I've had mostly good experience with AMPs over the last 18 years. However, there is always the pucker factor (due to the fear of busts and/or being seen). Sometimes I also get tired of having an inconsistent experience, even at the best AMPs. The constant turnover of providers contributes to this. And the communication barrier with the girls is sometimes tiresome.
I joined SA for a single month recently. I had sampled it two years ago, but without results. This time, thanks to some tips from users on this site, it was much better. I met with four girls, but negotiated with a lot more. My range per meeting was 100-300. My criteria were: age, looks, ethnicity (prefer Asian or White), cost, location and willingness to host. The last is important as really don't want to have to pay for a meeting AND a motel. I was surprised at how many of these girls will send you nude pics prior to a meet without even being asked.
There are two I am still seeing who are both 300 per meet. That is more than a spa visit (which can run ~200) but in some ways it is worth it. One is Asian and one is White, but they are both in their early 30s and very hot.
Pros:
-- The meets are 2-3 hours long, unrushed, and are more in depth than I get with most providers.
-- The experience is totally raw, which is not the case with AMPs. In fact, regardless of what they say prior, they always go raw on the first meet.
-- Lastly, and perhaps most important, no fear of LE or being seen going into/out of an AMP. The initial meeting is always a bit tense (it could be a set up), but these girls almost always answer the door very scantily clad on the first meeting. I also ask them to touch before anything changes hands.
-- Discretion. These girls are very discrete. They have lives too that they don't want ruined.
-- If you keep seeing the girl, you will get to know each other. This can be good or bad.
Cons:
-- $90 a month to subscribe to SA. However, I limited it to one month
-- No guarantee of massage
-- Once you find a girl you are comfortable with, you can stick with her. That is mostly a good thing, but I still get the itch to explore.
-- As you might expect, lots of girls in the NYC area. However, these tend to have stratospheric expectations. It seems like 600 is the minimum for a meet there.
-- Paradoxically, lots of old, White MILFs have stratospheric expectations too.
-- I had some duds. One girl stood me up. Another girl was a lot thicker than the headshots in the photo led me to believe. She also wasn't wearing makeup. Fortunately, that was the 100 encounter.
-- There are some real creepy crawlers on SA. I had one "girl" who was clearly trying to scam me. Another did a nude striptease on a video chat and then implied she had recorded it. During the striptease, she encouraged me to show my dick, which, luckily, I did not do. She did not ask for $$, but I think it was an attempt at blackmail. I told her to go fuck herself (which she seemed to be good at anyway).
Tips:
-- One technique I use is to ask a girl to do something unique (like touch her nose) then send me a picture immediately. This at least assures she is who she purports to be.
-- Don't go to a meeting unless they text that they are on their way. It's not surefire, but it helps.
-- Pick a girl who is at least 20 minutes away from where you live.
-- Stay away from girls 18-21. 22 is my minimum, but I am really more comfortable with 25 or over.
-- Don't take any ID into the meeting.