Didn’t leave my wife

[nycdude]

Voodoo Pussy !

Puts you into a trance and you do all kinds of crazy stupid things.

 

[Kingfish411]

Thoughts on the following....

I met a really hot 24 yo on Seeking Arrangement a couple years back- she is 20 years younger than me. Things got really heavy where we said I love you many times and talked about marriage. I stopped paying her per meet and got her an apartment.

But I decided to stay with my wife and the girl left me.

She and my wife and different.

Wife: we have two young kids. 5 years younger, but after two kids, is still pretty but not much effort on appearance. She is very cool but emotionally unavailable. Earns a couple hundred thousand per year and highly educated. Will still have sex.

SA girl: seriously is like a model, but a college drop out and cannot support herself. The sex over two years together became like marriage—she wanted less frequency. She also is bulimic. She is emotionally intimate with me, but represses and then when it boils up she can erupt or. Walk out.

I think I did the right thing. But it is hard not to be with a super hot 24 yo who you emotionally connect with.

I am re-reading this again and you have some issues. this "we said I love many times" is meaningless esp given the P2P relationship. This is just a mid-life crisis in action. You found a danged young chick that needed money. Nothing you

From his second post, his SB rejected him. His ONLY choice was his wife between the two of thrm. Please try and follow more accurately

Sorry did not see that one but this guy changes his story constantly. He wants male reassurance for his dysfunctional relationships. Would love to hear his wife and SB's side of the story.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

"Earns a couple hundred thousand per year and highly educated. "

That right there is a great, big, bright, burning red flag to me.
A female like that is going to be very competitive towards her husband.
She's not going to be the type to stay home and do the cooking and cleaning, and worry about if you are satisfied with her.

I am not criticizing the OP for getting involved with her. To each his own.
Just saying that this type of female would not be the type to adhere to traditional male/female rolls and dynamics.
I could never put myself in that situation, even if it were available to me -- which it hasn't been.

 

[instinctsrtrue]

All right, friends. Let’s set it straight. I ended it by booting her out of apartment. I had second thoughts and wanted her back, but she said no. I probably could’ve gotten her to change her mind, but did not make the effort. Do you understand that when you kick a girl out you are ending it? Or is your only female interaction with AMP girls? Lol

It’s All beside the point.

Sone
Or you focus on the trees not the forest

 

[OlderGuy77]

Thoughts on the following....

I met a really hot 24 yo on Seeking Arrangement a couple years back- she is 20 years younger than me. Things got really heavy where we said I love you many times and talked about marriage. I stopped paying her per meet and got her an apartment.

But I decided to stay with my wife and the girl left me.

She and my wife and different.

Wife: we have two young kids. 5 years younger, but after two kids, is still pretty but not much effort on appearance. She is very cool but emotionally unavailable. Earns a couple hundred thousand per year and highly educated. Will still have sex.

SA girl: seriously is like a model, but a college drop out and cannot support herself. The sex over two years together became like marriage—she wanted less frequency. She also is bulimic. She is emotionally intimate with me, but represses and then when it boils up she can erupt or. Walk out.

I think I did the right thing. But it is hard not to be with a super hot 24 yo who you emotionally connect with.

You dodged a major bullet. “Can’t support herself, eating disorder, boiling over something or other....”. Do you hear yourself? Yikes. Relationships like that kill men everyday

 

[Lovejones]

You did the right thing, don’t try to save these hoes or give too much. It’s like the movie Heat, don’t get involved with SB or another other woman on the side, you’re not willing to walk away from in 30 secs. However, we are all humans.