Why not try on civi girls?

[smatera]

Shouldn’t guys at least TRY to make themselves more physically and mentally and socially more appealing, in order to try to get real life women?

But who am I to judge? I did what I thought was best for me, and worked it to my advantage. Everyone has to handle their own personal business

Providers are real life women too. Lol. And i say women.. plural.. meaning i can hang with many different ones and enjoy the diversity God has provided us. God made Taylor and Sienna and Angela etc for a reason. Don’t disappoint our Lord and saviour by neglecting the diverse beauty. All God asks from us is that we are nice to them and tip them well so they can send money back to their homelands and provide for their hungry families. Thank you and God bless all mongers.

 

[Sidneyfalco]

Providers are real life women too. Lol. And i say women.. plural.. meaning i can hang with many different ones and enjoy the diversity God has provided us. God made Taylor and Sienna and Angela etc for a reason. Don’t disappoint our Lord and saviour by neglecting the diverse beauty. All God asks from us is that we are nice to them and tip them well so they can send money back to their homelands and provide for their hungry families. Thank you and God bless all mongers.

They are “real “, and I certainly agree with and understand the desire for diversity . That I’m not going to judge…I’ve had amazing experiences with “pay for play “.
But a woman choosing to give up the choch to you because she finds you attractive or funny or appealing or nice or because you have a big dick - that’s just so much sweeter, at least to me.

As I said, it’s better to have been desired and loved by a woman because of something besides the content of your wallet than to have never been desired or loved ( or even appreciated) at all ….

 

[Sintax]

Love this topic. Look, if someone is honest with himself, or gets an honest woman he knows to rate him, he will usually find he is like 2 levels lower than he thinks. But, for most dudes these days, younger guys especially, their confidence level is like a 1 out of ten, and that brings the overall rating down all the levels. Some gents here have met me IRL, and can vouch that I'm not a 10 or maybe even a 7, but I'm in shape, look very young for my age, and I shoot confidence from every pore. You guys talking about shooting your shot, man I'm like a machine gun, I shoot my shot all the time. Grandfather used to say that if you cast one line, you may eat fish today, or no, but if you cast 100000 lines, you will never be hungry a day in your life.

But for the hungriest of us, there are two things about civvies:

1. They are not on demand. Ok, those of us alphas that are the most confident and outgoing dude in the place every place, we can get a chick within half hour of being in any place including grocery store. But in reality, I might be sitting at home playing a video game or writing paper and decide I want to cum in a stranger's mouth. For a small fee I can go to my choice of eight shops within 20 minutes of my home and get exactly this. And then go right back to my video game, which I may have left on pause.

2. They want extra shit. So last week end I was down Atlantic City, my father had some surgery and I was visiting him in hospital and staying at his home. I chatted up one of the nurses Friday and Saturday, and as I was leaving, she gave me her number. Ok, fine, she was cute and had like this mombod I enjoy, but I know she's a civvie. Sure I will call her, and sure I will take her out and try to DATYO her. Because that's what I do. But she, she will sooner or later try to make me watch some horseshit on Netflix with I don't know Meg Ryan or something, and she might suggest that I would totally enjoy going to the local apple farm to pick apples or visit a lamp store. Why the fuck would I want to do any of this? I have a wife who I don't do those things with unless is necessary for some reason I can't think of now.

I know some dudes here, like me, we enjoy the hunt over the kill, but sometimes you need the kill, and you need it right this second. And, you don't need the extra.

If you're going for civvies though, for sure get your confidence up gents. Girls, I find in almost any age, they look for dudes who will listen to them talk about themselves and the bitch at her work, and they like men who have job and home and car and give a fsck about how do they look even if they're ugly dudes.

Meg Ryan and apple picking. LOL

 

[Sintax]

You reminded me of something.
A few years ago my mother (she's dead over 6 years) was in the hospital, so I went to visit her. When I was leaving a nurse held the elevator door for me.
She was all smiles, asking me which floor I wanted. She kept looking at me, smiling, and made some small talk. Outwardly at least, she was what most guys would describe as having pleasant, pleasing, feminine attitude. She was probably early forties, had a decent enough face for her age (kind of like Belinda Carlyle face) and was probably rather pretty in her 20s, but she was absolutely a mom-bod type. And all I could think to myself was "why is this fat middle aged woman talking to me???".

