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What would you tell yourself before getting into this hobby?
- Thread starter duckslave94
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What would I tell myself? Dont go by pictures or price, trust reviews, trust reviews trust reviews. Every time i went by pictures over reviews i got burned.
In other observations:
Whores and mongers are both dysfunctional. We represent the extremes of our gender's worst qualities. For men it is total and unconstrained wanderlust. Its like ordering food. I joke with my civilian friends its like dial a pussy.
Whores are unconstrained extreme hypergamy, to the point where they monetized individual sex acts. If you date a whore, you better have DEEP pockets. And trust me money is not a strong foundation for a relationship. Unless you have millions, she will always belong to the streets.
In other observations:
Whores and mongers are both dysfunctional. We represent the extremes of our gender's worst qualities. For men it is total and unconstrained wanderlust. Its like ordering food. I joke with my civilian friends its like dial a pussy.
Whores are unconstrained extreme hypergamy, to the point where they monetized individual sex acts. If you date a whore, you better have DEEP pockets. And trust me money is not a strong foundation for a relationship. Unless you have millions, she will always belong to the streets.
My advice would be to work hard young, make your money and invest it, then do this hobby later in life. Im at a point where I could retire if I wanted to, I don't have to spend as much extra time developing my career, but I use my job to fund my play and can get out 3-4 times a week. If I'd done this earlier, I'd be broke, and have no job skills. The thing I've seen about these asian girls too, is that they are very accommodating to older guys, much more so than Caucasian women. So you can really feel convinced that this 25 year old asian girl is really getting off as much as you are. So I'd dabble if you're in your thirties, but not at the expense of your career. And at this point I'd never get married, at least not to anyone within 25 years of my age.
Aside from that I'd tell you that it's just like a job in terms of building contacts with these girls and maintaining connections. Girls move on, retire, go back to China, etc. But if you stayed connected to them you know when they are back in town, or in a city you visit. Plus they will steer you to someone else great and pass along solid recommendations. 15 years in now, I rarely need to cold call a new girl. Don't burn your bridges.
Aside from that I'd tell you that it's just like a job in terms of building contacts with these girls and maintaining connections. Girls move on, retire, go back to China, etc. But if you stayed connected to them you know when they are back in town, or in a city you visit. Plus they will steer you to someone else great and pass along solid recommendations. 15 years in now, I rarely need to cold call a new girl. Don't burn your bridges.
Great advice @BIGBOB62.... solid and sound. 
Advice to myself? Inspect my penis and balls very very closely. I’d never been with a woman other than my wife for about 20 years. After my first experience I started noticing tiny spots and freckles and was freaked the fuck out. Was on a trip out of the country with my wife the week after and spent the entire 2 weeks stressed that I’d acquired some disease even after wearing a cover. Turns out after the travel, a doc told me it was all normal spots and freckles. Could have spent those two weeks fucking the wife in a foreign country but never even tried because of the concerns.
I look at this hobby as a lot of fun and more of a supplement not the main course ( relationships) and price wise going out for a nice dinner.My only advice is have fun with a provider and never believe her if she states” only you and I love you” .Remember this hobby should be a side dish with money you can afford.I love this hobby and have had a blast no regrets.
@HoldenMcGroin I went through the same panic when they started showing up on me a few years ago. It was definitely a stressful couple of weeks until I learned that it was Fordyce. I have very unnoticeable ones in the corners of my top lip and on my dick .. You can see how concerning this was. Lol.
This is key! Saw providers for 7 years and transitioned to sugar babies, got emotionally attached and sloppy, nearly blew up my marriage. Thousands upon thousands on therapy and retreats. Story does have a happy ending in that wife was open minded enough to join me for a few 3some over that past couple of years as long as she got to pick the lady.
You're only as old or young as you feel.
Regarding the OP's statement, I would say 30 and under, because at that age, you have so many options and are still figuring out life. I mean, shit, even 35 or 40, or whatever age you are, people grow. Or at least they should. Which is why people get divorced, start new jobs, careers, move homes, states, etc.
