This is just my limited experience. 2nd SB, found on SA after hundreds of mesages sent and dozens of meets. Shes amazing, lives at home, last yr of college, saving up for grad school. Doesnt want a clingy, immature boyfriend. Im the closest shes ever gotten to know someone amongst previous relationships. We're going onto 5 months and still building. Planning our first weekend trip away together. I do PPM with her but discussing flat monthly, but as others said, there're advantages to per meet. For example, our schedules just hasn't allowed a meeting for 2 weeks now. I give her 700 per meet which is always hotel. I like dinners but she'd rather just stay indoors for the intimacy. We order in a lot. We text or chat every day . We're pushing comfort zone by doing more public activities. I haven't been to an AMP since I started on SA since March or April this year, and no temptation at all to go back. Ive gone to legit massage places though. When school started, she became busy and more distant. I communicated my displeasure and she has tried hard to improve, which speaks volumes. During this time, I got back on SA and connected with a few potentials but quickly realized how crappy the environment is out there. I just got lucky with this one, met her on her first day on the site. My premium SA account has expired and Im hoping to not have to renew any time soon!