Yeah, I'm a very shallow bastard.
Like you, I too look younger than my age and keep myself fit and trim.
Doesn't matter.
I want under 29 (preferably under 25), thin, petite and pretty. Only.
Not happening with civvies at my age.
So I see no point to "game".
For young guys under 30, it may be good advice.
But for us old mongers...there is no point unless one is OK with the mom-bods.

Now you reminded me of something. I get these “hey babe” looks sometimes from women in their 40’s and 50’s with mom bods and I find myself a little like “eww, gross”, like I’m out of their league. Then I remember I’m 60 and these women are 10-15 years younger than me! That’s fucked up. It’s kind of the same look I get from 20 something civvies when I stare at them.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

like “eww, gross”, like I’m out of their league. Then I remember I’m 60 and these women are 10-15 years younger than me!

Nah, it's not f'ed up. I think the same way. We are out of their league. Always remember that.

It’s kind of the same look I get from 20 something civvies when I stare at them.

I stare at the hot ones too.
Especially when walking to and from my office and when going to lunch.
It makes them noticeably uncomfortable, as they usually turn away. And I have to say...I kinda like it.
Mind you I don't "cat-call" or make rude comments or harass them in any way, just a quick stare that lasts maybe 2 or 3 seconds.
So as I see it, it's just some harmless fun for me.

 

[Sintax]

Nah, it's not f'ed up. I think the same way. We are out of their league. Always remember that.



I stare at the hot ones too.
Especially when walking to and from my office and when going to lunch.
It makes them noticeably uncomfortable, as they usually turn away. And I have to say...I kinda like it.
Mind you I don't "cat-call" or make rude comments or harass them in any way, just a quick stare that lasts maybe 2 or 3 seconds.
So as I see it, it's just some harmless fun for me.

I like to give them that look that says “you don’t know what I know”.

 

[markkennedy]

Belinda Carlyle face.

Oh yes. Will give her HF and tip then take her out to the drive in. Get up in those Lane Bryant stretch pants!

 

[markkennedy]

They are “real “, and I certainly agree with and understand the desire for diversity . That I’m not going to judge…I’ve had amazing experiences with “pay for play “.
But a woman choosing to give up the choch to you because she finds you attractive or funny or appealing or nice or because you have a big dick - that’s just so much sweeter, at least to me.

As I said, it’s better to have been desired and loved by a woman because of something besides the content of your wallet than to have never been desired or loved ( or even appreciated) at all ….

Ah, but for some hunters, we appreciate getting girls who normally only jerk everyone off to blow us too or let us sleep over and fuck them in the morning before the other "I like to be first of the day" mongers even get up. That's the game. When a lady who sees a hundred dicks a month asks you to sleep over because she wants YOU, well, that's like a deer coming to your yard, learning english, then demanding that you shoot him right in the heart. Completely rare but when it happens, you can wear the crown. But unlike seducing a civvie, she won't be calling you and asking for Valentine's prizes or which Friends episode is your favorite.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I like to give them that look that says “you don’t know what I know”.

I just flash 'em the "Manson Lamps".

 

[이 회장님]

Here in NJ, why do all these young girls at the supermarket, restaurant and other places call me “Sir”?!? Many of you have met me. Do I look like a sir? Or maybe the girls in this area are just very polite and respectful. lol

 

[massiveloads]

Here in NJ, why do all these young girls at the supermarket, restaurant and other places call me “Sir”?!? Many of you have met me. Do I look like a sir? Or maybe the girls in this area are just very polite and respectful. lol

It's probably how you are dressed, clean well kept fitting clothes. unless you look really old which im going to say no since most Asians look young(I'm assuming you are.)
Would you prefer "brah" instead?

 

[acheron72]

Ah, but for some hunters, we appreciate getting girls who normally only jerk everyone off to blow us too or let us sleep over and fuck them in the morning before the other "I like to be first of the day" mongers even get up. That's the game. When a lady who sees a hundred dicks a month asks you to sleep over because she wants YOU, well, that's like a deer coming to your yard, learning english, then demanding that you shoot him right in the heart. Completely rare but when it happens, you can wear the crown. But unlike seducing a civvie, she won't be calling you and asking for Valentine's prizes or which Friends episode is your favorite.

