What I said is 100% factual. People identifying as cats and dogs and pixies and fairies and all of that other bullshit would never do this in a vacuum. They do it to get a response that fulfills a desire for attention. Ask any real psychiatrist.. not some bullshit therapist catering to LBGTQ .. those are activists in disguise as therapists. This identity thing is nonsense. It didn't occur as part of your biogical human development like your sexual orientation. It was created by the individual to enhance one's feelings.. feelings don't count in the fundamental buildings blocks of the universe as they relate to science, and math. There is nothing political about that. I used the term conservatives in my previous note, actually pushing back on the quasi conservative and Christian belief that if you get therapy u won't be gay. I think my point is well enough articulated that anybody would recognize it not to be bullshit other than a very liberal ststement ( not a liberal person)...which now substitutes facts for... "that is my truth"
I have much different take on the topic. In almost everything behavioral, we have general argument "nature vs nurture": the thought that a behavior might be inborn, or taught. People who are gays and their chattle always claim of course that it's "nature". Why? A protected class is by legal definition one that includes members who have inherent qualities. If they instead say that it's "nurture", or anything in between, then it's not like being black or being female, which are protected because the members cannot do anything about it. Are there gays who are gay only later in life, or non-gays who were gay before but not now? Of course, I know these people intimately. But the television gays and the political gays will never say anything other than "natural", to keep the protected status.
Is it possible then that everyone has gay in them, and it's social conditioning that suppresses it? Could be. "My truth" is things said by mentally ill people to justify their public display of their illness. To the point though, identity IS anything one person might choose. Can I identify as a giraffe and a bicycle? Why not? Is the mental illness of "first person syndrome", where the entire universe exists around a person, with that person as the central and only character, everyone else being NPCs. This is narcissism, schizophrenia, megalomania, oppositional defiant disorder. All this, but do the rest of us have to accept or financially support "my truth"? Of course no. I don't support anything that provides people a financial safety net, which I pay for, to "be themselves". We have a culture whereby we all win when we all pull in the same direction, instead of the permissive culture which is more like the players on those old timey vibrating football games; everyone kind of wandering around in different directions, with success happening sometimes, but randomly and without any purpose. If dudes are making something valuable for the universe, and then at home are fucking dudes up the ass, I feel like no one ought to be judging them. Dudes who spend every moment of every day "being a faggot", I feel like their contribution to the rest of us nets negative, as I end up somehow paying for them to eat and live in a home because their mental illness prevents them from being productive in a consistent way, and this we all ought to be judging 100%. Live "your truth", but don't come crying to me when no one will hire you with inserted boobs and a cut off dick and having to call off every other Monday due to "bowel issues".
Is it possible to suck a dick and still be a functional person? Of course. I think just like in every other subculture, there are people who are a person first and a gay second, then there are people who are gays first and nothing second. The rest of us ought to embrace anyone who lives his own life as he likes, but doesn't let this define him. If you think of all the famous gays in the history, if there is one who didn't repulse you, would it be the one who made his bones and was loved by everyone for his success, but later we found out he was a gay? I think who we let blow us in our homes is unrelated to our performance as free natural human beings. Those who spend their entire waking time focused on their identity end up having no identity at all.