her videos of sbs i hooked up with lmaoooo and tell her they were $300 and under and look how they enjoyed themselves.

 

[Zippy17]

That could be why I've had such a hard time on there: My profile says flat out that I'd never pay a dime just to "meet" someone (GTFOHWTBS)...but that if we meet and both like one another enough to have more of a private date, I'm fine with PPD...

 

[lguy1]

In terms of the talking on the site, I use terms like mutually beneficial, discreet, in-person meet ups, indicating I'm mostly looking for evening meet-ups, how I value a personal connection and not just a business transaction, etc. Once text exchange is established I might go into more detail on what our meet-ups will entail (whether it be hotel, dinner at a restaurant, come to my place, etc.), but I try not to talk $ unless she insists on it. Once in-person I'll treat the coffee/dinner date like an actual date and see if we have enough of a connection where we both want to move forward. If she brings it up, we'll discuss payment, if not, ill bring it up later in texting when trying to set-up and actual meet with fs. Many of the SB's were new to this and wanted to get an idea of how the whole process worked. You kinda have to make them aware that you are not just an ATM

This is how I handled it with the girl I just commented on. I liked this setup as opposed to others asking for $ even before meeting. it's taking a bit of work to get to this point with sbs though hah

 

[이 회장님]

lol met with a super cute asian -> she said her last arrangement was 5k / month. i can't lol. seems like asians are at a premium on sa especially the younger they are

I told one Korean SB that all of them need a Letter Grade just like restaurants. Grade A would be “cool and humble and cute”. A grade of F would be “asshole” and “unrealistic”. lol.

 

[lguy1]

Don't listen to their stories. Where is he now?? "Oh he moved away !"

Always an excuse. Idgaf what the next Man paid. Matter of fact if i got the time and im annoyed i might send her videos of sbs i hooked up with lmaoooo and tell her they were $300 and under and look how they enjoyed themselves.

Yeah, I honestly don't know what makes sense in terms of cost considering some agencies charge like 300-500 per hour. But yeah, no matter how interested i am in the girl, i could never justify (or afford really lmao)

 

[Zippy17]

I agree with Sloopjohnb—the hunt is half the fun. Life is more rewarding when you break a sweat…..and leche. lol.

Wow. I couldn't disagree more. I fucking hate the hunt. That's what was so awesome about this...talked on SA, agreed on what we were both looking for and she gave me her address and told me to come right over. In fact, it was so easy that I got concerned it might be a LE sting...that's why I waited until Sunday to see her...if I'm ever gonna get locked up, it's gonna be for 12 hours until I see the judge, not 2.5 days...told her that, too, when I apologized for not seeing her Friday. I do research for a living; so the less I have to do on these forums just to find girls I'm going to like seeing, the better.

 

[Flloydgondolli]

Yeah, I honestly don't know what makes sense in terms of cost considering some agencies charge like 300-500 per hour. But yeah, no matter how interested i am in the girl, i could never justify (or afford really lmao)

it’s definitely a “costs weighed against results” situation. My latest is down for a full day of fun (more than 5 hours) for around that rate plus I cover the hotel. She’s exactly what I’m looking for (10+ years younger, understands what I am capable of, and what I can and will provide) and super responsive. We trade pics daily and chat throughout. She is not needy at all and definitely looking to experiment. The hunt can be exhausting but so sweet when it pays off.

As to the $1K tag. There are women out there - pros and otherwise worth that for 2 or more hours. My ATF used to hit me for that for a 3 hour date. Totally worth it, no questions asked. Look at my review history and you’ll figure out who it is. It’s all about what you’re looking for and willing to pay - some times you buy your steak at the supermarket and sometimes you buy it at the prime butcher.