About 21 years ago, I had the happenstance of being a provider's side piece while I was in NY for college summer classes. Pretty HK lady from Ivy Spa. Would go to Flushing for yum cha or to hang out or whatever, and then back to her place. She'd pay for everything when we were out, and introduce me to her provider friends (some of whom I'd bang on the down low). Then, summer ended and I was back to college on the other side of the continent. College girls never looked the same after that. In retrospect, I was a cheap whore - but boy was that an educational summer!

 

[이 회장님]

It's probably how you are dressed, clean well kept fitting clothes. unless you look really old which im going to say no since most Asians look young(I'm assuming you are.)
Would you prefer "brah" instead?

You’re right—“Sir” over “Brah”.

 

[이 회장님]

About 21 years ago, I had the happenstance of being a provider's side piece while I was in NY for college summer classes. Pretty HK lady from Ivy Spa. Would go to Flushing for yum cha or to hang out or whatever, and then back to her place. She'd pay for everything when we were out, and introduce me to her provider friends (some of whom I'd bang on the down low). Then, summer ended and I was back to college on the other side of the continent. College girls never looked the same after that. In retrospect, I was a cheap whore - but boy was that an educational summer!

Summer classes during the day and Summer internship at night.

 

[Sidneyfalco]

Ah, but for some hunters, we appreciate getting girls who normally only jerk everyone off to blow us too or let us sleep over and fuck them in the morning before the other "I like to be first of the day" mongers even get up. That's the game. When a lady who sees a hundred dicks a month asks you to sleep over because she wants YOU, well, that's like a deer coming to your yard, learning english, then demanding that you shoot him right in the heart. Completely rare but when it happens, you can wear the crown. But unlike seducing a civvie, she won't be calling you and asking for Valentine's prizes or which Friends episode is your favorite.

Hell, I was banging strippers and lap dancers from the Harmony Burlesk back in the day (One was a legit porno star). All for free. The girls appreciated that I was young and clean and treated them very respectfully, unlike a lot of the other clientele who came across as either incels or potential stalkers and degenerates. Those were the days!
That was my side action in addition to my “regular “ life

 

[Skeeter]

Hell, I was banging strippers and lap dancers from the Harmony Burlesk back in the day (One was a legit porno star). All for free. The girls appreciated that I was young and clean and treated them very respectfully, unlike a lot of the other clientele who came across as either incels or potential stalkers and degenerates. Those were the days!
That was my side action in addition to my “regular “ life

Harmony was the best! They just reopened, but it will never be anything close to what it was.

 

[Whizzard]

I can pull civvies (and do) if I want to, but it is time and work (and then you need to talk to them after) like others have said. I’ve come to realize I monger for more than one reason. One of the reasons is I like variety and convenience.
I sometimes think of mongering like being hungry and wanting fast food quickly. I can get any type I choose with minimal hassle. When my small head is hungry, I know I can hop in my car and within 15-30 minutes, be balls deep with a lovely little honey (of my choosing) finish up and leave. Ain’t America great!?

 

[Alw989]

I do both. I’m on the younger end of the age spectrum and decent in looks/game/etc. As the risk of sounding like an ass, I can relatively consistently pull civies w/7-8’s in looks, often at the same level of providers, if not better. And their personality/language/etc is better for me, personally. For all the reasons beyond sex, I prefer civies.

The bigger reason I find it hard to break the hobby is the level of service. Yes, with youth, confidence and even mediocre looks it’s easy to pull a 7-8. What’s not easy is identifying and pulling a 24-29 y/o who will stick her tongue halfway up your ass, self-facefuck, and give you a massage between every shot, the same night you meet her.

 

[Sidneyfalco]

Harmony was the best! They just reopened, but it will never be anything close to what it was.

Reopened ? I never heard of such a thing happening. I don’t think it is the original place reincarnated
What info do you have?

 

[Skeeter]

Reopened ? I never heard of such a thing happening. I don’t think it is the original place reincarnated
What info do you have?

It's on slinky's site. Same owner, its around 22nd st
Just started last month, don't know if it will take off...
doesn't seem anything like it was, but hoping...

THE HARMONY IS BACK
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