Tips for AMP first timers?

[Redrain]

I'm going to be following my own advice, specifically #5.

This time, I'm going to save up the money necessary to fix my teeth lol! I never got braces as a kid, so the chompers aren't exactly straight. Plus as I've gotten older there are a few more spaces in my smile than I would like.

So, I'm putting down this hobby just long enough to save up a few thousand for a better smile.

I know it's not deep or anything, but looking in the mirror and feeling handsome is one of the things I enjoy at least as much as hobbying.

It's on the same list as nice vacations and my motorcycle (which was another thing I once stopped hobbying to save up for. No regrets!)

More importantly, if I can't put down this hobby long enough to save the money for something else I want
, then I am going to stop and take a serious look at myself and whether this hobby has become an addiction.

Because, the only way to keep from becoming addicted to this hobby is by making sure you have other things you want just as much as hobbying and are willing to take time off from hobbying for!

You've got to have other things that you not only say you're willing to take a break from hobbying for but that you actually have taken a break from hobbying for.

So see you all in the funny papers and I'm begging ya, don't stretch em all out before I get back! Lol

 

[sreb1]

I would have appreciated an easy-to-follow recipe my first time, so this is what I'd do:

1) Find the right place. Look at reviews here, or on RM if you're in one of the more sparsely reviewed areas. For RM, don't join, just find a spot with a good number of reviews. Generally if the blinds are closed, there's a neon sign, and hours are late, you're good.

2) Go there! (This is the hardest part first time.) You don't need an appointment. I'd just walk in.

3) There will be a desk, but no one will be there. If there's a bell, ring it. There's probably a camera pointed right at you. Just stand there and be cool. Someone will show up.

4) They'll ask if you've been there before, even if the place just opened up last week. What they're really asking is "do you know how this works?" Say "yes". It never happens, but if they ask you who you've seen, just say it's been awhile, or that you don't remember.

5) They'll take you to your room and ask for 30min or 60min. Pay in cash. Then she'll leave and tell you to get ready. Get totally undressed, and lie face-down on the table. Don't use the towel. Be totally naked. When she comes back, she won't be weird about this. She'll either cover you up, or usually just start. You don't have to do anything else except this one thing the entire time you're there.

6) DON'T GROPE. I know some guys say to do that, but even at an AMP, these are still women. Grabbing someone without permission is sexual assault. If she showed up and you didn't have the towel/sheet on, she already knows what you're there for. This is her profession, she's not an idiot, and you don't have to assault her to get your hand job. You'll have plenty of time to grab her later, after she gives you permission.

7) Be friendly. Ask her what her name is. Tell her yours. Be nice to her. Make some chit-chat. She might ask you about your job. Tell her about it, and make sure she gets the point that you're not LE and are actually a nice, safe dude that isn't going to cause her any trouble.

8) She'll ask you to flip. If you have a towel on, you can be a little sloppy here so she knows you're comfortable about her taking that towel off later. Otherwise, just turn over. Raging hard-on is totally fine at this point. In fact, you are free to get hard anywhere after point 5. Don't be embarrassed about it.

9) At this point she'll ask you what you want. Generally, your options are: Hand, Mouth, Everything (means FS). Then she'll ask you how much you want to pay (or might just throw a price out there). You are free to negotiate a little. Just be aware that if you try and get a "deal" here, it just means that whatever happens next won't be as good as it would be otherwise. Unless she's totally out of the ballpark with her ask, I'd just give her what she asks. Pay this in cash. Expected tip amounts will vary by region. Be prepared to climb off the bed and get the tip for her. After you pay, she'll leave and come back with some supplies. Then you do your thing.

That's it. They all work the same way.

 

[waistcoat]

Newbie question - For a 60 minute session do they usually allow one pop only or two pops?

 

[Michael_Choo]

Newbie question - For a 60 minute session do they usually allow one pop only or two pops?

I believe it varies depending on the shop and the provider. Just ask when you're texting/booking the session and ask again when you've selected the girl.

 

[Retired030724]

Newbie question - For a 60 minute session do they usually allow one pop only or two pops?

it depends on you. For me, I like a nice long massage with a large amount of teasing and a long ST followed by a slow edging. There is usually not enough time for 2 pops, nor do I think I could do that anymore anyway. I would rather enjoy the journey and get really close for a long time and then have one grand slam.

 

[Smokenchoke]

you go in, hand them your money… have sex with them and leave.

That advice is scientifically perfect! Backed by a thousand years of hoe science!

 

[UncleRicosSon]

Alright, BeachBoy2023, you're all set to go. Now, batter up!

 

[BeachBoy2023]

Alright, BeachBoy2023, you're all set to go. Now, batter up!

Lol you guys are great. Good community. Glad I found this place.

 

[dirkjones]

That advice is scientifically perfect! Backed by a thousand years of hoe science!

