What are we doing this for??????

[Bricktop]

Speaking for myself it's just the variety and the flavors at your disposal. Im preparing for a full retirement in a few weeks so I was only in this for a few months. I'm not into caucasian women in my personal life and I've only seen three caucasian women doing within this, all three were independent before I started this hobby. In my personal life I've dated (no intimacy)very briefly only two caucasian women and that was a lifetime ago. So only in this area I would would actually see a caucasian woman, never in a relationship or a one nighter. Last month I had an itch to see a PAWG but never went forward with it.

Last encounter outside of this (personal life) was a one nighter and a half in Aruba with two locals. One was an actual one nighter while the other was a CBJ. Not much effort when your away on a vacation outside NYC. in reality I rather enjoy my drink and the music rather than look to hook up with women.

I have zero issues going on dates or getting women. Most men are just not good at attracting women or even getting a simple date. So most of them resort to this hobby to fill that void but in reality it's doing more harm than good when they STILL lack physical appearance and good *personality* to attract women. This is why you have sexually frustrated guys (incels) shooting up the place. I saw a Vice video and all of those guys are just boring as fuck, have no interest (hobbies) and are negative. I'm a man and I wouldn't be near any incel if you paid me too.

I bumped into two mongers recently both were overweight and I can imagine they types of dudes these women see consistently. All the independent providers I've seen outside this hobby told me the ratio of unattractive men they see is way high than the attractive ones.

TLR : i do this for the variety of women I wouldn't want to fuck or do want to fuck in my personal life. Guys also do it for the same but a large majority do it because they can't get laid or get a simple date, so this filled up that void.

Flavor of the week is...........

 

[NYCGuy72]

I didn't start this hobby until my 40s. I was with the SO for 20 years and the sex just stopped. It may have actually saved the marriage. She has no interest in sex so I get what I need here and life goes on...

 

[Brokenmatt]

Yeah she is very pretty.
Honestly, since KD shut down, really no place left for a girl like that in Manhattan.
Where is she gonna go? Pink31? She'll make less $$$.

As/PP is a professionally run establishment who treats the clients with respect. I have never been to KD, because every time I attempted they seemed to be on the run or completely shutdown. I went to Paris by night a few years ago and it was a complete shit show. Asian women who spoke way to much English for their own good, incall location next to a frat house and a male MMS who acted more like a bitch then any of his ladies. Good provider means better agency and that equals more money

 

[tobonkornot]

So I started this hobby after a fight with my previous partner because I was that asshole. After that I just kept going every few weeks or so, usually trying a new girl or re-seeing someone if they were particularly hot or a rare flavor (the AMP latina, so hard to find). After breaking up with that partner a year later or so, I thought I would be walking into AMPs every day to nut in a new girl, but it just felt kind of pointless/empty. Kind of like alluding to what jdub42 said - I felt like I had to focus on aggressively improving myself when I was single rather than just be blissfully ignorant and surround myself with paid (but phenomenal) pussy and bought (but bouncy) boobs.

So yeah I only saw like 3 girls during that period of singlehood that last for about as many months. Now with my current partner I still do it about once every 2-4 weeks just out of a desire for variety and the fact that I have a bigger sex drive. I do feel like this takes away some of the tension/edge that might exist from not having sex often enough, but it's entirely possible that masturbating is enough to make up for it and we're all just making excuses for the fact that we want to stick our dick in these sexpots and have the illusion of leaving behind a larger reproductive legacy even though the important deed is covered. Shit, why else do I always prefer loading up in the bag rather than BBBJCIM when the latter feels just as good if not better.

 

[Bricktop]

I didn't start this hobby until my 40s. I was with the SO for 20 years and the sex just stopped. It may have actually saved the marriage. She has no interest in sex so I get what I need here and life goes on...

