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Sex life at home

Micawber

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How can the wives be so oblivious? Even if you've got excuses for where you've been, what about the finances? Doesn't the Mrs. ever take a look at the bank statement and think "Hmm, I thought we'd have more than that..."?
Not if you're pacing it out. A buck fifty to two hundred every couple of months? Won't even notice.
 

Uniquelyme

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I'll also say that, regardless of the sexless state of my marriage, I have ZERO regrets about getting married. Aside from sex, my wife and I have had a great life, she takes very good care of me, is the mother of my children, has kept herself fit, and for many, many years our sex was good to excellent. Regardless of how great the Asian pussy is (and I really only go after Asian women these days), I'm not trading my wife in on a new model. If you're getting married on the basis of just sex, you are almost certainly getting married for the wrong reasons.

A wise man from these boards once opined: "Eventually, all pussy turns rancid". I have to agree with that. One day your sex kitten isn't going to be very sexy anymore, especially after menopause. If you are getting married, you may want to ask yourself if your marriage can withstand being without sex, because one day it may very well come to that. If the answer is no, then its probably best to rent instead of buy. If I found myself single tomorrow, no way I would get married again.
Sex isn't everything. The love and time you spent together can't be denied. Her being the Mother of your children also can't be looked over.

However I myself wouldn't be able to tolerate any Woman not taking care of me physically, emotionally, etc. Look my sex drive now isn't even o. d. I fuck my gf 5 days usually a week and before this mo it was 3-4 times a week. At the pace I'm on now, 5xs a week is more than enough. Maybe in my 60's 2xs a week would be ok. Minimum I need I would imagine once a week.

You're a good Man. Better than I think I could be.
 

VJLUTZ

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Agreed. But I think some of these gentlemen are spending that much a week.
My hobby related spending is significant, but affordable. The other month I calculated its about 8% of my gross pay. That's up significantly from the $70 for a once a month massage (w/tip) when I started out. For me, 10% of gross pay is a red line. If it goes above that, it becomes more of an obsession than a hobby.

It's easy for me to fund my fun since I handle the finances at home. My wife is not a numbers or tech person (she leaves those things to me). For a married guy in this hobby, that is a blessing; just got lucky there. However, I still have to be creative. I have a payroll deduction going to a slush bank account and a credit card that is just for the hobby. Timewise, I travel a lot for my job (both locally and out of town), so its easy to fold visits into trips. I also tend to visit in the morning; so if I have to work late to cover, I really am working late.

Really, the key is: Be creative. We are all capable of that. If there is a will, there is a way.
 

charliebrown

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Sex Life and Home do not go together very well for me. We are older and her interest has dwindled. My requesting has stopped. So it is something that has faded from our otherwise good relationship. When she is interested, I still enjoy being with her as I always have.
 

findinit

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How can the wives be so oblivious? Even if you've got excuses for where you've been, what about the finances? Doesn't the Mrs. ever take a look at the bank statement and think "Hmm, I thought we'd have more than that..."?
Thanks everyone for the answers. I'm curious about this one too!
 

krideynyc

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How can the wives be so oblivious? Even if you've got excuses for where you've been, what about the finances? Doesn't the Mrs. ever take a look at the bank statement and think "Hmm, I thought we'd have more than that..."?
Not all households have a single account. We have 3 accounts. 1 for the house where we each deposit a significant part of our paychecks. We each have a personal account for whatever we want. I don't complain about her shoes, she doesn't complain about my massages.
 

Slimm

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Not all households have a single account. We have 3 accounts. 1 for the house where we each deposit a significant part of our paychecks. We each have a personal account for whatever we want. I don't complain about her shoes, she doesn't complain about my massages.
That arrangement I can understand. My question was for the guys who are spending way more than any allowance/madmoney their wives have - guys like @VJLUTZ.

As VJ said, his wife leaves all the finances up to him. But that's rare in this day and age. I can't imagine too many wives being that hands-off.
 

kantuchdis

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Spending level is relative. I guy making $60K/year is going to have a harder time hiding $200/wk in massages. Someone earning $1.8M/year should have no trouble with the shell game. Anyone can pick up a small hobby that generates income like selling on Ebay, flea markets, fixed up old bikes and sell them, etc. Get creative, it's part of the hunt.
 

Dc46

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That arrangement I can understand. My question was for the guys who are spending way more than any allowance/madmoney their wives have - guys like @VJLUTZ.

As VJ said, his wife leaves all the finances up to him. But that's rare in this day and age. I can't imagine too many wives being that hands-off.
I also think there are situations where the woman looks the other way. It’s a win for her if her sex drive isn’t as high as his, and he isn’t going anywhere. Still a good husband everywhere else, good Father to his kids, etc.
 

Justin_Thyme

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Married for 15...stay for the kid...no sex...no interest for a decade on my part...Miss the touch of a woman...but won't risk the phone call home... separate bank accounts....and I travel a lot for work....so no red flags raised at home....when money in my industry was "Great".... damn..I had some fun.... I slowed down a little....but it gets me by
 

Drantanborg

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Life can take some unexpected turns, right? It sounds like you've found a balance that works for you amidst the complexities.

If you're into exploring different perspectives or maybe looking for insights, I came across this link: https://periuod.com/period-and-sex. It seems like it covers a variety of discussions that might resonate with you.

Wishing you continued strength and fulfillment in your unique path!
 

MAX-77

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I’m in my 60s, everyone thinks I’m 50, I’m fit and well groomed.
My wife and I have been married over 40 years and haven’t had sex in 8.
If not for AMPs we’d be finished and if ever exposed, same result.
She has no interest and seems perfectly content. IDK, I do fear getting too close to certain women I’ve become close with. Regular that no longer works but I see often.
 

calr2112

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I’m in my 60s, everyone thinks I’m 50, I’m fit and well groomed.
My wife and I have been married over 40 years and haven’t had sex in 8.
If not for AMPs we’d be finished and if ever exposed, same result.
She has no interest and seems perfectly content. IDK, I do fear getting too close to certain women I’ve become close with. Regular that no longer works but I see often.
yeah, its why we are in the tunnel brothers club...I noticed you did not mention her looks ;)
 

charliebrown

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yeah, its why we are in the tunnel brothers club...I noticed you did not mention her looks ;)
The really sad part is my wife is still a beautiful woman. If she was a stranger in an AMP, many a man would be fucking her but she is the woman who has denied me so much enjoyment over the years that I no longer want to fuck her any longer.
 

calr2112

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The really sad part is my wife is still a beautiful woman. If she was a stranger in an AMP, many a man would be fucking her but she is the woman who has denied me so much enjoyment over the years that I no longer want to fuck her any longer.
I was not speaking to you specifically, but responding the the other guy as I have had many similar comments about my looks; e.g. you look like a movie star...lmao!

Some women don't like sex, especially when they get older. I had an open and honest relationship with a Chinese woman and she told me all about the women and the intimate gossip, she could not help herself, she was a fountain of information.
 
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