Why not try on civi girls?

[Suck-I-Tuna]

I feel like this is a grass is greener type of situation…I have been in a LT relationship living with someone for 10 years (not married), but when I was single roughly 10 years ago I was heavy on the dating apps like Match, Plenty of Fish and OKCupid…I had a great profile, professional head shots from a friend of mine and a had the profile written by a professional as well, lolz…I was able to pull a lot of dates, that was not an issue for me, the problem was finding the girl that I was really interested in and excited about…I went on so many date maybe a 100 or so, sometimes 3-4 a day, coffee, drinks, drinks, etc…I would line them up like job interviews, lolz

The problem is most girls I went on dates with did not excite me in person...and the few I liked didn’t like me back…There was no “Chemistry”...There many I could have fucked but that would have required multiple dates, and I didn’t want to put in that effort for a girl that didn’t excite me. A lot of girls will ask on 1st/2nd date what your intentions are and if you are honest that you just want “fun” its usually game over as a majority of them looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage…I know some guys play along for a few dates just to bust a nut and then ghost a girl…But if she was a nice girl, I didn’t want to dick her offer like that so if I was not that excited to hang with ever I would just cut it off after a 1st/2nd date….So I ended up just going on dates continuously, it was an endless game of musical chairs, it got tiring after awhile, like going on 100 interviews and not getting the job, lolz…That was 10 years ago, I can’t imagine the shit show of what dating in NYC is these days with Tinder, Hinge etc, I imagine it harder now than it was with the dating apps becoming more mainstream and everyone using it…

 

[tigreemodela]

I feel like this is a grass is greener type of situation…I have been in a LT relationship living with someone for 10 years (not married), but when I was single roughly 10 years ago I was heavy on the dating apps like Match, Plenty of Fish and OKCupid…I had a great profile, professional head shots from a friend of mine and a had the profile written by a professional as well, lolz…I was able to pull a lot of dates, that was not an issue for me, the problem was finding the girl that I was really interested in and excited about…I went on so many date maybe a 100 or so, sometimes 3-4 a day, coffee, drinks, drinks, etc…I would line them up like job interviews, lolz

The problem is most girls I went on dates with did not excite me in person...and the few I liked didn’t like me back…There was no “Chemistry”...There many I could have fucked but that would have required multiple dates, and I didn’t want to put in that effort for a girl that didn’t excite me. A lot of girls will ask on 1st/2nd date what your intentions are and if you are honest that you just want “fun” its usually game over as a majority of them looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage…I know some guys play along for a few dates just to bust a nut and then ghost a girl…But if she was a nice girl, I didn’t want to dick her offer like that so if I was not that excited to hang with ever I would just cut it off after a 1st/2nd date….So I ended up just going on dates continuously, it was an endless game of musical chairs, it got tiring after awhile, like going on 100 interviews and not getting the job, lolz…That was 10 years ago, I can’t imagine the shit show of what dating in NYC is these days with Tinder, Hinge etc, I imagine it harder now than it was with the dating apps becoming more mainstream and everyone using it…

The dating apps are pretty weird these days. Not that I was ever that into them, but the state of them I found to be "easier" pre-pandemic (circa 2016 / 2017). Consistent paywall to still get very few matches that tend to lead nowhere lol. I muuuuch prefer Seeking.

 

[Sidneyfalco]

It's on slinky's site. Same owner, its around 22nd st
Just started last month, don't know if it will take off...
doesn't seem anything like it was, but hoping...

THE HARMONY IS BACK
Contact Dominique 631-745-7799
http://www.harmonytheatreburlesque.com/

Wow ! That’s really interesting….
That was their last location from like 1990 to 1998 when that bastard Rudy had it shut down (on the First Floor- which is now some sort of hangout for taxi drivers). I believe that Dominique owns the building

 

[Skeeter]

Wow ! That’s really interesting….
That was their last location from like 1990 to 1998 when that bastard Rudy had it shut down (on the First Floor- which is now some sort of hangout for taxi drivers). I believe that Dominique owns the building

I used to go to the one below canal, on Church and Walker St? Freaking awesome, open from noon till night... remember when that freak Rudy closed it too, and saw that sticker on the door...
And I had just gotten a job like 3 blocks away...