For sure. If a young man is into this something isn’t right.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

As/PP is a professionally run establishment who treats the clients with respect. I have never been to KD, because every time I attempted they seemed to be on the run or completely shutdown. I went to Paris by night a few years ago and it was a complete shit show. Asian women who spoke way to much English for their own good, incall location next to a frat house and a male MMS who acted more like a bitch then any of his ladies. Good provider means better agency and that equals more money

Have you seen a Korean at AS/PP? I suppose there may have been, but I do not recall any. Dream Girls did have one a while ago.

 

[Brokenmatt]

Have you seen a Korean at AS/PP? I suppose there may have been, but I do not recall any. Dream Girls did have one a while ago.

Dream girls...that’s the reason why KMP will never be like it was in the city

 

[Brokenmatt]

For sure. If a young man is into this something isn’t right.

Why???? A man in his 20’s will be way more successful in life if he starts the hobby now instead of later.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Why???? A man in his 20’s will be way more successful in life if he starts the hobby now instead of later.

I started at 20.
There are pluses and minuses.

 

[Bricktop]

Why???? A man in his 20’s will be way more successful in life if he starts the hobby now instead of later.

You’re kidding right? When you’re young and single you can teach them all kinds of tricks. Free agent call the shots.

 

[Bricktop]

I started at 20.
There are pluses and minuses.

Sad. You miss out on sooo much. Intimacy trust love.

 

[Bricktop]

The excitement was always secondary to me. The physical relief is by far most important. I despise wacking off and banging 4s for free is out of the question. So I will do this here thing till I die.

What’s wrong with wacking off?saves me a ton of cash

 

[AutomaticSlim]

What’s wrong with wacking off?saves me a ton of cash

Hate it.
Had to do it as a teen.
Felt like a defeat every time.
I'd rather spend my money.

 

[Btk]

IDK
When I was 20,between work,dance clubs,strip clubs and just walking down the street.I was pulling bitches at will.Living life,those we’re some real fun times.So many stories to tell,know that was fucking fun,literally.Now,not so much.My recommendation to a 20 year old would be the same that I would give to my 20 something year old son.I wouldn’t encourage this hobby to him,quite the opposite.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Sad. You miss out on sooo much. Intimacy trust love.

And for the first 10 years it was only with streetwalkers, who treated me substantially less than human. Absolutely developed my perception of females in this time. I should have started with AMPs, but really didn't know about them way back then.

 

[Brokenmatt]

You’re kidding right? When you’re young and single you can teach them all kinds of tricks. Free agent call the shots.

When your young and single...women aren’t the priority, money and building your empire is. That’s the problem with the youth these days, their so interested in getting wifed up they forget the more important things in life. Intimacy, trust, love how about money greed and capitalism

 

[Bricktop]

When your young and single...women aren’t the priority, money and building your empire is. That’s the problem with the youth these days, their so interested in getting wifed up they forget the more important things in life. Intimacy, trust, love how about money greed and capitalism

That’s an empty life.

 

[Bricktop]

And for the first 10 years it was only with streetwalkers, who treated me substantially less than human. Absolutely developed my perception of females in this time. I should have started with AMPs, but really didn't know about them way back then.

True SW are full of problems.

 

[Hypothetically]

I bumped into two mongers recently both were overweight and I can imagine they types of dudes these women see consistently. All the independent providers I've seen outside this hobby told me the ratio of unattractive men they see is way high than the attractive ones.

TLR : i do this for the variety of women I wouldn't want to fuck or do want to fuck in my personal life. Guys also do it for the same but a large majority do it because they can't get laid or get a simple date, so this filled up that void.

Interesting. I've never (knowingly) seen other mongers nor spoken to providers about them, but I would have thought that a majority of mongers in Manhattan who regularly spend $300+ (and especially those who regularly spend $500+) on sessions are reasonably well-off, well educated, and make an effort to stay physically fit and look decent (even if most are not attractive per se, which is true of the population as a whole). But I could be wrong.

 

[Velociraptor]

I'm pretty sure all of us are somewhere along the mental health spectrum, be it bipolar, or schizo or depressed... Pretty sure we all fall somewhere in the mix. Or some adult corrupted us (sexually) in our toddler thru preteen years.