Would You Wife an AMP Woman?

[brrdmmn]

Story time.

I used to be a frequent customer to a girl, not gonna disclose any personal information because that’s her business, and it got to the point where we met outside of work more and more often—to the point we start living together. At this point, she tells me she is gonna stop working, and I believe it.

I’m in my late 20s and she’s is around 15 years older and although knowing the circumstances of how we met and her past, I let my pride go for her.

Here is where it gets juicy though—she becomes pregnant, and it’s a huge deal for us, but because of the nature of my work I had to leave out of state for a couple months.

Lo and behold, as soon as I leave the reviews of her start showing up here, and they’re written by some very respected users here. I’m not holding a grudge, again because I know it’s all business and a method of income, but her not being honest with me is what is killing me.

What I’m trying to say is, would an AMP woman be up to leave this kind of lifestyle?

 

[thieftakergeneral]

I'm in my late 20s and my gut instinct is no. As corny as it sounds, the "Argentinian" singer from that 2001 film Moulin Rouge has it right.

 

[ronaldshoe]

What is drawing her to return? Strictly money? Only career she knows? Not depending on anyone else?

are you certain it’s your kid? Consider getting tested.

maybe think of it as an open relationship. Having that said, is there enough trust to keep it together?

 

[brrdmmn]

What is drawing her to return? Strictly money? Only career she knows? Not depending on anyone else?

From what I know, she has been doing this for a long time and on top of that, like many of the girls, they don’t have papers so finding a legit job is difficult.

 

[ronaldshoe]

lack of honesty will make it very difficult. Most providers are a bit whacked in the head for obvious reasons. To answer your question, yes I do believe some leave the industry for good. Flip side, would she believe you will stop mongering for good?

 

[Zzzz]

Story time.

I used to be a frequent customer to a girl, not gonna disclose any personal information because that’s her business, and it got to the point where we met outside of work more and more often—to the point we start living together. At this point, she tells me she is gonna stop working, and I believe it.

I’m in my late 20s and she’s is around 15 years older and although knowing the circumstances of how we met and her past, I let my pride go for her.

Here is where it gets juicy though—she becomes pregnant, and it’s a huge deal for us, but because of the nature of my work I had to leave out of state for a couple months.

Lo and behold, as soon as I leave the reviews of her start showing up here, and they’re written by some very respected users here. I’m not holding a grudge, again because I know it’s all business and a method of income, but her not being honest with me is what is killing me.

What I’m trying to say is, would an AMP woman be up to leave this kind of lifestyle?

The question you should be asking yourself is, “Do I have the means to provide her with the lifestyle that eliminates this type of work as a viable job option in her mind?”

Most gals don’t want to continue on in this work, but the money is difficult to give up. Although you may read reviews that suggest she gave a monger the time of his life, a lot of times it’s all an act and they have limited interest getting drilled by a stranger.

But if you’re late 20’s, then your gal is over 40, and you said she has been in this business for a while. Many times, the longer gals spend in this business the more warped their minds get with the compounding trauma of being screwed by strange men. It’s better to attempt to pull a gal out of the business when she’s still fairly new (less than 6 months in).

Also, did she owe you her honesty? Did you guys commit to always being honest with each other? If not, muck it up and move on.

 

[Tyler1]

Nice try there AMP girl....

Tbh I would say no. Neither party would trust the other. Mongers will keep mongering and providers will keep providing.

Doubt that will change. I'm already against marriage to women in general (marriage is a meme in 2020), but now a provider as well? RIP

 

[cocolover81]

Soooo she went back to work after having your baby? Get a paternity test.

As for wifin' up an AMP girl... I can kinda fantasize a little bit. Short answer, no. Long answer, maybe yes because of exceptions.

It depends on the woman's personality, her stage in life, and if she is ambitious enough to want and live a normal life with me.

A lot of these women come over with temp visa's and work to make ends meet to support a family back home. I wouldn't say like a lot of these women are messed up in the head, but this really is the oldest profession in history. If this is all they have known to make money, it's hard. You would have to be balling well enough to support them to the point where they wouldn't feel the need to continue this line or work and just go find some job to keep them busy.

What would scare and kinda intimidate me is more to do with the fact that there's 100% gonna be "baggage" to come with these women. If you wife her, that opens up citizenship and a path for chain migration; time to sponsor her family over, etc.

 

[hawaii78]

The lying is the big issue here, if she really cared about you, she would tell you that she is going back to for a specific reason, let it be money, she needs the sex or something.

Just to share on this topic, I have been spending time with a provider and have been able to take her out of the business. She had decided to stop working to be with me. Even though the reviews of her say she is having a great time during the sessions, she does not enjoy the work at all, but it is the easiest way for her to make good money. I do support her monetarily, but it is something I can afford. She definitely took a pay cut to be with me.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Story time.

I used to be a frequent customer to a girl, not gonna disclose any personal information because that’s her business, and it got to the point where we met outside of work more and more often—to the point we start living together. At this point, she tells me she is gonna stop working, and I believe it.

I’m in my late 20s and she’s is around 15 years older and although knowing the circumstances of how we met and her past, I let my pride go for her.

Here is where it gets juicy though—she becomes pregnant, and it’s a huge deal for us, but because of the nature of my work I had to leave out of state for a couple months.

Lo and behold, as soon as I leave the reviews of her start showing up here, and they’re written by some very respected users here. I’m not holding a grudge, again because I know it’s all business and a method of income, but her not being honest with me is what is killing me.

What I’m trying to say is, would an AMP woman be up to leave this kind of lifestyle?

