Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[VJLUTZ]

Personally, I prefer the "per meet" model; its cheaper and more flexible (for both of us). The monthly allowance thing can be abused on both sides, especially if there are exclusivity demands or expectations. And if your schedule get hectic, then you may end up paying for nothing. If the SB can host, it becomes more cost effective (on an hourly basis) than an AMP. Even better, no worries about LE and therefore much more relaxed. During the summer, after the main event, we usually jump in her hot tub for a while, followed by a shower, small talk over coffee and a bagel and then I'm gone. It's a big reason why my spa visits have gone way (way) down.

 

[TGBeldin]

Not Manhattan. Not the NE corridor. Not big cities. So yes, I assume the price would be higher in NYC, DC, Boston, etc.

The one I helped get an internship and then a job was a 23 y/o student. Everyone else was was 25-45+.

 

[hohohokus]

Range I have seen is 400-600 per meet, meet can be multiple hours with no additional cost, usually i provide hotel but have found a few SBs who can host. i'm in NYC. I think the "standard" idea is you take the SB out to a nice dinner, then back to your place or hotel for fun. I don't do the dinner part and the SBs don't seem to mind.

 

[Slimm]

It finished as soon as it started sorry to report, LLuger. Immature and a thief to boot!

This sounds like a good story. If you ever want to vent, please do so here.

 

[PhillyC55]

I can never find any that host in the pa/south jersey area

 

[Uniquelyme]

I can never find any that host in the pa/south jersey area

Most of them don't host. You might find one who charges $500-600 and she might got her own spot and be able to host.

If the Woman can host she's seeing several guys or maybe even a stripper etc.

The SB's low volume either live with parents or have several roommates.

Become friendly with a manager at a short stay motel. Try and get one for 2-3 hrs $50 or so.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Hey, mind if I ask you a question? I saw some people say that whatever the going rate is - lets say 200-300 is per hour. If you take them out to dinner, hang out have drinks, go back for fun - lets say it ends up being 3 hours. Is the rate negotiated an hourly rate? or is it for whatever amount of time you get together for?

Also.. like you I'm married as well. Do the SB's typically have their own places or do you also have to pay for a hotel room then?

thank you my good man - I have been hesitant to try that site, but might given the positive reviews.

SA is what you make of it. If you take her out for drinks... Only drinks pay around the rate you guys agreed on. See her for several hours. This shit shouldn't be treated like an amp.

Most SB's don't have spots to host. Some may be able to parents not at home etc. Or roommates are gone for the day. Check my prior post.

Negotiate that you will see them often. So lower the amt they ask. Tell her you are normal, fun and you will take care of her. Make her feel comfortable and pretty and watch her panties come off nice and wet. Be cool af. Non judgmental, open minded etc. Good luck.


You play the game right virtually everyone can clean up on SA.

 

[PhillyC55]

SA is what you make of it. If you take her out for drinks... Only drinks pay around the rate you guys agreed on. See her for several hours. This shit shouldn't be treated like an amp.

Most SB's don't have spots to host. Some may be able to parents not at home etc. Or roommates are gone for the day. Check my prior post.

Negotiate that you will see them often. So lower the amt they ask. Tell her you are normal, fun and you will take care of her. Make her feel comfortable and pretty and watch her panties come off nice and wet. Be cool af. Non judgmental, open minded etc. Good luck.


You play the game right virtually everyone can clean up on SA.

Pretty much only problem with sa is weeding through all the flakes and bots on the site it can be a part time job

 

[VJLUTZ]

Just saw this:

https://www.zerohedge.com/economics/why-are-so-many-tier-1-college-girls-turning-soft-prostitution

 

[charliebrown]

They fail to discuss that the number of scams on the site is what really increased.

 

[VJLUTZ]

The really ironic thing to me about the Zero Hedge article is this: Feminism has come full circle. It is now the height of Feminist empowerment to whore yourself out for a better lifestyle. It's especially heroic (in their minds) if they use to advance their education. I wonder how many of the hotties will discover they can make far more money as whores than they can even as doctors or lawyers? Plus no student debt and a much lessened bite from the tax man.

 

[charliebrown]

The really ironic thing to me about the Zero Hedge article is this: Feminism has come full circle. It is now the height of Feminist empowerment to whore yourself out for a better lifestyle. It's especially heroic (in their minds) if they use to advance their education. I wonder how many of the hotties will discover they can make far more money as whores than they can even as doctors or lawyers? Plus no student debt and a much lessened bite from the tax man.

What makes you think they will not continue a professional career and moonlight for extra cash. Wouldn't that be the best of both worlds?

 

[VJLUTZ]

What makes you think they will not continue a professional career and moonlight for extra cash. Wouldn't that be the best of both worlds?