So many girls 'working their way thru college'...

Don't think you could ever create that same atmosphere that place had again. Especially on a Friday night.

 

[Starcraft09]

If you are married where are you bedding these civi girls ?

Through friends, road trips, work travels. Always wearing my ring and being honest about being married. So they know what’s on the table. “I can fuck you while I’m here but don’t get attached”

 

[Supremeangel]

If your married then its best to hobby you have discreetness and choices of having 9’s and 10’s . A man should always stirive to have quality and living in divine light seeing himself as a king. Unfortunately we live in a society where polygamy and bigamy is illegal so a man must find a way to have a harem without the drama therfore, its best to pay to play I would never recommend civi woman unless your willing to expose yourself ? You will always be at their mercy! Theres pros and cons to having civis compared to hobbying it all depends on your situation if your married or single ?

 

[richardp2918]

Here in NJ, why do all these young girls at the supermarket, restaurant and other places call me “Sir”?!? Many of you have met me. Do I look like a sir? Or maybe the girls in this area are just very polite and respectful. lol

I knew it was over for me with college girls when they were polite and respectful towards me as in their mind I wasn't even a threat. Very deflating...I long for the days when college girls were bitchy and standoffish.

 

[richardp2918]

You’re right—“Sir” over “Brah”.

I'd prefer brah. When young girls occasionally call me "dude" or talk to me like a peer, I get really turned on.

 

[richardp2918]

Love this topic. Look, if someone is honest with himself, or gets an honest woman he knows to rate him, he will usually find he is like 2 levels lower than he thinks. But, for most dudes these days, younger guys especially, their confidence level is like a 1 out of ten, and that brings the overall rating down all the levels. Some gents here have met me IRL, and can vouch that I'm not a 10 or maybe even a 7, but I'm in shape, look very young for my age, and I shoot confidence from every pore. You guys talking about shooting your shot, man I'm like a machine gun, I shoot my shot all the time. Grandfather used to say that if you cast one line, you may eat fish today, or no, but if you cast 100000 lines, you will never be hungry a day in your life.

But for the hungriest of us, there are two things about civvies:

1. They are not on demand. Ok, those of us alphas that are the most confident and outgoing dude in the place every place, we can get a chick within half hour of being in any place including grocery store. But in reality, I might be sitting at home playing a video game or writing paper and decide I want to cum in a stranger's mouth. For a small fee I can go to my choice of eight shops within 20 minutes of my home and get exactly this. And then go right back to my video game, which I may have left on pause.

2. They want extra shit. So last week end I was down Atlantic City, my father had some surgery and I was visiting him in hospital and staying at his home. I chatted up one of the nurses Friday and Saturday, and as I was leaving, she gave me her number. Ok, fine, she was cute and had like this mombod I enjoy, but I know she's a civvie. Sure I will call her, and sure I will take her out and try to DATYO her. Because that's what I do. But she, she will sooner or later try to make me watch some horseshit on Netflix with I don't know Meg Ryan or something, and she might suggest that I would totally enjoy going to the local apple farm to pick apples or visit a lamp store. Why the fuck would I want to do any of this? I have a wife who I don't do those things with unless is necessary for some reason I can't think of now.

I know some dudes here, like me, we enjoy the hunt over the kill, but sometimes you need the kill, and you need it right this second. And, you don't need the extra.

If you're going for civvies though, for sure get your confidence up gents. Girls, I find in almost any age, they look for dudes who will listen to them talk about themselves and the bitch at her work, and they like men who have job and home and car and give a fsck about how do they look even if they're ugly dudes.

I definitely enjoy the hunt more than the kill. I feel alive when I can get numbers and girls are very interested. I do pretty well with civvies, but I've never experienced anything like banging civvies on demand within half an hour of going somewhere. I can get numbers easily enough anywhere if I hit on enough girls, but it's the very rare Brad Pitt or Leo type of guys that can just close on demand.