I know I'm getting off topic, but I guess in terms of at what point is the "cut off" point to get out or put a toe in? I would say try and stay out till your 30. Some people may try it once and get hooked, like anything.
From my personal experience, (even though I started at an older age), if I had to do it again, I would. The women who I've met in this business were great. Some beautiful, interesting and amazing women I would have never come across had it not been for this.
I also made the cardinal sin of falling for an escort. I know, I know. I know my story has probably been said and heard a thousand times over, but this really felt different. I will say I made my feelings clear early on, she didn't reciprocate, not with just me, but she said she didn't want a relationship with anyone. She didn't think she could and she was a genuine person. She didn't try to "take advantage" knowing what I told her, was flattered, had no idea, and we talked it out.
As long as you keep your "feelings" out of this and are mature no matter what your age, and are able to do it financially and responsibly (not doing shit that may fuck with your health long term), I say live, love, laugh.
Life's too short. Especially with the introduction of 'rona into our world. The misplaced xenophobia and hate springing up everywhere, or people just really starting to show their true selves, and the mental impact all this "social distancing" and mask crap is having on people, who knows what this world looks like in 5 years, if we're even still here.
Regarding the OP's statement, I would say 30 and under, because at that age, you have so many options and are still figuring out life. I mean, shit, even 35 or 40, or whatever age you are, people grow. Or at least they should. Which is why people get divorced, start new jobs, careers, move homes, states, etc.
I know I'm getting off topic, but I guess in terms of at what point is the "cut off" point to get out or put a toe in? I would say try and stay out till your 30. Some people may try it once and get hooked, like anything.
From my personal experience, (even though I started at an older age), if I had to do it again, I would. The women who I've met in this business were great. Some beautiful, interesting and amazing women I would have never come across had it not been for this.
I also made the cardinal sin of falling for an escort. I know, I know. I know my story has probably been said and heard a thousand times over, but this really felt different. I will say I made my feelings clear early on, she didn't reciprocate, not with just me, but she said she didn't want a relationship with anyone. She didn't think she could and she was a genuine person. She didn't try to "take advantage" knowing what I told her, was flattered, had no idea, and we talked it out.
As long as you keep your "feelings" out of this and are mature no matter what your age, and are able to do it financially and responsibly (not doing shit that may fuck with your health long term), I say live, love, laugh.
Life's too short. Especially with the introduction of 'rona into our world. The misplaced xenophobia and hate springing up everywhere, or people just really starting to show their true selves, and the mental impact all this "social distancing" and mask crap is having on people, who knows what this world looks like in 5 years, if we're even still here.
Well put...it's dessert. It's meant to supplement one's life, and not to be the main course.
Football, baseball fantasy camps, Civil War reentactors---if their idea is heaven on earth is getting sweaty with other middle aged guys as they fulfill their dreams more power to them. But playing with Darryl Strawberry doesn't make him your teammate.
It's the same thing in our fantasy world, no matter how much game you think that you have.
And game is what we have to get wives and girlfriends, put real work into it. This pastime doesn't take much work except to be well groomed and polite.
Football, baseball fantasy camps, Civil War reentactors---if their idea is heaven on earth is getting sweaty with other middle aged guys as they fulfill their dreams more power to them. But playing with Darryl Strawberry doesn't make him your teammate.
It's the same thing in our fantasy world, no matter how much game you think that you have.
And game is what we have to get wives and girlfriends, put real work into it. This pastime doesn't take much work except to be well groomed and polite.
What I would tell myself 10 years ago when I first started:
- Walk away if you're not happy with the provider brought to your room or ask for someone else, respectfully. It's your money and they're not the only game in town.
- Don't go on a whim. The post nut clarity if your experience is bad stings a bit more.
- Find a couple of reliable places and rotate them.
- Treat them like you would any other person. Being cordial has gotten me a couple of numbers. I did nothing with them, but it was good to have.
- Don't feel grossed out or ashamed because you're younger and doing this. You'll be made to feel as if you're welcome and it's a change of pace for them.