I’ve had a great experience from my first time to present… not one of them required any advice off of a message board. It’s pretty self explanatory.

 

[Talonsherman56]

There's good pussy under them wrinkles!

And if you don't want their pussy older providers put extra effort in their HJ and BJs

 

[dirkjones]

And if you don't want their pussy older providers put extra effort in their HJ and BJs

one of my ATF was older, she did everything I could ask and seemed to enjoy it as well. Price was right also, but this was about 15 years ago

 

[regqafds]

Didn't get an age on the OP and the NSA relationship in his post should read No Relationship Whatso-f'ing-ever Period. If you're young and thinking about a particular provider forget it, just don't. Check out a different spot have a fav and a backup or a few favs. Besides, girls might rotate between locations and move around the country. Just don't try and take her out or something silly like that, it's business based on fantasy, keep it that way.

Didn't see what part of the country, big metro or small town, read reviews if available. AMPs are much, much better for you than porn. Tons of studies say porn is bad. Not so much masturbation is bad, but consuming porn = horrible bad and affects your brain and will affect how you deal with real women. Gather some memories and jerk off instead of porn.

Everything else was covered. Be brave walk in with cash, if it's available they will let you know, asking sounds too much like LE.

 

[BeachBoy2023]

Didn't get an age on the OP and the NSA relationship in his post should read No Relationship Whatso-f'ing-ever Period. If you're young and thinking about a particular provider forget it, just don't. Check out a different spot have a fav and a backup or a few favs. Besides, girls might rotate between locations and move around the country. Just don't try and take her out or something silly like that, it's business based on fantasy, keep it that way.

Didn't see what part of the country, big metro or small town, read reviews if available. AMPs are much, much better for you than porn. Tons of studies say porn is bad. Not so much masturbation is bad, but consuming porn = horrible bad and affects your brain and will affect how you deal with real women. Gather some memories and jerk off instead of porn.

Everything else was covered. Be brave walk in with cash, if it's available they will let you know, asking sounds too much like LE.

Agree with you on EVERY point, my friend. Only thing I will point out is that in my OP I said "NSA" meaning exactly as you describe - no relationship whatsoever.

 

[Happy_Ed]

So do you guys have any tips or guides for how this plays out for the first time?

My approach is a Happy Beginning.
I lie on my back, with nothing on. She comes in and smiles. I rub her butt and she smiles, and touches me, and I know we are a go.
Under the pillow, I have some cash stored. I pull it out and we negotiate, agreeing on the service. Then we are both ready for action. I enjoy getting things released first, then mellow out for the massage.
In San Jose area, this works with most places. $50 for HJ, $100 for top up and bottom down and play with her. $200 for FS.
Only once in another city she was not game, and put the towel over me.

 

[thepleaser62]

I would have appreciated an easy-to-follow recipe my first time, so this is what I'd do:

1) Find the right place. Look at reviews here, or on RM if you're in one of the more sparsely reviewed areas. For RM, don't join, just find a spot with a good number of reviews. Generally if the blinds are closed, there's a neon sign, and hours are late, you're good.

2) Go there! (This is the hardest part first time.) You don't need an appointment. I'd just walk in.

3) There will be a desk, but no one will be there. If there's a bell, ring it. There's probably a camera pointed right at you. Just stand there and be cool. Someone will show up.

4) They'll ask if you've been there before, even if the place just opened up last week. What they're really asking is "do you know how this works?" Say "yes". It never happens, but if they ask you who you've seen, just say it's been awhile, or that you don't remember.

5) They'll take you to your room and ask for 30min or 60min. Pay in cash. Then she'll leave and tell you to get ready. Get totally undressed, and lie face-down on the table. Don't use the towel. Be totally naked. When she comes back, she won't be weird about this. She'll either cover you up, or usually just start. You don't have to do anything else except this one thing the entire time you're there.

6) DON'T GROPE. I know some guys say to do that, but even at an AMP, these are still women. Grabbing someone without permission is sexual assault. If she showed up and you didn't have the towel/sheet on, she already knows what you're there for. This is her profession, she's not an idiot, and you don't have to assault her to get your hand job. You'll have plenty of time to grab her later, after she gives you permission.

7) Be friendly. Ask her what her name is. Tell her yours. Be nice to her. Make some chit-chat. She might ask you about your job. Tell her about it, and make sure she gets the point that you're not LE and are actually a nice, safe dude that isn't going to cause her any trouble.

8) She'll ask you to flip. If you have a towel on, you can be a little sloppy here so she knows you're comfortable about her taking that towel off later. Otherwise, just turn over. Raging hard-on is totally fine at this point. In fact, you are free to get hard anywhere after point 5. Don't be embarrassed about it.