I just read a story that Robert Redford lost the role for Benjamin in The Graduate because the director (Nichols) didn't think he had any experience getting shot down by girls. Redford was making his case and Nichols asked, have you ever been turned down by a girl? And Redford looked at him confused and asked "what do you mean?" to which Nichols said "exactly". Some guys live in a different universe than the rest of us.

The biggest problem with civvies is definitely the added pressure and responsibilities. A lot of time sink and the inevitable painful breakup talk. It's brutal. On the upside, a lot of girls these days, especially in NY, seem to be fine with just hooking up casually.

 

[jfox987]

good thread

 

[Raypapi]

Love this topic. Look, if someone is honest with himself, or gets an honest woman he knows to rate him, he will usually find he is like 2 levels lower than he thinks. But, for most dudes these days, younger guys especially, their confidence level is like a 1 out of ten, and that brings the overall rating down all the levels. Some gents here have met me IRL, and can vouch that I'm not a 10 or maybe even a 7, but I'm in shape, look very young for my age, and I shoot confidence from every pore. You guys talking about shooting your shot, man I'm like a machine gun, I shoot my shot all the time. Grandfather used to say that if you cast one line, you may eat fish today, or no, but if you cast 100000 lines, you will never be hungry a day in your life.

But for the hungriest of us, there are two things about civvies:

1. They are not on demand. Ok, those of us alphas that are the most confident and outgoing dude in the place every place, we can get a chick within half hour of being in any place including grocery store. But in reality, I might be sitting at home playing a video game or writing paper and decide I want to cum in a stranger's mouth. For a small fee I can go to my choice of eight shops within 20 minutes of my home and get exactly this. And then go right back to my video game, which I may have left on pause.

2. They want extra shit. So last week end I was down Atlantic City, my father had some surgery and I was visiting him in hospital and staying at his home. I chatted up one of the nurses Friday and Saturday, and as I was leaving, she gave me her number. Ok, fine, she was cute and had like this mombod I enjoy, but I know she's a civvie. Sure I will call her, and sure I will take her out and try to DATYO her. Because that's what I do. But she, she will sooner or later try to make me watch some horseshit on Netflix with I don't know Meg Ryan or something, and she might suggest that I would totally enjoy going to the local apple farm to pick apples or visit a lamp store. Why the fuck would I want to do any of this? I have a wife who I don't do those things with unless is necessary for some reason I can't think of now.

I know some dudes here, like me, we enjoy the hunt over the kill, but sometimes you need the kill, and you need it right this second. And, you don't need the extra.

If you're going for civvies though, for sure get your confidence up gents. Girls, I find in almost any age, they look for dudes who will listen to them talk about themselves and the bitch at her work, and they like men who have job and home and car and give a fsck about how do they look even if they're ugly dudes.

I can vouch for this 100%!!! Confidence is everything. I’ve pulled a pornstar in Vegas off that alone and didn’t have to pay for it. I’m sure she was attracted to me but my confidence and gift of gab definitely helped me. Game is something that we men need to learn as soon as we can. Understanding female nature is the key!!!

 

[mayfair2]

If I can pull civvie girls that I will be proud to fuck… I wouldn’t be on this board checking to see who’s hot and paid to fuck…

Damn I re-affirmed this again. lol

 

[Sidneyfalco]

It's on slinky's site. Same owner, its around 22nd st
Just started last month, don't know if it will take off...
doesn't seem anything like it was, but hoping...

THE HARMONY IS BACK
Contact Dominique 631-745-7799
http://www.harmonytheatreburlesque.com/

Ok, so I tried it out a few weeks ago on a Friday night. They were supposed to open at 9:30 but actually didn’t open until 10:30 that night. It’s upstairs from the old W22nd Street location. Looks like it might have been a massage place at some point, with small rooms and even a table massage table. There were 2 girls there when I arrived (I was the only guy there). One girl was a redhead with glasses who had a banging body- I had a couple of lap dances with her in the main area. She mentioned that the small rooms cost a lot more (and didn’t mention if anything extra was available in there- so I passed). The other girl was the proprietor, a very cute blonde who is also the daughter of the old owner! She generally doesn’t do lap dancing, but I was able to talk her into doing it anyway. Then another girl showed up, but she said she didn’t do any lap dances outside of the private rooms and I wasn’t going to pay what she was asking.

