Tips for avoiding obsession?

[Nicksuperlover]

Review your discretionary budget and consider substitutions. AMG lease is about up? Instead of getting another, buy a used one. Go to a bar to watch the NFL, watch at home instead. Strip clubs, never buy a dance and spend at an AMP, I was in a place yesterday and this hot girl is like $200 private room fro 30 min, FS but we’ll have fun. Fuck that, I’ve memorized your face and body and I’ll spend that $ in an AMP. You’ve just freed up a couple Gs a month for a real mongering budget.

 

[dayjon77]

I’m in the same boat I after a recent breakup Ive been dabbling with this and blow which can get somewhat pricy, needless to say I went a bing a few weeks ago an blew 8k in 2 weeks trying to slow down but that itch keeps driving me back

 

[philwhosis]

I’m in the same boat I after a recent breakup Ive been dabbling with this and blow which can get somewhat pricy, needless to say I went a bing a few weeks ago an blew 8k in 2 weeks trying to slow down but that itch keeps driving me back

Damn! 8k in 2 weeks sounds like a daily habit! See above for done “slow down” techniques!

 

[Nicksuperlover]

Damn! 8k in 2 weeks sounds like a daily habit! See above for done “slow down” techniques!

Is that just girls, blow + girls or what?

 

[Jackboner]

I’m in the same boat I after a recent breakup Ive been dabbling with this and blow which can get somewhat pricy, needless to say I went a bing a few weeks ago an blew 8k in 2 weeks trying to slow down but that itch keeps driving me back

Hey man,
Not passing judgment, but $8K in two weeks? Not good....

 

[dayjon77]

Is that just girls, blow + girls or what?

The latter, although 8k of a blow alone sounds outstanding now I think of it

 

[sexmajik]

How do you get it up when you're doing that much blow?

 

[Nicksuperlover]

The latter, although 8k of a blow alone sounds outstanding now I think of it

I understand you’re going through a rough stretch but spa girls are a much healthier addiction than blow. I guarantee you 8k of spa girls gets you over that bitch better than blow.

 

[chase69]

I’m in the same boat I after a recent breakup Ive been dabbling with this and blow which can get somewhat pricy, needless to say I went a bing a few weeks ago an blew 8k in 2 weeks trying to slow down but that itch keeps driving me back

You need to fill your idle time with something. In addition to what was already recommended Dating sites can be fun, time consuming and actually lead somewhere. You can use the same approach if you're not looking for something serrious...use a burner phone, alias, etc. I've not done them in 8 years, but I know I guy that spends every waking moment he's not working, talking to different girls that want to bed him, and he seems to be having a ball. He spends very little. After 1st date, most want to cook for him, romp in the hay, and he is out the door to his significant other in a couple hours. No strings, everyone is happy.

 

[8nitsuj23]

the risk of stds or getting oral herpes has slowed down my spark of interest

but for bin, ill DFK. damn she was good

 

[TUMA_guy_NYC]

Coincidentally while on the topic, I am celebrating 5 years this Saturday (no joke) of being off the white stuff. Was considering treating myself with either Bella or Stacey ... decisions decisions.

 

[philwhosis]

Coincidentally while on the topic, I am celebrating 5 years this Saturday (no joke) of being off the white stuff. Was considering treating myself with either Bella or Stacey ... decisions decisions.

Congrats! There are addictions, and addictions, and that's not one to wish for...

 

[philwhosis]

Dont watch the LPGA and stay off of this forum.

Jesus. I caught some of the LPGA and you're not kidding. I had no idea.

 

[Koujiao]

Jesus. I caught some of the LPGA and you're not kidding. I had no idea.

Fair warning! I tape them all, thank you god for the asian dominance from thailand, china and south korea in the LPGA.

 

[sklien]

Two words, delayed gratification. Learn to enjoy the anticipation, spend time planning and learn how to moderate and defer your urges or you will be sunk. You don't want this to become a curse.

All of the advice offered here by others is good.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

Coincidentally while on the topic, I am celebrating 5 years this Saturday (no joke) of being off the white stuff. Was considering treating myself with either Bella or Stacey ... decisions decisions.

Or with an 8 ball

 

[TUMA_guy_NYC]

Or with an 8 ball

Thankfully, those days are long behind me Nick. Every day use of cocaine will kick your mother fucking ass. I had to learn the hard way.

 

[Jnj041]

It can be very easy to get out of control financially with this hobby.in the beginning I would do two or three full-service sessions a week. I have transitioned into having amp girlfriends. I now have 4 girls that I date outside of the spa. When I say dating I mean no money is exchanged. It's kind of like having a committed relationship but they only come around for a day or two and then they're back to work. No strings attached. The girls are happy to have somewhat of a normalcy in their hectic lives for them few days.they enjoy doing stuff around the house and cooking at home so it's not even a huge expense to have them as a girlfriend. the girls really take care of my needs so now I'm mostly just do rub and tug sessions occasionally. It has really worked well for me but I don't think it is for everybody. You really have to learn how to juggle these relationships. but if you can get it all figured out it's a pretty enjoyable situation .

 

[727]

So last night was my first FS AMP experience in NYC; prior to that i'd been to HJ AMPs, which obviously is a different experience; less intimate, not the same level of personal connection, etc.... I went to AS/PP, saw Smiling, and i'm hooked. Already planning next visits: PH, AL, etc etc... and on and on. The number of gorgeous, available young women in this city seems endless, but my budget - in money and time/focus - is not.

How do you guys keep from thinking about this *all* the time? And spending *all* you have? I mean, self control and moderation, sure, but.. jesus. Just knowing what's out there makes it hard to think about anything else. Like those damn lab mice (rats?) who starved themselves to death bc the only lever they pulled was for cocaine.

You get the idea. Veteran mongers, share your tips for keeping this little vice under control!

Very simple for me, stay off the thread until you saved a few bucks to go again - the driver is usually the stimuli the readings threats

 

[philwhosis]

It can be very easy to get out of control financially with this hobby.in the beginning I would do two or three full-service sessions a week. I have transitioned into having amp girlfriends. I now have 4 girls that I date outside of the spa. When I say dating I mean no money is exchanged. It's kind of like having a committed relationship but they only come around for a day or two and then they're back to work. No strings attached. The girls are happy to have somewhat of a normalcy in their hectic lives for them few days.they enjoy doing stuff around the house and cooking at home so it's not even a huge expense to have them as a girlfriend. the girls really take care of my needs so now I'm mostly just do rub and tug sessions occasionally. It has really worked well for me but I don't think it is for everybody. You really have to learn how to juggle these relationships. but if you can get it all figured out it's a pretty enjoyable situation .

Wow, living the (a?) dream! Curious how the transition form paying customer to "come stay at my house for a few days" progressed...? I imagine trust built, then dates, then a natural progression..? Does this relationship with them give you any insight into how they view their clients/lives, etc...? Curious to hear...