9) At this point she'll ask you what you want. Generally, your options are: Hand, Mouth, Everything (means FS). Then she'll ask you how much you want to pay (or might just throw a price out there). You are free to negotiate a little. Just be aware that if you try and get a "deal" here, it just means that whatever happens next won't be as good as it would be otherwise. Unless she's totally out of the ballpark with her ask, I'd just give her what she asks. Pay this in cash. Expected tip amounts will vary by region. Be prepared to climb off the bed and get the tip for her. After you pay, she'll leave and come back with some supplies. Then you do your thing.

That's it. They all work the same way.

Good advice and I pretty much agree but I want to add a little nuance to the don't grope statement. This really applies only to HE only places where things are more ymmv. Consent is important but short of asking "may I grope you", which is a little ridiculous, I would advise a slow progression of touching the girl. While I'm face down and the girl is within reach, usually when she's in the upper thigh region near the boys, meaning she's at tabe side, I graze her on the inner thighs with my hand. If she backs away I back off, if not I try to escalate gradually. If you can read body language at all you can tell whether she's comfortable. Same applies to figuring out the roaming situation after the flip. Start out OTC near but not directly on an erogenous zone and see how she reacts. That's basically asking for consent. If she recoils at any point, stop and don't push it. All these girls have their own limits, depending on what mms allows, on your approach, appearance and cleanliness, and where the girl is sensitive.

Also 100% agree that the TS is a must. Idc if you showered 30 seconds before arriving. The TS gives you hints about how the sesh will go, but more important, it gives the girl comfort that you are clean to HER satisfaction.

 

[Retired030724]

Good advice and I pretty much agree but I want to add a little nuance to the don't grope statement. This really applies only to HE only places where things are more ymmv. Consent is important but short of asking "may I grope you", which is a little ridiculous, I would advise a slow progression of touching the girl. While I'm face down and the girl is within reach, usually when she's in the upper thigh region near the boys, meaning she's at tabe side, I graze her on the inner thighs with my hand. If she backs away I back off, if not I try to escalate gradually. If you can read body language at all you can tell whether she's comfortable. Same applies to figuring out the roaming situation after the flip. Start out OTC near but not directly on an erogenous zone and see how she reacts. That's basically asking for consent. If she recoils at any point, stop and don't push it. All these girls have their own limits, depending on what mms allows, on your approach, appearance and cleanliness, and where the girl is sensitive.

Also 100% agree that the TS is a must. Idc if you showered 30 seconds before arriving. The TS gives you hints about how the sesh will go, but more important, it gives the girl comfort that you are clean to HER satisfaction.

ALWAYS do the TS if they have one. It confirms everything from her and your perspective.

 

[Retired030724]

ALWAYS do the TS if they have one. It confirms everything from her and your perspective. She will see you are willing to accept and make sure you are clean, and you will see how far she will be willing to go. As for the initial "feeling her out", with a provider I have been with before it does not matter, but if I am with someone for the first time I take it slow. If she is by my head on the side and my arms are down I will let them graze there opposite of my palm. If she does not move away right away a few minutes later I will then do the same with my palm and lightly wrap my fingers around her leg. If she does not move away I know we are golden. The next chance I will move my arm up and down her leg. If she is then at my head and climbs on the table I may grab the back of both things with my hands. You need to go slow with any provider you see for the first time.

 

[Pussymonster1985]

ALWAYS do the TS if they have one. It confirms everything from her and your perspective. She will see you are willing to accept and make sure you are clean, and you will see how far she will be willing to go. As for the initial "feeling her out", with a provider I have been with before it does not matter, but if I am with someone for the first time I take it slow. If she is by my head on the side and my arms are down I will let them graze there opposite of my palm. If she does not move away right away a few minutes later I will then do the same with my palm and lightly wrap my fingers around her leg. If she does not move away I know we are golden. The next chance I will move my arm up and down her leg. If she is then at my head and climbs on the table I may grab the back of both things with my hands. You need to go slow with any provider you see for the first time.

Question about the TS. I’m new to this and have only been to the AMP three times. I turned down the shower but was still able to get HJ all times. Is the shower really necessary and would I be getting better service if I did it?

 

[dirkjones]

Question about the TS. I’m new to this and have only been to the AMP three times. I turned down the shower but was still able to get HJ all times. Is the shower really necessary and would I be getting better service if I did it?

if all you want is a HJ then no, it’s not necessary. If you want more, get the shower.

 

[Retired030724]

Question about the TS. I’m new to this and have only been to the AMP three times. I turned down the shower but was still able to get HJ all times. Is the shower really necessary and would I be getting better service if I did it?

omg read what I said. it breaks the ice and will make you and her more comfortable. Plus, if done right, you will get some good teasing and pre-work done there and have your asshole nice and clean. Just do it no matter if you took a shower beforehand or not. Its never a bad idea.