It was an interesting experience, but I’m not sure if I would ever return as it is. It was a little weird being the only guy there. I spent a lot of time there talking to the owner about the old days at the place, going back to when they were in Times Square back in the 80s. (When I first started about half of the dancers would lay on the stage and let guys eat them out. A good looking girl would literally have a line of guys waiting to DATY with them ! Crazy days…). Also it was opening way too late. I told the owner that there used to be a few lap dance or fetish parties that started at 6 or 7 - better times for guys who can’t be out in all hours of the night. And those parties had a full slate of ladies available at the start of the night. The old Harmony Burlesk was always open from noon to midnight. So let’s see how it goes

 

[Adventuring2021]

A smart, mature and beautiful escort once told me, "Our job is not easy. We get paid to not call you."

I think that's my thing. Civ girls are always going to make trouble. It isn't that we "can't" get the poontang. It's that I enjoya variety, and certain privacy and protections.

 

[Mongeringfan]

This is a dumb thread, I hate fucking prostitutes. Unfortunately I can't pull regular girls. Best I can do is friendzone. I acknowledge that there are things about myself that I need to fix. For one, If I lost 50-100lbs I'd probably attract more women. I also need to dress better which is something I've been working on. Just waiting on my Ozempic

 

[smatera]

Try spending almost every saturday at

Love this topic. Look, if someone is honest with himself, or gets an honest woman he knows to rate him, he will usually find he is like 2 levels lower than he thinks. But, for most dudes these days, younger guys especially, their confidence level is like a 1 out of ten, and that brings the overall rating down all the levels. Some gents here have met me IRL, and can vouch that I'm not a 10 or maybe even a 7, but I'm in shape, look very young for my age, and I shoot confidence from every pore. You guys talking about shooting your shot, man I'm like a machine gun, I shoot my shot all the time. Grandfather used to say that if you cast one line, you may eat fish today, or no, but if you cast 100000 lines, you will never be hungry a day in your life.

But for the hungriest of us, there are two things about civvies:

1. They are not on demand. Ok, those of us alphas that are the most confident and outgoing dude in the place every place, we can get a chick within half hour of being in any place including grocery store. But in reality, I might be sitting at home playing a video game or writing paper and decide I want to cum in a stranger's mouth. For a small fee I can go to my choice of eight shops within 20 minutes of my home and get exactly this. And then go right back to my video game, which I may have left on pause.

2. They want extra shit. So last week end I was down Atlantic City, my father had some surgery and I was visiting him in hospital and staying at his home. I chatted up one of the nurses Friday and Saturday, and as I was leaving, she gave me her number. Ok, fine, she was cute and had like this mombod I enjoy, but I know she's a civvie. Sure I will call her, and sure I will take her out and try to DATYO her. Because that's what I do. But she, she will sooner or later try to make me watch some horseshit on Netflix with I don't know Meg Ryan or something, and she might suggest that I would totally enjoy going to the local apple farm to pick apples or visit a lamp store. Why the fuck would I want to do any of this? I have a wife who I don't do those things with unless is necessary for some reason I can't think of now.

I know some dudes here, like me, we enjoy the hunt over the kill, but sometimes you need the kill, and you need it right this second. And, you don't need the extra.

If you're going for civvies though, for sure get your confidence up gents. Girls, I find in almost any age, they look for dudes who will listen to them talk about themselves and the bitch at her work, and they like men who have job and home and car and give a fsck about how do they look even if they're ugly dudes.

Try spending every Saturday at Home Goods, Target and Michael’s or Joanne’s. That will turn any man into a monger!

 

[BIGBOB62]

HAHAHAHAHAHA…
My friend, if I could pull civvie girls I would NOT be spending 5 figures a year on this hobby

Ditto, but I'd modify it a little. I can get all the fat 45+ year old civvies I want. I can't get anything near the quality I pay for, at least not in USA.