I don't go with the intention speaking about other mongers. It just comes up with the two independents I saw years ago and one of them discussed it on a radio show. The amount of attractive mongers she meet is low compared to the attractive ones lol. Either way unattractive and attractive men meet these women. It is what it is.
I have no idea how other mongers are in terms of finance, education and fitness. I've bumped into two awkwardly by accident. One looked like The Brooklyn Brawler with a pot belly and man breast. The second was overweight with jean shorts and possibly lives in his parents (adult) basement. I'm just matching what the two high end providers told me years ago to what I'm seeing now lol.
Money will draw women in but you can still be boring as fuck and unattractive. I mean, you have money but the personality of a wallpaper isn't going to last long unless your with a gold digger. As long as the monger is ok that he is successful with the opposite sex because of his finances nobody should lose sleep over it. I'm not a ladies man but I make sure I'm confident in myself, smell good, be interesting and funny. This should be enough to go on first dates or form close relationships. Money and that stuff will help, but it varies by women.I just stay in good shape for me, it was never about attracting women at all. But I've notice ever since i started to work out I've gotten more attention. Its a stepping stone but it's not the throne.