Possible, except for two things.
1. Whoring is such easy money that they might get tired of doing an actual job during they day. It may leave them with too little energy for their side job. Before too long, the tail might start wagging the dog.
2. If they ever get found out, that will be the end of their professional career. Even if she did not get fired, rumors might fly; and women are very, very sensitive to rumors. All it would really take is for the woman to inadvertently let someone who knows her see her private pics.

 

[charliebrown]

They would not do volume, they would due high paying escort dinners and weekend engagements, Not much different that the professional woman with her the love of her life and no money. One woman goes out for a slice of pizza and an hour session with her boyfriend, The other woman goes out with an older gentleman to a five star restaurant, an hour or two session and $1K worth of bitcoin. I am not entirely sure the risks are as high as you suspect. Some may actually like the suspense, the thrill, the variation in men and the icing on top which is additional money for debt reduction, or other various necessities.

 

[TGBeldin]

Possible, except for two things.
1. Whoring is such easy money that they might get tired of doing an actual job during they day. It may leave them with too little energy for their side job. Before too long, the tail might start wagging the dog.
2. If they ever get found out, that will be the end of their professional career. Even if she did not get fired, rumors might fly; and women are very, very sensitive to rumors. All it would really take is for the woman to inadvertently let someone who knows her see her private pics.

No on many counts.

No, it is not easy money. Those who make big dollars generally put far more time and energy into it than guys want to acknowledge.

Sessions with a few of their regulars might be both physically and mentally enjoyable, but that is not all by any means. Most who become doctors, lawyers, engineers, geophysicists, etc. are unlikely to find sex work more mentally satisfying.

Most I have talked with do it for one reason: one paid date a week brings in more $ than flipping burgers 20 hours, or being a barista. It let's them keep loan totals down and not eat too badly into their study time. A SA guy who turns into a pseudo SD (or a real one) is the jackpot.

Those who keep it up after graduation--at least the smart ones--have no scandalous photos, don't have written ads that can be traced to them, and are as discrete as a millionaire worried about a messy divorce.

For many, it doubles as their sex life because their career does not allow real dating/boyfriend at that moment. If coworkers find out she's fucking a guy, she brushes it off as a BF. It often is the closest she might have to a BF until she feels comfortable enough in her career to afford the time to have areal one.

 

[FLW19x3]

The really ironic thing to me about the Zero Hedge article is this: Feminism has come full circle. It is now the height of Feminist empowerment to whore yourself out for a better lifestyle. It's especially heroic (in their minds) if they use to advance their education. I wonder how many of the hotties will discover they can make far more money as whores than they can even as doctors or lawyers? Plus no student debt and a much lessened bite from the tax man.

Just add to that the fact that youth is their leverage and with advancing age, that leverage diminishes. That's the world in 2019! Wouldn't surprise me if at least some of these chicks are also social justice warriors (although that is speculation).

 

[Dc46]

Hey, mind if I ask you a question? I saw some people say that whatever the going rate is - lets say 200-300 is per hour. If you take them out to dinner, hang out have drinks, go back for fun - lets say it ends up being 3 hours. Is the rate negotiated an hourly rate? or is it for whatever amount of time you get together for?

Also.. like you I'm married as well. Do the SB's typically have their own places or do you also have to pay for a hotel room then?

thank you my good man - I have been hesitant to try that site, but might given the positive reviews.

It’s a flat fee. I give mine 250 a week. See her a couple of days a week for a quick lunch, then a few evenings for a few hours. Total hours I see her on an actual meet up in evening is 3-4 hours. I make it feel like an actual “ real” date. Dinner, walk a mall a little bit, movies, etc. Then we go back to her place. Nuff said. Totally different then any Amp or Escort experience.

 

[Dc46]

Most of them don't host. You might find one who charges $500-600 and she might got her own spot and be able to host.

If the Woman can host she's seeing several guys or maybe even a stripper etc.

The SB's low volume either live with parents or have several roommates.

Become friendly with a manager at a short stay motel. Try and get one for 2-3 hrs $50 or so.

In fact if I found a 22-28 year old able to host at 1pm in afternoon that’s a red flag to at least me she is an escort/provider.

What normal real girl with a regular job can host at 1pm?

I also find that many say they can’t cause they are worried about their safety. Also, they may live alone. After building some trust with her, she could open her place to you.

 

[VJLUTZ]

Most of them don't host. You might find one who charges $500-600 and she might got her own spot and be able to host.

Out here in PA, many do host for no extra cost. Actually, I won't use one that won't host. It's too much trouble and expense to deal a motel, especially during the day.

 

[Jackson1503]

I have had very good success with Seeking Arrangement. (PHILADELPHIA). I recommend. Fact is, if you are a decent guy and not a jerk, you will be in bed with some terrific women (and after the first two or three times, the $$ is not even a subject). I happen to LOVE ASIANS and this is my go-to beyond the AMPs. Something in-between a dating and a PPM is how I would describe SA. PM for details.