15 years older???
Holy crap!
25 years YOUNGER is too old for me!
Run! Run like HELL kid! RUN!!!

 

[brrdmmn]

Also, did she owe you her honesty? Did you guys commit to always being honest with each other? If not, muck it up and move on.

We don’t owe each other anything, but a relationship takes effort on both sides. An open communication is very important, in my opinion.

 

[Tyler1]

15 years older???
Holy crap!
25 years YOUNGER is too old for me!
Run! Run like HELL kid! RUN!!!

See autoslim knows where its at.

Too bad I like older women lol... praying I like younger women when I hit 30.

 

[nycdude]

No, I would never marry an amp woman. A sugar baby I meet on SA, maybe.

 

[Evolfonam]

Wow man, this is quite a dilemma you find yourself in!

I'm curious... I noticed you just joined ampr a little over a month ago, so I wonder if you joined to investigate if guys are reviewing her as of late, which would lead me to assume that you already had some trust issues happening before/during your absence.

As dude's here have said, it would be difficult to trust that a veteran amp girl would just put this career behind her. That said, they all leave at some point in their lives, and all for their own individual reasons. The BIG thing imo, is that she's pregnant! If that's yours dude, wow, you've got some big decision making to do.

And... she's pregnant now and still providing?!

I'm sure it's extremely disappointing that she couldn't show enough respect to be open and honest with you about this.

 

[AugustWhite123]

Story time.

I used to be a frequent customer to a girl, not gonna disclose any personal information because that’s her business, and it got to the point where we met outside of work more and more often—to the point we start living together. At this point, she tells me she is gonna stop working, and I believe it.

I’m in my late 20s and she’s is around 15 years older and although knowing the circumstances of how we met and her past, I let my pride go for her.

Here is where it gets juicy though—she becomes pregnant, and it’s a huge deal for us, but because of the nature of my work I had to leave out of state for a couple months.

Lo and behold, as soon as I leave the reviews of her start showing up here, and they’re written by some very respected users here. I’m not holding a grudge, again because I know it’s all business and a method of income, but her not being honest with me is what is killing me.

What I’m trying to say is, would an AMP woman be up to leave this kind of lifestyle?

No, I’m in a similar situation and at the end of the day, they only care about money. Get a paternity test!

 

[charliebrown]

Definitely get a test. decisions made on your ENTIRE FUTURE LIFE should be made with the facts. If it is not your child. Slow the fuck down and do not even discuss marriage with her. If the child is born in america, it will be a US citizen and she will get citizenship bestowed upon her.

If the test comes back positive and you are the father, I would still not get married. You can pay for the apartment and let her live in your house and continue a relationship, but she will have the child, the child will be a citizen and if the Father is Unknown, Uncle Sam will help you out tremendously in raising the child. It is a system that has perpetrated for awhile.

If you and her discussed her going back after stopping, that is one thing, but if she went back without telling you and out of boredom of for money and you are not communicating about it, it just sounds like a hole in the relationship.

I married a woman 2 years older than me, I am not complaining because she had kept up well until her 50's. I had one brother who married a woman 15 years older than him. I had a second bother who married a woman 10 years younger than him. When each one of those brothers woke up on their 40th birthday for a wonderful birthday romp, which brother enjoyed his birthday more?

good luck no matter what you do, but please do not think that you HAVE to get MARRIED. if the child is yours, you are actually already bonded thru the legal system.

 

[Zippy17]

I could see marrying (or just being with) a provider if all of the other elements of a good relationship were there. While I never got to know them well enough to really know (because I’m already happily married), I’ve met at least 3 or 4 girls through this hobby (two of whom my wife has met) who seem like they could definitely be worth the effort to consider as a real partner. Unfortunately, not having to worry about someone doing shit like this behind your back is one of the most important prerequisite elements. I don’t think that has anything to do with having been a provider, either.

In principle, if you see girls as a client and you still consider yourself a good person who deserves a nice relationship, I don’t think you have any right to think any less of a girl who does this for a living. Sex does not define you as a good or bad person; it’s all the other shit you do in life (some of which can can certainly also come up in how you treat people on either side of this business) that defines what kind of person you are, and none of that should be the slightest bit different based on gender, notwithstanding totally bullshit societal mores to the contrary.

 

[이 회장님]

I volunteered as an interpreter during their interview with an immigration officer for a few members in other similar websites who married a Korean provider. So I’ve seen some of them leave the business for good.

I’ve also seen bad breakups between a provider and a customer. Last year I was at Gold Spa and some crazy Chinese customer came yelling for someone. This guy went to every amp in Passaic looking for her. And she was working at Gold. The MMS told me that they were living together and she left and then he got upset and decided to hunt her down.

I told the MMS that the guy should eat a Snickers but she didn’t get the joke. lol.

 

[Swen]

I married a woman 2 years older than me, I am not complaining because she had kept up well until her 50's. I had one brother who married a woman 15 years older than him. I had a second bother who married a woman 10 years younger than him. When each one of those brothers woke up on their 40th birthday for a wonderful birthday romp, which brother enjoyed his birthday more?

The one who married 15 years older of course, he married a hot Colombian spinner who is a nympho. Your other brother married a prude. /s

 

[Bigkhak]

Even porn stars get married, retire and have kids.

There are tons of people with open relationships.

We all have our reasons and secrets we cannot tell anyone.

I know of 3 ex working girls who’s happily married with kids.

One, I still keep in touch with and have lunch or dinner with her when I go back to LA. I even went shopping for baby clothes with her for her son.

The other two, I know because the MMS, showed me wedding photos and the baby photos.